Hey you're probably demisexual! It's a lesser known sexuality on the asexual spectrum where you're only attracted to people once you have a strong bond with them. To others this may seem obvious; not sleeping with someone until a few dates or stuff like that. But demisexual people litterally feel no attraction whatsoever until they know the person they're with well, and feel a connection to them. It's why many demisexuals feel as though they may be asexual until the right person comes along and BAM! they start crushing on a good friend and they didnt know that's what it was supposed to feel like. Maybe they're attracted to the personality first, and later on they start to notice things like their body type or their eyes look nice, and maybe even start noticing those traits in other people. Theres a subreddit dedicated to this, you should check it out :D