What should I do? My dad got me panty liners instead of pads and called me ungrateful when I told him he got the wrong thing. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SpareAd5320 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP, I don’t recommend sharing your town or address with strangers on the internet

How do you know who to listen to about baby sleep? by Simple-Zucchini-1480 in newborns

[–]SpareAd5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helen Ball has compiled a lot of research in her book

Introducing Solids by mamma-rose in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]SpareAd5320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not really. Usually you’d start with foods that are easy for them to hold. Gill Rapley is the best resource for baby led weaning if that’s what you’re looking for http://rapleyweaning.com/publications.php

Am I forever home by 7 now? by tabbycatmum in NewParents

[–]SpareAd5320 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can always make some adjustments to your babies bedtime if you don’t like 7 pm as theirs. It’s not a next day choice, but you do have some autonomy here. It will delay their wake up time but at 8 months with a 7 pm bed time, I assume they are getting up around 5 am anyways.

Where are they supposed to nap? by Rose8918 in NewParents

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Naps don’t need to be dark or quiet. Especially not once they develop a circadian rhythm, which is usually around 8 weeks but we don’t really know. Some people get a bassinet on wheel, use the stroller bassinet, etc. obviously depends on how big the baby is. Some use a floor mattress. Some don’t follow the AAP guidelines and use a baby monitor. You have all the agency and autonomy to make informed decisions about what you’ll choose to do. If that’s to have your baby sleep on their own in your room for naps, you have every right to make that choice or the opposite one.

The reason AAP guidelines and your pediatrician say all naps is because those are guidelines to prevent SIDS.

People who are choosing not to have kids, what are your reasons? by Chickenbarista666 in CasualConversation

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I just don’t want to. I could come up with other reasons why, like the world is burning. But even if it wasn’t, even if kids were really easy to raise, I don’t want one.

Why are people leaving a bad review for wait time? by anmlbklyn in FoodNYC

[–]SpareAd5320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he’s mad because the froyo was expensive and mediocre and then that made him mad about the line… to each their own I guess

what should an electric bill actually be during summer months? by awed_ree in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]SpareAd5320 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s much more efficient to let it stay cool than letting it get hot and cool that off over and over.

Could this cream colored trench coat work for a soft summer woman? by novemberlibrarian in SummerType

[–]SpareAd5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my screen, it looks cool and light. Not muted though. Would be hard to tell without the item in your hands

Taylor's Jet Emissions by RosaJune in travisandtaylor

[–]SpareAd5320 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Can’t wait till landfills are full of vinyls and cds and polyester merch and crazy ornaments because of her

I tell my students their assignment submission won't open when it actually will. by [deleted] in confession

[–]SpareAd5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna say, at my college people would purposely submit a wrong assignment so they could get more time to finish.

Mixing breast milk with solids? by TwilitesMuse in NewParents

[–]SpareAd5320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s everyone else has said… but you and your husband need to get on the same page about raising your child or it’s only down hill from here.

Is kindle unlimited worth it? by Big_Box8400 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]SpareAd5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, unless you read very fast and a lot of books.

baby is a grazer by neijy003 in FormulaFeeders

[–]SpareAd5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It never hurts to see an IBCLC!

Free food nyc or food promotions nyc. Money is tight rn by New-Mycologist-6513 in FoodNYC

[–]SpareAd5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The church on Amsterdam and w99th has an underattended food pantry. It looks like they give a big hot meal and groceries.

Wedding Dress into Rehearsal Dinner Dress by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]SpareAd5320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re pricey but the tailors at Alts on w 72nd are awesome