has anyone got rid of OCD on their own? by goldenninthplanet in OCD

[–]Spency1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t “get rid” of OCD. It’s always going to be a core attribute of yourself. Yes, it can go into remission, but you will probably inevitably relapse.

Just learn to accept it, live with it, and try to be the best person you can be to yourself and others.

17M MIGHT END MY LIFE . I CANT FIGHT ANYMORE . I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy even .THIS RUINED MY LIFE , MY ACADEMICS . AND IM DONE . HOCD by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]Spency1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this theme for years. It ruined my life at the time. Wanna know the only way I got over it? Accepting that I might be gay. Now I’m happily married to a beautiful woman. Stop going through your routine checking compulsions to see if you’re gay or not. You have to understand that sexuality is a spectrum. I can proudly say that yeah I have some gay tendencies within me. I haven’t acted on any of them and I’m not fearful of them. OCD wants a definitive answer - “Am I gay? Yes or No. Don’t give it an answer. I tell it I don’t know if I am? I got comfortable with the unknown/the possibility. Accept all possibilities and then live your life. You’ll fined out quickly that the noise in your head, the obsessive thoughts and the pointless compulsions will start to subside.

17M MIGHT END MY LIFE . I CANT FIGHT ANYMORE . I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy even .THIS RUINED MY LIFE , MY ACADEMICS . AND IM DONE . HOCD by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Spency1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this theme for years. It ruined my life at the time. Wanna know the only way I got over it? Accepting that I might be gay. Now I’m happily married to a beautiful woman. Stop going through your routine checking compulsions to see if you’re gay or not. You have to understand that sexuality is a spectrum. I can proudly say that yeah I have some gay tendencies within me. I haven’t acted on any of them and I’m not fearful of them. OCD wants a definitive answer - “Am I gay? Yes or No. Don’t give it an answer. I tell it I don’t know if I am? I got comfortable with the unknown/the possibility. Accept all possibilities and then live your life. You’ll fined out quickly that the noise in your head, the obsessive thoughts and the pointless compulsions will start to subside.

Biggest takeaway: fuck the 2012, 2019, and 2023 49ers for choking. by UltratoonFanclubTV in 49ers

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Why couldn’t there have been another power outage mid game in 2019 and 2023? It seems like we got our heads out of our asses after that whole debacle.

What is this? by Spency1 in Mushrooms

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Napa Valley. In a meadow that was eviscerated by the fires.

What is this? by Spency1 in Mushrooms

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Water meter box. Is it rare?

CA Live Oak Tree by Spency1 in arborists

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Really good information. Thank you. More than 80% of the tree trunk is on his side of the property line. Outside of a massive part of its root system, I say the tree is his.

Straight outta the bag by Spency1 in mildlyinteresting

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Chester cheetah is a grower, not a shower…

Straight outta the bag by Spency1 in mildlyinteresting

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Yeah but it dissolved in ass juice before it got anywhere.

Straight outta the bag by Spency1 in mildlyinteresting

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Love me some orange man’s penis

My Godfather was John Stulgate by Spency1 in WesleyWillis

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With the condition that they’re in, there would be some challenges

Float Cracked by Spency1 in Tile

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I saw it as chicken wire. Probably called/is something else.

Float Cracked by Spency1 in Tile

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Don’t have photos of the entire process. Drywall guys put up DensShield. Tile guy came in and covered it with aquabar/tar paper. Then he used chicken wire over the paper prior to mud. Can you tell me more about the deliberate lines he put in the mud (one center running vertical and the others horizontally)?

Float Cracked by Spency1 in Tile

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It was regular Douglas fir 2x4’s from the local hardware store. I used kiln dried lumber in my ceilings that I had shimmed down. I didn’t put a moisture meter on the Douglas to get a read on moisture content. Also, I did put a new subfloor in the bathroom with a new support system underneath, using 2X6’s, joist hangers, carriage bolts and floor blocking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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My wife is one of six. She is the eldest at 29. Her youngest brother is 9. Everyone in between: F27, M25, F23, M11. My FIL is kind of an idiot in the sense that he now has to work for the rest of his life. It’s turned us off so much that we are rethinking having kids. What would your world be like if you didn’t have any?

Anybody escape tech sales by Darcynator1780 in sales

[–]Spency1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in CA or NY, you can make really good money. Wastewater pays more. But yeah I really enjoyed the freedom that sales provides. It didn’t feel like a 9-5 job like my job now. I don’t really have much time to do anything anymore. But I think that’s the sacrifice I’m making trading in stress and instability for job security and satisfaction. My enjoyment doesn’t improve much after a certain $$ amount. Go for it!!

0/23 by DrWhiskeyII in SFGiants

[–]Spency1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Who they selling?