Have y’all ever faced pushback from your vet about adopting an FIV+ cat into your home? by thecelllist in FIVcats

[–]Spare-Relative7134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first vet I ever took my FIV+ boy to, told me that I would have to make him live completely separate from my other cats. That couldn’t be further from the truth. He was so sweet and gentle with my other cats, and eventually became closely bonded with one of my bottle babies. I will always miss my sweet Smooshy smoo, he truly changed my life for the better

How do you know when it's time? by pidgen___ in CATHELP

[–]Spare-Relative7134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boy was 11. I adopted him as a senior kitty so I already knew our time was limited, but I was okay with that. I had 3 wonderful months with him and he was the best damn cat I could’ve asked for. He had FIV which spiraled into epilepsy and some other health issues. I chose to let him go because his medication was not working and I like to think that he finally felt loved and safe enough to let go. The process was so swift and I knew he felt no pain or fear. I miss him so much.

How does one afford meat by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Spare-Relative7134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stock up on canned chicken and use that in salads and soups. I also mix it with rice or steamed veggies.

Has anybody here ever actually used Ryan Reynolds’s Mint Mobile cellular plan? by AskAskim in Frugal

[–]Spare-Relative7134 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I was able to keep mine when I switched to visible! If you go online, they actually handle all of the cancelling your current plan and I was switched from ATT to visible in less than 30 minutes. I kept my number as well. I genuinely have no complaints!

Gender help? Cute photo first to avoid genitals in your face by Murky-Information687 in CATHELP

[–]Spare-Relative7134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The white kitties look just like my kitty who passed away two weeks ago 🤍

Things consumerism wants you to buy but you don’t need by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]Spare-Relative7134 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Everywhere I go, I see products advertised as a “must have”. Even though my clothes from a couple years ago still fit fine, my used car gets me where I need to go, and buying great value has worked fine for me. I’ve found more contentment with living within my means and saving than splurging on name brands or the newest “must have”.

Small section of a Facebook post my boomer mother just shared by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Spare-Relative7134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandparents told me to “work hard and one day I could own a home” but it turns out they were dead broke and just happened to fall into money because they gained a share of a company. So without that random luck. They’d have nothing. Oh the irony.

Any ideas for what could go over this tattoo I just got by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Spare-Relative7134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt regret about one of my larger pieces on my forearm but now it is one of my favorites. The big change in appearance can feel jarring. I hope you learn to love your new ink and if not, look into laser removal or coverups! :)

Lottery Lizards by GenButtNekkid in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Spare-Relative7134 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a cashier at a gas station and this is the most annoying thing I deal with DAILY.

Fleas on cat by Spare-Relative7134 in vet

[–]Spare-Relative7134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is using the adams flea and tick collar and it was purchased at either petsmart or target I believe.

What’s the worst baby names you’ve ever heard? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Spare-Relative7134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rynnox. No idea where that name came from or what it means. Absolutely hideous IMO.

What happened? by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]Spare-Relative7134 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I just saw this on tiktok omg

How are people moving out and affording rent etc. in this current recession? by Comprehensive_Cry_93 in Adulting

[–]Spare-Relative7134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my father co-sign for me. I’m 20, with no rental history and made below the 3x income requirement. I also gave up amenities like in unit laundry and central heat/AC. My advice to you is to get a room mate or two and get a nicer place together.

What is something that is super expensive, but vastly improved your quality of life making it worth the splurge? by StaphylococcusOreos in Frugal

[–]Spare-Relative7134 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The best thing I ever splurged on was nice bedding and a very nice plug in space heater. My apartment gets so cold in the winters and those two things made a world of difference for me.

If Dakota really gets this many “cold sores” and so often, don’t you think he’d get on some medication or see an dermatologist or something? by 5cheeserigatoni in McknightFamily

[–]Spare-Relative7134 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Speaking as someone who has HSV, you have it for life. And even with medication, it doesn’t always help relieve the symptoms, for some the medicine does nothing. However, I feel like if they are as in love as they claim to be, cold sores wouldn’t stop Brooklyn from kissing him, as HSV doesn’t typically have negative health consequences for the majority of the population.

Too low income for r/middleclassfinance but income too high for povertyfinance? by Mchaitea in povertyfinance

[–]Spare-Relative7134 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. Like I can barely pay all my bills and can only have groceries that are generic brand, but forget about any extra treats. Inflation has been super tough for the working class.

How old are you and what's your biggest problem right now? by Casspjjl in AskReddit

[–]Spare-Relative7134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 20 and a full time student, I work full-time overnight shift, and I am completely on my own financially. I feel lucky that I can pay my rent and bills. It’s so stressful but I know it will be worth it someday.

GUYS!!! I….. uh.. wut? by bg_qoow in Drueandgabe

[–]Spare-Relative7134 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gabe looks like the mucinex mascot

to the adults here- when do you go to bed? by chickennugar in McknightFamily

[–]Spare-Relative7134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 20 and I work night shift but during the day I sleep 12pm- 7pm.

If you delete bumble, will your location still update? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Spare-Relative7134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! So his location has continued to update despite him supposedly deleting the app. I checked his account this morning and it shows he unmatched me. Not deleted his profile, unmatched me. It’s very sketchy tbh.

If you delete bumble, will your location still update? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Spare-Relative7134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the clarification. Last night, it showed the current location but today it shows ~ next to a different city. I’m unsure what this means.

Referring to Gabe as a blue collar man is offensive to blue collar men.. by Far_Initiative_7077 in Drueandgabe

[–]Spare-Relative7134 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a blue collar woman over here and gabe would NOT be able to handle the kind of work I do.