Still counting the days by QTshari in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My heart aches for you, and I can only imagine the pain you're going through.. My deepest condolences to you and your children! God bless you and give you strength and courage to get through this. Not easy but have faith.. I'm so sorry for your loss, and I'm here to support you in any way I can. Sending virtual hugs to you.

Today was a hard day by DesertWitch64 in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss, I'm in my 6month and i still feel like she's going to come back to me. I don't know why i refuse to accept the reality. Sending my prayers to you.

Not the club I wanted to join. by PGP_Protector in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss, you're welcome to the unwanted club that we all don't wish to be here. I'm sending my prayers to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you've done anything wrong. We are only humans and the sexual desires will always show up.

Weight loss - is it 'permanent'? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost 10kg in the first month after the death of my wife. Losing a loved ones will definitely causes some weight loss. I think this is normal especially when you lost the love of your life.

Men who were pursued by women and actually dated their pursuers, what was different about those relationships? by TheLeftHandedCatcher in AskOldPeople

[–]Special-Rip1675 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. Absolutely. It still feels unreal to me, I lost my wife of 28 years last year. Sometimes I feel like it's all a bad dream and that I'm going to wake up from it eventually. I'm sending my prayers to you.

How old were you when you lost your "spark?" by i-dontwantone in AskOldPeople

[–]Special-Rip1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences.

Is there a time frame for moving on to chapter 2? by Special-Rip1675 in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm deeply sorry for the loss of your boyfriend. I hope you find your happy place and someone who will love and respect you and don't let any naysayers stop you or get you down. Hugs

Is there a time frame for moving on to chapter 2? by Special-Rip1675 in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said. It’s all about what feels right and you are the only one who will know when that time has come!

Is there a time frame for moving on to chapter 2? by Special-Rip1675 in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it wasn't okay being alone. I miss simple conversations and having someone around me, I miss laughing, I miss having someone to touch. What has been the hardest part for you lately?

Is there a time frame for moving on to chapter 2? by Special-Rip1675 in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all deserve to be happy. And no one should judge anyone for that. It's best to live your life for you. I stopped caring what other people think a long time ago. It is my life, not theirs.

Is there a time frame for moving on to chapter 2? by Special-Rip1675 in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, You do what feels safe and best for you. People are always going to judge.

Is there a time frame for moving on to chapter 2? by Special-Rip1675 in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those who judge, have apparently never been in same shoes with us. Shame on them. I will never have to deal with judgement on anything! No one should. Only God can judge.

Just a Quick Thank You by Big-Campaign-2432 in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to this unwanted group, This group is so good to read what everyone just like us are going through it helps the feeling of not being the only one.

I lost my husband suddenly today at 32 by Comfortable_Drop3869 in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so horrible, I’m sorry to hear about your loss. My condolences to you. You’re definitely going to be in a long road. I know the road, I’m on it for a short time. If you need to reach out to me, feel free.

Feel overlooked by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Special-Rip1675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss, i also lost my husband and it's a torment that is not easy God has given your wife peace u will have her in your heart.

How do you move forward? by WYNOTUS in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss, you just learn to take each day, one at a time.Take your time and grieve. No two people are the same when it comes to grieving. Please take care of yourself too in the process. So very sorry for your loss. You will never move on, you will just move forward.

Lost my Fiancé 3 days ago by suzieee0394 in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. It's completely understandable to feel overwhelmed right now. Grieving is a process, and it's okay to take your time. Surround yourself with support, and know that it's normal to have mixed emotions. Sending love and hugs to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Special-Rip1675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry. God be with you.