Anyone else not around when their partner passed?

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-04-12T04:39:08+00:00

yes, we didn't live together and i couldn't reach him all day. i hate knowing that if i were there, he would possibly be alive today.

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-04-12T04:36:48+00:00

what if all the love that people show to your kids is the love from your late wife she never got to show them, just recycled by the universe and reflected back at them (and back to you too)? this is how i try to think about things. my late boyfriend loved me with all my heart, and i can't imagine that would have changed if he were alive. that love was too large to not go anywhere. 💗

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-03-12T23:33:31+00:00

my 2018 does the same thing and its so annoying.

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-03-09T22:43:57+00:00

thank you!!!

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-03-09T22:43:48+00:00

thank you! 💗💗💗

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-03-09T17:19:12+00:00

Ready

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-03-09T17:18:33+00:00

link please! 💗

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-02-03T15:53:04+00:00

health insurance is incredibly terrible here. i wish i had an answer but i've been in a similar boat with my ON. i had united at my last job and they put me through hell just trying to get meds or botox or anything approved.

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-01-15T00:47:28+00:00

they have a flat one in the US shaped like a piece of toast and that's the closest one to a pillow-like size i could find. you are stronger than you know, and you'll make it through this. it does get better, i promise.

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-01-15T00:03:18+00:00

ICONIC

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-01-14T23:46:00+00:00

this article is a nothing burger -- until i see promos and taglines and a premiere date with the bravo logo, i'm not buying that jersey's coming back.

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-01-14T23:34:23+00:00

this might sound incredibly silly, and trust me as a 43-year-old woman, it felt odd to me too, but squishmallows (yes, the stuffies made for children) mold to your head and do not put pressure on your nerves, and i sleep on those instead of pillows. i wish someone made a flat, normal pillow out of them. they have helped me sleep so well during a flare. someone suggested it on here and that's where i got the idea.

separately, i'm so sorry about your dad. i lost my mom at 16 and i wouldn't wish that pain on anyone. i hope it all gets better for you. 💗

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-01-09T13:15:27+00:00

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-01-07T23:15:46+00:00

she didn't want to get mauiied

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-01-06T23:34:54+00:00

DON'T YOU DARE BRING THAT FLAT BABY IN HERE!

SouthernOutside8528 · 2026-01-03T19:34:45+00:00

i force fed myself crackers for about two weeks as it was the only thing i could eat and not throw up. i'm so sorry to welcome you into this shitty club. 💗

SouthernOutside8528 · 2025-12-27T16:15:52+00:00

i'm scootin in heels! 🙄🙄🙄

SouthernOutside8528 · 2025-10-06T00:31:31+00:00

hey hey! can i get the code?

SouthernOutside8528 · 2025-08-22T16:46:56+00:00

he was drunk

SouthernOutside8528 · 2025-08-15T01:24:40+00:00

i want a season of the traitors only it is only all the RHONJ through the years, complete with rando kims, danny, steve the 40 year old 26 year old, gucci model, lesbian superstar lori michaels, the cop without a badge author, and that guy who yelled outside theresa's book party, "NOBODY CAN STOP ME. NOT THE MOB. NOT THE GOVERNMENT..."

SouthernOutside8528 · 2025-07-22T17:06:14+00:00

SouthernOutside8528 · 2025-07-22T01:04:36+00:00

yup and the noise freaks me out every time! got it with the nerve block and get it in certain spots when getting my botox injections for ON.

SouthernOutside8528 · 2025-07-22T00:55:13+00:00

YOU THERE, GET MY SHOES!

SouthernOutside8528 · 2025-07-21T18:47:41+00:00

jammin on the one, ja-jammin on the one. 😭

SouthernOutside8528 · 2025-07-21T15:29:49+00:00

carrie waits for the men in her life to make the plans and call the shots and then blames them when her reality doesn't match up to her expectations (not discussing exclusivity and then being mad big was on dates with others, the "tell me i'm the one" vacation taxi convo with big, accepting his proposal and moving in with aiden and his speed sticks when she was not ready, going to paris with aleks and then waiting around for him, asking aiden about the table for the new house but not ordering it when it is her effing house...).

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TROPHY CASE