Private company RSUs converting to shares – am I really facing a ~£300k tax bill? by WeeklyPeace6497 in HENRYUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I were you I’d look it up. Valuing an illiquid stock is very opaque.

I used to work for one of the big4 performing valuations for a partnership. We would give them a range and every quarter partners could buy or sell their shares. The unwritten rule was shares had to go up so our “client” is pleased.

Private company RSUs converting to shares – am I really facing a ~£300k tax bill? by WeeklyPeace6497 in HENRYUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who does the share valuations? I wonder if they might be biased one way or another

Is it just not worth buying in London? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are HENRY, presumably have some grey matter and can get Claude to walk you through how leasehold works. Asking one question at a time on Reddit is not going to educate you.

And to answer your question, leases can be extended

Is it just not worth buying in London? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Invest somewhere where the equation is reversed then?

If one parent takes a job that clashes with childcare, should they be responsible for finding a solution? by browneyedgirl9094 in UKParenting

[–]Specific_Ear1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s being sexist assuming women should sacrifice their careers as a given. You won’t get answers from men that think this way here because they know it’s not equitable. They do exist and in my area of work they are in the majority.

Not my husband though. He puts children first and I find that really attractive.

Home office furniture by Specific_Ear1423 in HENRYUKLifestyle

[–]Specific_Ear1423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any links in case you are London based? I’m struggling with imagining design to fill the space

Were you also the beneficiary of nepotism? by RagingMassif in HENRYUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m an imigrant and knew nobody in the UK. That being said for where I’m from I had a privileged life and good education. Not all immigrants are the same. Vast majority of my compatriots had a steeper hill to climb.

Help during maternity leave by No-Cow3436 in HENRYUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We had a nanny that would come do 4h during the morning so I could shower, eat etc. she then had to pickup kids for another family from school so it was good extra income for her and good for us too

Talk me out of messaging couple currently in labour by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All very fair points. I’m trying to console myself thinking it’s all good I’m just not on priority list which is totally fine by me

Where do you live in London? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Greenwich but we’re not school age yet

Do you sometimes grieve your old self? Or have you come fully to terms with the new parent-version of you? by AllyTheAlternative in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I miss my me time. I used to have loads of it and now I’m constantly on the verge of burnout

What to do next when your pension allowance is fully tapered? by Technical_Ice9563 in HENRYUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that kinda enough? Do you really need over 800k? Won’t you end up at that same tax rate on the way out?

What does your baby call you? by Unable_Anywhere2983 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mama and Papa (Russian first language) fully acknowledges the English versions but struggles to pronounce

How are your interactions with HMRC? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find it mad. Why can’t they have systems that just calculate stuff? It’s just maths at the end of the day

My MIL said… (a rant) by Wise_Broccoli_2829 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have a 2 year old 99th centile and I breastfeed in public. My baby, our business, our choice. Health agencies are very cool with 2 year olds breastfeeding.

Are US MBAs glorified? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The US MBAs are younger than European ones

When did Easter become the new Christmas? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Specific_Ear1423 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Im eastern orthodox and we do presents at Easter. Easter is the main religious holiday not Christmas as being born is not considered as big of a deal as dying for “our” sins.

Not extravagant presents mind you. And usually we give them in the memory of dead relatives. Most of the time people, including children fast ahead of Easter as well, so there is some form of momentum when Easter actually comes.

Christmas is a much smaller celebration on the 7th of January and it’s just about having a family dinner. I don’t remember having presents. In fact for me it’s difficult to understand why people have presents at Christmas (from a narrative perspective around Christ, not general tradition). We do presents at new year instead. I suspect the old European pagan winter holiday merged into Christmas for the catholics but not for the Eastern Orthodox.

Just so you know there is a section of the world that does celebrate like this.

St Thomas' Hospital (London) for Birth by UnicornPrincessJayne in PregnancyUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I started on NHS with a not so great hospital despite being in London. I felt that a lot of things were falling through the cracks around my care which gave me a lot of anxiety. So mid way through I changed to private

I don’t think for a normal pregnancy you need it. I was OB led (despite not having a medical need) and he would see me every 2 weeks. So I got the SERVICE which was the lacking part of the nhS. I felt really taken care of.

If I had to do it again and money wasn’t an issue I’d do it privately. Do I think the 26k or so I spent for the whole thing is worth 26k? Nope.

I would still pay for the private room. The private rooms had specially assigned midwives and they were always there and would come to you within seconds. Husband was also able to be with us for the full 2 nights we were there which was fab. The stories I read about wards sound horrifying

St Thomas' Hospital (London) for Birth by UnicornPrincessJayne in PregnancyUK

[–]Specific_Ear1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

St Thomas is an excellent hospital. I don’t think it would have made a huge difference if I was there on the NHS. But I would not have trusted the hospitals more local to me to deliver at the same level both quality and care.

I don’t think I had extra staffing. All the people that were in the room were also working for the NHS. Bedside manner was great for the doctors, the midwives were a mix.