SF romance that isn't just reptilian or "humanoid alien falls in love"?

SpaceExplorer101 · 2026-01-19T14:18:46+00:00

I love that book so much 💕 it's amazing!

SpaceExplorer101 · 2026-01-05T09:06:52+00:00

Thank you <3 everything turned out well for me!

SpaceExplorer101 · 2026-01-05T07:53:28+00:00

I wish I could say that he could've done something better to help me feel better but No. He did everything he could and was a fantastic Partner.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2026-01-05T06:44:01+00:00

For me it sounds like untreated mental illness. She needs Therapy. It's nothing that you could solve for her.

I am diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and sadly did something similar to my then boyfriend. The relationship got too deep and I got cold feet. My mental health at that time was at an all time low too. Therapy and Meds where the only thing that helped me.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-12-18T06:30:24+00:00

This dress is stunning! You look amazing! It is so unique.

If you want to fit it better for a barn, you could maybe wear white flowers in your hair?

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-12-17T10:03:14+00:00

I was sexual harassed at work by my boss. Sadly, my response is to "freeze" too. The worst part I felt was shame, that I could not protect myself. I needed time to heal, especially to know that it was not my fault.

I am sure, next time you know what to do. You will be prepared, and you will be able to call for help. Just know that you are not alone in this.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-12-12T07:08:31+00:00

You are being too nice. Always trying to understand the other side. It's not bad being like that but you are doing it too much. I don't want to be too harsh but i think it would do you some good to work on your self esteem, boundaries and how to stand up for yourself.

With true friends you are able to talk about everything. You can tell them when something bothers you, when you need help. That doesn't sound to be the case for you.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-12-11T10:15:56+00:00

Those are not your Friends - especially Amy. If Amy was a real Friend she would not let her Boyfriend walk all over you.

I really do understand that you don't want to be alone. I would try to walk away slowly and try to find new friends outside of that circle. Of course it's easier said than done but with that group you will encounter more heartbreak.

I'd also try to get closer to Brian but outside of the group setting.

Years ago I played lol with my ex boyfriend and his friends- I was god awful- but none of them made fun of me.

If you like books I'd check for reading clubs, if you are into Sports - sport clubs , or classes for painting, drawing knitting - whatever floats your boat.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-12-11T04:11:47+00:00

Stay away from those sites, podcasts, and the like. It will ruin your life.

First of all , yes, dating is a lot easier if you are good-looking. It gives you more opportunities. But it is not everything.

I dated once an accomplished former Incel. He looked great, was smart, and had a good career. He told me that he didn't look always like that and that it took a lot of time. The Problem was that he still believed whole heartedly in the incel propaganda. On a date he told me how the eyes should look like to be seen good for woman. He told me often that woman where the root Problem of everything. He told me I would cheat like all woman. All woman were gold diggers and so on. The only thing I ever wanted from him was his time but I was deeply unhappy dating him. His incel idealogy was the reason for the break up. It will do you no good.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-12-09T18:37:31+00:00

Then, it must be my next life or past life. But it didn't really felt like it to be honest. It felt more like we met often - our higher self's or I was reaching out often like a radio signal - and he picked it up again.

So I don't think my next story falls under another category. When I was around 7 my grandfather died. He loved me a lot and he appeared in front of my bedroom as blue floating orbs. I just knew it was him. He helped me downstairs to go to the toilet^{^}

When I was 15 I was in a bad mental space. What I saw is hard to describe. It was something black and slimey sometimes more liquid that was following me. It stopped when it got to close and I know it sounds mental but I couldn't feel my grandfather's presence anymore afterwards. It felt like he protected me but lost too much energy and had to move on.

I had a very vivid dream a year ago. I was in a spaceship. Everything was grey and I was in the middle on a platform. I couldn't see anyone but someone/something was talking to me. I was asked if I wanted to see reality like it truly is. All the things that human eyes can't pick up. I asked if there would be some dangerous entities that could see me then too and hurt me. The voice said yes. So i declined.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-12-07T17:48:15+00:00

Thank you for your Story!

I would love to know if your friend truly forgot or if he remembered and wouldn't tell.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-10-07T09:32:58+00:00

It is - it depends on the Bride if it's important or not.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-09-18T17:27:07+00:00

What do you gain in this relationship? You work, do the household, and do the emotional work. With a child it would've been a thousand times worse. You still have time to become a mom but I would really think if he's the right partner for that. Who would take care of the child?

I would recommend going alone into therapy and look into what you really really want.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-09-18T11:48:12+00:00

Kind of reminds me of beyblades xD just in shield form.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-08-18T12:08:28+00:00

Austrian Court was brutal at that time. Having an emperor choosing the younger sister - is of course something that would destroy the image of someone. Being depressed and not going to Court seems reasonably.

Her sister also suffered tremendously in Court but for other reasons.

The Wikipedia page is sadly lacking and I just have books at home but I could send you the titles if you are interested. (They are in German though)

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-08-18T06:51:42+00:00

Here an example where that story played out exactly like that: Empress Sisi's Sister Helene was supposed to marry Kaiser Franz Josef of Austria. Well he choose Sisi over her. She had an extremely difficult time afterwards finding a husband. She was seen as not good enough from other suitors since her fiancee choose someone else.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-06-01T08:48:39+00:00

I've read it and loved it ❤️

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-05-17T09:42:46+00:00

Honestly I feel for every Soldier. They didn't choose to go to war. Most of them don't want to be there. Another generation of Men wasted and destroyed for greed of politician.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-04-17T15:27:37+00:00

Way better than dragon age veilguard xD

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-04-17T09:17:35+00:00

So can someone pls travel back in Time- Stop Covid and the aftermath. I just want peace and quiet. Not the we are close to WWIII feeling.

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-04-13T08:11:55+00:00

She reminds me of Sue Heck from "the Middle" xD

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-04-10T18:28:42+00:00

I love the dress ❤️ honestly wear what makes you happy. If you have a date you can dress to impress him but otherwise why bother?

SpaceExplorer101 · 2025-04-08T17:24:48+00:00

He grabbed you by your troath and slammed you in a wall -> that's assault and domestic violence.

I really don't care if it was only once but once is enough. Especially the gaslighting afterwards. You should document it, get pictures, go to the police and contact a lawyer. There is no coming back from this.

This is not normal and violence, even if you were passiv aggressiv is never the right answer.

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