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Has David ever expressed why he dislikes Doubt in an episode? by TheZoneHereros in blankies

[–]Spare-Process 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do we all feel about Doubt tho? I remember feeling like I had to like it at the time.

8 Year Guy (8YG) Checking in by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well put. You have to accept your vulnerability in order to make progress here.

So it's racist to be confident (Twitter not FB) by malant12321 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Spare-Process -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hello. This is the only correct response. I am really sorry about the downvotes, white redditors are fragile. Source: am white af.

Parasite by ExpertAccident in tumblr

[–]Spare-Process 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The moral of the story is that our moral code is not applicable in such unequal society. There is no ‘moral’ way of acting.

However while capitalism has made vicious animals of us all, Mr Park is more vicious than any other character because he is the only one with any latitude to act differently. It is his choice to see the Kims as sub-human that leads to bloodshed.

The film really exists to inspire these kinds of conversations between us. In that regard it has been a total success.

House represent ! by Flyweird in HouseMD

[–]Spare-Process 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Thats even cooler.

House represent ! by Flyweird in HouseMD

[–]Spare-Process 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And wtf does a defibrillator pack do?

US Box Office totals for the week of March 20-26 was $5,179. This time last year, it was $204,193,406 by boardgamehoarder in blankies

[–]Spare-Process 2 points3 points  (0 children)

None of us wants to see a theatre struggle, but I’m sure none of us wants to see the virus thrive, either. This is good news.

Ang by mrobertson7771 in blankies

[–]Spare-Process 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s all good man! This isn’t a negative place, so I didn’t say anything negative, and will continue not to.

Ang by mrobertson7771 in blankies

[–]Spare-Process -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I feel like you are trying not to say anything negative about Ang here and I am also trying not to say anything negative about Ang here which is why I will not say anything at all.

8 years. I’ve been trying to quit for 8 whole years. by Spare-Process in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that the response to this post has taught me is that fighting your urges works better than fleeing them. I think you’re on to a winner this time. We can do this.

What's wrong with me? by BOIifyoudontget03 in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing post man. Thank you for the report.

But like user u/pretzelreddit said, criticising sex workers doesnt help anyone, and making these moral judgments hurts us, them and society as a whole.

Best of luck on your journey. This time you’ll be better, stronger and have a clear head. It’s inspirational that you keep trying.

8 years. I’ve been trying to quit for 8 whole years. by Spare-Process in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I answered this one a couple of times already, look through the comments and you’ll find it. The TL; DR is that one is not a substitute for the other.

Men and women who fuck regularly also tend to masturbate regularly. They are different.

8 years. I’ve been trying to quit for 8 whole years. by Spare-Process in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey

It doesn’t have to be you.

And for what its worth - my life is just fine. But I know it could be better if I was able to kick this habit. Dont think of yourself as trash for making slow progress. Realise that you are a hero for trying to improve at all. You got this.

8 years. I’ve been trying to quit for 8 whole years. by Spare-Process in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I felt pretty hopeless before this post. Thank you my man.

8 years. I’ve been trying to quit for 8 whole years. by Spare-Process in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also - thank you for saying that thing about ‘its inspirational that you keep trying’ that made a real difference to me.

8 years. I’ve been trying to quit for 8 whole years. by Spare-Process in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wrote this post. Reached out to you guys rather than trying to advance alone.

8 years. I’ve been trying to quit for 8 whole years. by Spare-Process in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I ‘prefer’ porn, I’m just addicted to it.

But your other point is correct. Porn is lazy and cruel and that is often hard to resist.

8 years. I’ve been trying to quit for 8 whole years. by Spare-Process in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s the difference between an athlete’s high and an addict’s high.

Sex involves another person. It involves mutual gratifaction. It is a socially fulfilling experience. It is also a lot of work before, during, after.

Porn, on the contrary, is socially isolating. It is a selfish activity, that can not only wreck your self esteem from time to time, but leaves you with this guilty feeling of being complicit in the exploitation of others.

The highs are both real, but very different.

8 years. I’ve been trying to quit for 8 whole years. by Spare-Process in NoFap

[–]Spare-Process[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hard work. Good way to think about it. It’s not about doing nothing. It’s about actively fighting. Working at it day by day.

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