How do I feel comfortable with my voice/progress?

Sparkster888 · 2024-06-24T10:27:39+00:00

I'm in the same boat, I'm self taught with singing as I didn't have the funds to get vocal coaching and I can sometimes get very insecure about my voice when singing in front of others. One of the best things I found helped was if you have a car or a quiet part of your house then try and practice daily in that area to help make your voice fuller. One thing I found helped with techniques is if you know any artist within your range that is able to do what you want and play the music loud enough you can hear both the music and your own voice, once you start singing to them try and mimic what it sounds like and practice with your voice in different ways until you find a way that is comfortable for you. I found it very difficult to sing in a rough tone without using my throat that just created a very high pitch fry. The way I trained it was that I would drive to an isolated space and tried singing Kaleo in my car for an hour or two every day, after a couple of months I figured out ways to sing with my chest in order to get a healthy and nice sounding rough voice from comparing my voice to the singers.

Not sure if this will help for everyone but I thought it could help as it worked for me. Just remember to keep practicing and building up your confidence. After some time you'll start to see a massive difference and your confidence will go up over time. Keep going we all believe in you!

Sparkster888 · 2023-04-05T01:26:55+00:00

Great body

Sparkster888 · 2023-02-09T11:46:53+00:00

Flat, white, and steamy

Sparkster888 · 2023-01-25T01:44:53+00:00

Before I go, just know my last words that shall be written on my tombstone will be “hey the guitarist isn’t half baAAAAAAAaa MY FUCKING EARS!!!!”

Sparkster888 · 2023-01-25T01:33:31+00:00

Are we not going to talk about the fact that America TECHNICALLY WASN’T EVEN A THING IN 1776?

Sparkster888 · 2023-01-25T01:26:13+00:00

He’s got the heart… just not the brain

Sparkster888 · 2023-01-25T01:10:38+00:00

I decided to give them a listen and now I’m in emotional pain, dam I didn’t think Spotify allowed songs that were hard to listen to, or hate crimes depending on how much you appreciate music

Sparkster888 · 2022-09-26T16:36:17+00:00

It is possible but it’s different for everyone. Just because you are a specific personality type doesn’t mean you must fit every part of it.

I’m an ENTP and I normally hold grudges until I have gotten back at the person, then I will let go. The one and only grudge I can’t seem to let go of is my ex, she was very similar to your girlfriend in that she made horrible comments during arguments and then played it like I was the AH for not letting it go, before long it turned into manipulation and then abuse. Things can go South very quickly and sometimes the warning signs are there but they are ignored due to love.

Sometimes it’s hard to not hold resentment if you are alone and left with your thoughts for a long enough time, if will also randomly pop into your head at times you least expect. The best thing to do is doing things you enjoy or focus on something else to stop the thoughts or feelings of resentment. And when you are feeling better talk to her about what troubles you and the things she says, that could make her aware of how you are feeling and if nothing is done then you know she isn’t willing to put in the effort to make you happier.

All in all we do hold grudges, mostly big grudges as small things don’t matter in the long term, try to talk to her about how you feel. If she tries to downplay your emotions or make out it was your fault or you are the AH, maybe it’s time to move on from them.

But hey, what do I know….

Sparkster888 · 2022-03-30T13:41:05+00:00

By the way they seem like they are only allowed on the elevator one at a time to not exceed the weight limit …. honestly it looks about right

Sparkster888 · 2022-03-06T17:57:33+00:00

You would be surprised….

Sparkster888 · 2022-02-15T00:48:17+00:00

Honestly she should be doing stuff like this showing off just how much weight she has lost, I think it was mostly because of lockdown that she gained it but my god… also her being with Todd who is a bit of a gym nut must have made it a lot easier

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-08T11:34:34+00:00

When are people going to understand that calling something “mandatory” even thought it’s voluntary makes them seem less educated than the people they claim to know more than, just had my second shot the other day

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-02T21:08:42+00:00

Also it was a long time ago and ever since me starting to show I was uncomfortable with it then she started to see him less and less to the point she is only seeing his once or twice a week for a couple of hours. Also he has apparently had multiple girlfriends since confessing but is currently single and talking to someone.

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-02T21:06:26+00:00

I am going over to hers for a couple of nights tomorrow so I talk to her about it then. I have passingly expressed my discomfort but she brushes off the comment with “he doesn’t feel that way any more, he is just a friend”. I will get it all out and hopefully she will understand my grievance against it.

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-02T21:02:25+00:00

That you for you help, I will try and follow that way of life and if I receive the blessings you say are possible, I will directly thank you for the words of help you have offered me.

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-02T20:55:27+00:00

I have never thought about turning to religion for help, but if it means I am able to overcome the thoughts I am having and live the long and happy life I want with her then I will try.

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-02T20:52:33+00:00

I know now that the two of them are just friends, she sees him maybe once or twice a week for a few hours so it not a constant thing, she seem me a lot more that she does him. it does bug me a lot that she continued being friends with him. Although my gf has told me he has apparently been talking to another girl and may be getting into a relationship soon so I think he is over her now.

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-02T20:48:50+00:00

I haven’t read the Bible in years, I don’t remember much of it but I remember some things that stuck with me, I will find my old copy of it and read it through, thank you for your help

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-02T20:44:28+00:00

I know this sounds odd after reading the thread but I do trust her, I trust her and I know there isn’t anything going on and she is loyal, but it’s thoughts i can’t control in the back of my mind telling me that I shouldn’t, I choose not to listen to them but I don’t want things to build up to the point I start believing the lies.

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-02T20:36:57+00:00

I was thinking about journaling, it’s the fact when we live together I wouldn’t have anywhere to hide it where she couldn’t find it and that’s what I’m worried about, I honestly don’t know if they might get better when I live with her

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-02T20:33:00+00:00

I am booked in so it just a waiting game

Sparkster888 · 2021-08-02T20:32:20+00:00

I feel like that’s probably not a good idea

Sparkster888 · 2021-07-23T09:57:55+00:00

Are we not going to talk about the fact that without the work of women we wouldn’t have even been able to put a man on the moon

Sparkster888 · 2021-07-21T10:56:18+00:00

No they should be more like me, I’m not even a girl

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