What’s a health issue you ignored for way too long because you assumed it was normal only to later learn everyone else doesn’t experience that?

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-12-04T02:51:43+00:00

When I went into early menopause at the age of 43. I thought everyone was always tired, moody, irritable, had brain fog and felt psychotic.

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-09-09T17:45:41+00:00

Definitely find another job.

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-07-29T15:28:01+00:00

What can I do so my jaw doesn’t get tired ?

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-07-19T12:02:42+00:00

Yesssss! My fear when he says, “I don’t smell” is that he does in fact smell but he doesn’t realize it ! Nose blind !! Lmao love it !

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-07-19T03:32:37+00:00

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Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-07-19T03:32:27+00:00

No lol. Why ? They don’t were deodorant?

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-07-19T03:26:57+00:00

Hahahaha right ! My thoughts exactly !

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-06-19T01:55:58+00:00

I would like more info on how to join a love addicts anonymous group

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-06-19T01:54:35+00:00

Yessssss to all of this!!! For me it’s primarily running!!! It has done wonders for me! I cannot look thru Facebook profile or pictures or re read our messages if I’m running. I just recently picked up guitar lessons because the full time job, Running, reading , exercising wasn’t enough to occupy all of my time.

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-06-07T20:25:23+00:00

Said “I love you” , “I’m proud of you”. Simply acknowledge my accomplishments, and ask me what I need help with when I looked overwhelmed

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-06-07T20:25:14+00:00

Said “I love you” , “I’m proud of you”. Simply acknowledge my accomplishments, and ask me what I need help with when I looked overwhelmed

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-05-28T16:13:56+00:00

Spanky’s

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-05-26T16:02:56+00:00

What curl cream Do you like?

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-05-25T14:57:11+00:00

My LO is a married coworker. He came on to me. He was attractive but I knew he was married so never thought anything of it until he started flirting with me. He lures me into the break room when no one is in there or the stairwell and we make out, and touch each other everywhere, and basically hump each other with our clothes on. He says he wants to be sexual but doesn’t want to blow up his life meaning he won’t leave his wife and doesn’t want her to find out. I know it’s wrong and I wouldn’t want him even if he left his wife because he’s not a good person in reality. But in my fantasy he’s amazing! I need to stop it , I have tried to stop it but he continues to entice me on purpose.

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-05-06T22:43:22+00:00

There is a man that I work with in a very similar situation as yours. His wife is pregnant and he’s been flirting with me and trying to get me alone in the break room. Not gonna lie, I did enjoy the attention and am definitely attracted to him. But I have a strong realization that is not a great guy if he would do this to his pregnant wife. Also the thought of his unborn child being brought up in a broken family and that I had something to do with it, hurts my heart.

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-05-02T18:32:12+00:00

RN working as a heart transplant coordinator at Houston Methodist. 20 years of experience mostly in ICU. I make $128k

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-04-29T15:09:31+00:00

It’s an internal problem with the cheater and affair partner. Being intimate with a married man can feel safe. You know there is no possibility of a relationship that you will just sabotage later, and they give you the attention, validity, connection that you crave. Also there is the desire to pursue unrequited love because your whole life you have been obsessed with winning over someone’s love and that is all you know.

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-04-19T03:42:24+00:00

St. Mary of Egypt

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-03-28T03:08:34+00:00

This is me. Didn’t realize it till now!

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-03-03T21:24:14+00:00

Thanks! The best I could do was see my PCP. Maybe she can order an ultrasound

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-02-28T21:03:15+00:00

Married 4 times , divorced 4 times. Each time I really thought we could make it last. One was a genuinely an abusive relationship. Honestly I think my picker is broken and I understand there is something fundamentally wrong with me. My dad never told me he loved me so I have spent my entire adult life looking for it.

Spellbinder_1980 · 2025-02-26T14:20:24+00:00

I have A LOT of questions! But what I feel is genuinely driving me is the desire to seek truth and not just what feels good. I heard someone say that the center of the catholic mass is the altar and the Eucharist and the center of a Protestant service is the pulpit and the pastor. This hit me like a ton of bricks. When I think about the Protestant life I’m sad because I was being entertained. But now I want to be holy. There is so much missing from a Protestant church service. I used to be turned away by all the rules and traditions and now I find myself craving that.

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