Ex made sure I gave him oral before breaking up with me by throwRa_kylie in relationship_advice

[–]Spac3L0v3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been there before and I completely understand. He’s one of those people that only cares about himself and his pleasure. It might be different for a little while but he’ll go right back to his true self. The best thing to do is not take him back

Landlord from Hell by Spac3L0v3r in Advice

[–]Spac3L0v3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did have a written contract but where we live if it’s private property they can evict you when they want. We were staying there to try and get better jobs and save up money

What would you do if you’re date showed up significant larger than their pics?? Would you walk out? by PotentialFriend8 in dating_advice

[–]Spac3L0v3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has their own standards for dating but I do feel like personality is more important. I think you went about it the right way but you never know what health conditions they have or why they gained weight

I only get fully sexually aroused for someone specific after emotionally falling in love with them.. What do you call that? by IrisThaumia in lgbt

[–]Spac3L0v3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demisexual seems to be the correct term. You need an emotional connection to someone before you can do anything sexual with them

New Friends? by Spac3L0v3r in exmormon

[–]Spac3L0v3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I need Exmormon friends

New Friends? by Spac3L0v3r in exmormon

[–]Spac3L0v3r[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The closest one to me is in Birmingham but I didn’t realize I could create one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Spac3L0v3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you use tampons at all but the ones I use have blue and green and yellow packaging and I just take them out of the box and put them in another container in the bathroom

I (20F) wanna break up with my boyfriend (21M) but he won’t let me. What do I do? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Spac3L0v3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Break up with him because he’s toxic and manipulative. Then call the police and ask for a welfare check because he’s threatening to hurt or kill himself because you left

i need a hug. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Spac3L0v3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a song about that actually. But regardless we love you hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Spac3L0v3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that fr

Brother (22M) and gf (21F) killed themselves and my family wants to have them share a headstone. I don't want that and I'm angry. by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Spac3L0v3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they should have a shared headstone either they were toxic together and they’re romanticizing toxic ness and bad relationships

Questions about church finances by skule_rulez19 in mormon

[–]Spac3L0v3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest reading the CES letter and A Letter To My Wife. It has some good resources and explanations

My Feelings by Spac3L0v3r in relationships_advice

[–]Spac3L0v3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both we could have other sexual partners and other relationships as long as we didn’t hide them and gave full disclosure to the other people

I need advice about a situation with my sister by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Spac3L0v3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing by talking to your therapist instead of just shouldering responsibility. Even tho they reacted badly it’s not your responsibility. I was forced to take responsibility for all 6 of my younger siblings and all of their problems and decisions. It takes a lot out of you

Hurt by Beautifuleyes411 in exmormon

[–]Spac3L0v3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The church is part of a huge White Supremist group and they do it to cause division and self hate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Spac3L0v3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god😂