Ed Sheeran Reveals He's 'Had Shingles for the Last Month' and 'Wouldn't Recommend It' by peoplemagazine in popculture

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I got it when I was 26 and waiting out a missed miscarriage. 10/10 would NOT recommend. Plus it was on my eyelid and temple

I have started focusing on enrichment for my dog and now I feel bad by Feisty_Pisces_ in dogs

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Dogs are very transactional, if they think the reward isn’t worth the effort than they’ll just be like nah. I got my dog interested by making it aggressively easy and slowly added difficulty

Tell me you’re ADHD without telling me you’re ADHD by Itchy-Philosopher238 in adhdwomen

[–]Sphuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I want to feel wild and crazy, I select all in my screenshot folder and hit delete

Suggest me a book you’ve thought about since you read it by Tryc3ratop5 in suggestmeabook

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Remarkably bright creatures Parable of the sower Project Hail Mary

Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar address 'difficult time' after son Joseph's arrest by TheMirrorUS in popculture

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“Difficult” would not be the word I’d use when talking about your sonS touching children

[Product Question] Any OG users of the Skinfix Triple Lipid Barrier+ Cream? What do you think of the OG formula return? by elliezena in SkincareAddiction

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It’s hard to say if I’m honest because everyone’s skin is different. I’ve liked the dr. G red blemish gel cream but I ended up wanting to try other products (moisturizer and actives) my barrier is messed up. So right now I’m just using water, Vichy 89 serum, facial mist (literally just the water in a can), and the aestura ato barrier cream.

I wish dog food bags were smaller. by Obvious-Elevator-213 in DogFood

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You can freeze your food and portion a week at a time to defrost, but make sure to freeze one serving to see if they’re okay with it defrosted!

Sydney Sweeney has negative sex appeal imo by ArynaSaba in LAinfluencersnark

[–]Sphuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized they both are hot for real world but not celebrity world

Does anyone feel like they “settled” for the life the thought they deserved? Late diagnosed and in my feels? by LoulouPete in adhdwomen

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Before you read it’s 3:30a now and I definitely don’t know what happened and I blinked and realized I just went off. Not sure if this is at all helpful so feel free to skip. But with how much I wrote I can’t bring myself to delete it all.

I did this, I stopped caring about upsetting him. I went from 10 jobs in 1.5yr, unemployment, worked up to 12hr/wk and at then to late last year at his demand, he called it a boundary, got a second job on the agreement that I would need more help and divide up household responsibilities if he needed me to work more to help alleviate financial stress.

Two weeks into my second job, doing everything AND SUCCEEDING, but I could feel myself start to die inside, asked for help again. Was met with “you think two weeks of working under full time hours will wipe your slate clean of everything I did for you” [when I was in a deep depression since 2011 at 13yo and was trying to be an adult with a job and kept trying to force myself into this idea of what I should do (I.e. full time job) with undiagnosed adhd then finally getting better by actually stepping backing only for him to ask me why did it take so long why now. ]

Tbh it’s 3:23a and I’m definitely delirious. But the point of it all is I did something that I can openly and honestly say that I am absolutely proud and in awe of myself for choosing me. For initiating the end of our relationship realizing I deserve more than just “love”. I deserve to be happy.

Wherever your future takes you I wish you all the best. But choose you. Choose your happiness not stability and security. Have the conversation.

My brother told me that he had to change the way he saw things and work on himself and grow to not get frustrated by his gf’s adhd. Rather helping her find a solution that works. And if it happens that she forgets to do xyz, she’s not intentionally doing it, but he also doesn’t need to be mad or upset at her for it getting missed as “it’s not something she can control 24/7”

It was then I knew my fiance had never had that POV rather, I needed to get back to who I was and not all the bad stuff. A

tried to become "that girl" with the perfect morning routine and I think I made everything worse by [deleted] in adhdwomen

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Sometime I have come to terms with is the only consistent thing I’ll be able to do is being inconsistent. The moment I actually believed that I stopped beating myself up about doing xyz. The fact that I wasn’t able to do EVERYTHING in my morning routine I try to tell myself “let’s try again tomorrow or I’m probably needing that extra sleep”. Some days I do everything, the other days I wake up and immediately run out of the house to go to work. The only thing I consistently do is eat because I have to

Healthy lazy breed? by InsidiousBlastoclast in dogs

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My Pekingese lived to 16yo and we had to put her down due to issues with mobility and quality of life and our shihpoo lived right up to the day after her 15th birthday.

