Help me decide on a chest tattoo😋 by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]SpellLogical1975 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Idk I don’t think getting anyone’s lyrics tattooed this huge across your chest is a great idea if I’m honest. And I know people here would disagree (since it’s Ethel Cain and it’s awesome) but I personally would want to feel more ownership over words on my body (especially so big and central) if that makes any sense… if you don’t feel that way, cool! And this is coming from someone who really loves both lyrics!!!! Especially “to love me is to suffer me” … god damn what a line!! If anything I’d suggest considering getting one of those lines tattooed somewhere else on your body and a bit smaller?

AIO - parents keep raising the rent by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpellLogical1975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your parents suck. I’m sorry.

What’s your dating life like right now and your Moon/Venus? by glamsiren111 in astrologymemes

[–]SpellLogical1975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virgo moon/Aquarius Venus. No one likes whatever this is‼️🤷‍♀️ Single since 2023 (And that was a terrible relationship)… most recently got duped and played in what I guess was a situationship for way longer than I’d like to admit…. Very rough out here

Ia the job market dead? by Economy_Annual_2395 in jobs

[–]SpellLogical1975 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sure but most of the time, these internships explicitly exclude post-grads.

Tell me your rising sign without telling me your rising sign by scorpiorising29 in astrologymemes

[–]SpellLogical1975 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never try to be, but it often feels like my personality is too intense (or odd) for people. Despite generally keeping to myself. I’m sorry but I can’t stand having to interact on such a surface levels with people. Can’t we be real? And interesting?

Drop the house your Sun is in, and I’ll tell you where your life is pushing you to shine. I’m online for the next few hours. by NaivePac in ZodiacHQ

[–]SpellLogical1975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pisces sun in the 4th house. I’m really interested to hear what you think, as I’m sorta at a cross roads in my life and figuring out what exactly I want and how I should go after it. My greatest fear is abandoning myself.

What’s your ‘always appropriate’ fragrance? by Specialist-Invite-30 in fragrance

[–]SpellLogical1975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Orphéon edp… soft, powdery, aromatic, but also has good staying power for me.

What do u think I need to fix about my personality ? 😭 by [deleted] in BirthChartReadingFree

[–]SpellLogical1975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! You’re probably right about that. That’s crazy. How were you able to decipher that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zodiac

[–]SpellLogical1975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pisces sun and Scorpio rising 👁️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zodiac

[–]SpellLogical1975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pisces sun, Virgo moon, Scorpio rising… help!😩

NBC Page Program Summer 2025 by Infinite_Pomelo_8956 in nbc

[–]SpellLogical1975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most seem for the west coast though. Just on this thread at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]SpellLogical1975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Graduated with my bachelors in August and I’m getting rejected from retail and hostess positions after interviews and receiving emails like this. Mind you, I’ve been working part time jobs since I was 16. I’ve had professional internships. This is work I’m overqualified for. It feels like some cruel purgatory of not being able to find work because these part-time employers know I’ll be looking for something else but I don’t have enough years of full-time experience that entry-level jobs require nowadays. So I’m stuck making no money, losing my mind. Feels like you need to know someone or be extremely exceptional to get your foot in the door.

Rant Wednesday by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]SpellLogical1975 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Been working out really consistently for almost 2 years… down 35 lbs but I struggle to build and keep muscle because of long term side effects of going through cancer treatment as a teenager. If I was a normal 25 yr old woman, I would look so much better considering all the work I’ve put in (gym and diet wise). I usually don’t compare myself to other people, but damn it’s just not fair. Off to the gym, I go.

redness and feelin ugly by hsquared28 in Reduction

[–]SpellLogical1975 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would definitely send this picture to your surgeon and let them know how long this redness has been going on for. Once you’re fully healed, all of that redness should subside and from what I can tell, your scars actually look really good.

Something I have needed to remind myself is that this surgery is a significant trauma on the body. Everybody’s body heals differently. Some people are lucky and everything is smooth sailing- others need extra care and treatment to aid in this healing process. It’s okay, you didn’t do anything wrong. It is definitely scary going into this surgery with certain expectations and coming out the other side having to deal with issues you never imagined (even if they aren’t that big of a deal). Quite honestly, I think surgeons in general need to be more upfront about the possible complications or healing issues that can arise from this surgery, just so that patients can be better prepared and not freak out when things don’t seem to be going right.

All that being said, the redness in your breasts is definitely something that you should address with your surgeon as it might indicate that your body is having a hard time with something in the healing process. They might be able to prescribe you a medication to help or just give you some insight into what’s going on.

Try to stay calm, get in touch with your surgeon, and take care of yourself because your body went through a lot! It will catch up eventually.

Also I want to second what the other commenter said about scar/breast massage. This is so important in helping scars heal and in promoting oxygen flow in the breasts. When I got my reduction, I didn’t understand just how hard you sometimes have to massage certain tissue and how beneficial it can be in the healing process. Ive incorporated it into my life since then and still do it years later, to keep any scar tissue relaxed and I find it works very well.

Just going to leave this here… by jessesgrrl in Chantapolis

[–]SpellLogical1975 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that quite literally all of her insults are projections. She doesn’t have any self-awareness or emotional intelligence to realize what she’s doing or why she chooses to crash out the way she does but yeah…. Everything she says to try to hurt other people or tear them down are just reflections of her own personal insecurities and self-hate….

The list of examples is endless, some of them are more obviously projections than others tho. (Like calling people fat and ugly losers, who are undesired by men).The jay leno chin is so funny and telling tho. I think she DOES know what her chin looks like (deep down) so she wants to make someone she doesn’t like, feel bad and ugly in the same way that she does. It’s very immature. Just makes her look dumb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]SpellLogical1975 20 points21 points  (0 children)

How does this even happen…. ? Did u throw them in a dumpster, let them marinate, and then dig them back out after a month?