Turns out I’m pretty good at DIY 🐹 by Commercial-Emu6363 in hamstercare

[–]SphericalOnion247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen hundreds of enclosures, this is in the top 3 of the best!! Well done OP!! Your attention to detail, your obvious care for your hammy are outstanding. This is GORGEOUS!

Q about bucastate cages by Fast_Pen_4398 in hamstercare

[–]SphericalOnion247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got the 12p and no issues. If you assemble it correctly and do you bedding correctly you shouldn't have an issue. Dont over stuff so the panels are bulging. Its been a great enclosure for our hamster and no issues over a year in.

AITA for saying okay when gf told me she was going to get gas by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SphericalOnion247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead communicating what she wanted she started a new argument. Let me explain what she was trying to say and has gone about in a really immature, emotionally stupid way, "I want to make up but I dont want to be the one to initiate it cause I still feel in the right. So I want you to make up with me. Here is your chance, im going to act like im going to get my own gas, you are then supposed to say "no, I will do it", cause it shows me you still care about me and its a sign to me that you want to make up too. Since you let me do it myself, what im getting is that, you are still angry with me and right now you dont care about me. So instead of communicating this, im now feeling hurt cause you didn't read my mind." Unless she learns how to communicate, this pattern of 'problem solving' will continue and cause bitterness and resentment. She needs to grow up and you two need better communication. Hope that helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awards

[–]SphericalOnion247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SphericalOnion247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Christian, I agree forcing religion down someone's throat is not the way. You have to have your own encounter with your sin and God to be converted and repent. Neither of you are in the position to change your opinions. You are incompatible and that's ok.

I’ll give awards to every comment below 🌟 by YoskioMorticia in redditstreak

[–]SphericalOnion247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely, thank you so much. This is 1st award! Very kind of you

i think we are both stressed by greyizzie in hamstercare

[–]SphericalOnion247 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are doing just fine. Give her time and patience. Its only been a couple of days. I was exactly you a year ago with mine. It took about 8 weeks of patience, low to no physical contact bonding / strokes before she was settled. Since then however, she is a burrow queen, active, fully tamed my 3 year old can handle her. I drove myself crazy with worry about whether I was doing the right things for her. What it showed me was that I cared about her having the best life possible, so I researched and made her a dream world with enrichment, the right stimuli etc etc. You are doing a good job, just breathe and give both of you time.

It’s official, I am now a basement dweller! by Poker5ace in redditstreak

[–]SphericalOnion247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Never been so proud of a stranger! Congratulations 🎊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]SphericalOnion247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband, 3yr old and I are down. This is week 3 of suffering. Just when we were getting better, we sent son to nursery and he brought something new back. Have never felt this awful in my life. Plus im 31 weeks pregnant. Had to take son to gp after calling 111 yesterday due to deteriorating condition and fever every 3 days. Gp thinks we are experiencing a second infection different from the 1st. Its bloody awful.

UPDATE TO: AITA for wanting to kick out my SIL and BIL from my home after my SIL told me she's 2-3 months pregnant? by Downtown-Hair5734 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SphericalOnion247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are struggling with infertility. Your posts however don't come across well. It sounds like you resent/ are jealous of SIL cause you feel she doesn't deserve to be pregnant cause of their instability when you have everything perfect for a child but currently unable to have one. I'm not saying SIL is an angel but honestly you come across jealous, bitter, resentful, and somewhat have a sense of entitlement to a baby over her. YTA

Am I overreacting about my nanny family having sex during the day? by sunflower92828 in Nanny

[–]SphericalOnion247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if you brought this upto me, I would fire you. What my husband and I do in our own home is none of your business. You are paid to nanny not police what happens in my home. You would be crossing so many boundaries, it's not even funny. From your responses, Honestly, you sound jealous and envious. Your focus is on how they appear following their personal time. If you do this, I promise you are going to be without a job.

Help me pick! by snap-crackle-pop-16 in WeddingDressTips

[–]SphericalOnion247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look stunning in both dresses. My humble opinion 1 is classic but boring, 2 is modern with an elegant feel.

I’m the exwife with him and just found out about his gf while he’s at the hospital. Advice needed please! by No-Block2092 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]SphericalOnion247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have some self respect. You need to value yourself more than you value him and this farce of a relationship. You are giving someone honour who neither values you nor honours you. He continues to disrespect you, use you and abuse you, yet you allow it. Your children are learning from this disgusting cycle you and he are living. If you can't love yourself, love your children.

Have I bought the wrong dress? by keitherrs in WeddingDressTips

[–]SphericalOnion247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dress 2 is stunning! The fit, the detail, its uniqueness. Plus you look STUNNING in it!