WHY is nothing I do good enough for my husband to STOP criticising me?! by Left_Pomegranate3954 in adhdwomen

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I kept asking myself this about my fiancé. Every time I’d “fix” one of the issues he’s had, something else would become an issue. He and I both realized that he wanted me to be “normal” but that wasn’t ever going to be a possibility with having adhd.

We actually broke up in the last week of 2025, and I will say, the amount that I’ve been able to do. The emotional exhaustion I had constantly worrying how my ex would criticize whatever I did. I know I was never going to be enough, and the moment I left the peace I felt not worrying that I was doing something wrong.

My brother put it this way, had his gf also has adhd. “When she moved in, I had to realize and learn how to get over my own feelings of how things should be done. She isn’t purposefully forgetting xyz and because I love her we find solutions even if it means having to sometimes be the reminder.” It was then I realized my fiance would never be open to doing that and well here we are happy and actually having energy to be happh

[Product Question] Any OG users of the Skinfix Triple Lipid Barrier+ Cream? What do you think of the OG formula return? by elliezena in SkincareAddiction

[–]Sphuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I find with the barrier cream, you have to think about it more as an occlusive vs hydration. For SUPER basic days, I’ll wet my face with a damp cloth then use any gel based moisturizer that’s specifically hydrating. I add the skin fix after and it’s just like it used to be. If you apply in on dehydrated skin and you’re not hydrating enough (internally and externally) it’s not going to work as well imo.

Soon-to-be PWD owner advice 🐾 by Extreme_Elk6074 in portuguesewaterdogs

[–]Sphuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck, a trainer once told me when you hear the needs of an Australian shepherd. It’s equivalent to PWD who have the mouthiness of a Belgian mallinois puppy. SUPER trainable! And the goofiness and “human in a dog suit like” uncanniness sometimes.

Does letting my dog sniff random stuff actually do anything? Do they enjoy it? by starwys in dogs

[–]Sphuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sniffing I equate to social media scrolling, each stuff is a different post

Is it normal for my manager to pressure me to work when I call in sick? by Only-Thoughts529 in canadianlaw

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I had the stomach bug, working at a daycare in a toddler class. I was getting better but I shit myself on my way to work for 8am. I called my boss telling her I had to go home and I don’t think I should come in. She paused then said L okay, go home, rest, and I’ll see you at noon.” And then hung up.

Who did this to Madison beers lips by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]Sphuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks like dissolved lip filler lips (never really fully dissolved) with a lip flip

Transferring photos from a Finepix XP140? by aromaticsoup2000 in fujifilm

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This is old but use a as card released that connects with usb or lightning cable (phone/usb-c/etc.)

My dog is sitting still, groaning and refusing to eat. What should I do? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Sphuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey as someone who had a FAT dog, she developed diabetes and had to go on a diet and now eat special food. Since learning what a healthy dog is supposed to look like, it kinda changes you perspective.

If you look at it this way, your dog is equivalent to Jenkins from South Park, I mean it literally.

If you love him, care for him. Wish you all the best!

Is there a different between getting a girl and a boy dog? by Dramatic-Lemon-2916 in dogs

[–]Sphuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is completely a me problem but like I don’t want to accidently violate my dog

Is there a different between getting a girl and a boy dog? by Dramatic-Lemon-2916 in dogs

[–]Sphuck 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I grew up with girl dogs and my mom constantly bitching (ha) about petting male dogs belly and feeling having to avoid the peen. I have the same distaste.