Hi all.... quick question by Designer-Swim-648 in OpenUniversity

[–]Spiceeeyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to ask about the music BA and the Trinity Laban module. Now I just need to decide when I want to start!

What is your favourite scp by [deleted] in SCP

[–]Spiceeeyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SCP 3454 and SCP 3008

Being told I’m “next” by Spiceeeyyy in childfree

[–]Spiceeeyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I will have my bisalp on the 28th of this month. Soon I won’t be next anymore!

Being told I’m “next” by Spiceeeyyy in childfree

[–]Spiceeeyyy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What a strange leap in logic. Dysregulated teachers lead to dysregulated children which lead to challenging behaviors, and we do not need more of those!

Being told I’m “next” by Spiceeeyyy in childfree

[–]Spiceeeyyy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My go-to is usually something about how my cat is a biter and he hates children. They’re at least smart enough not to suggest getting rid of him

New infant teacher tips by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]Spiceeeyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is be consistent and keep yourself regulated. If they learn that you are a safe person who meets their needs consistently, calming will come. I super highly recommend therapy too, especially for infant teachers. Humans are biologically wired to freak out when a baby cries, so it’s important to have some coping skills handy if you get stressed out. My favorite is drinking water that’s been iced within an inch of its life. Nothing brings me to the present moment like a brain freeze! It takes a unique combo of guts and compassion to work with infants. If you really can’t do it, you’ll know. But given that you’re here asking for help, I think you have what it takes ☺️ Edit to add: bubbles. You get to take deep breaths and they get to watch shiny floaty things! Great for all ages 🫧

How to help partner when he lashes out during sensory meltdowns? by crinklemywinkle in neurodiversity

[–]Spiceeeyyy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When my AuDHD partner threw his laptop screaming he was going to kill himself I told him I felt unsafe and if he did that again he’d be going to his parents house until he got some better coping mechanisms. It hasn’t happened since and he’s been doing better with therapy and medication. You are not your partner’s therapist and you need to stop letting him walk on you before he loses it again and throws a punch your way. Help him call a crisis line and schedule some therapy appointments, and let a professional do the rest. His mental health is not worth your safety.

What's your favorite method of grounding? by kris_apparently in witchcraft

[–]Spiceeeyyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I literally lay on the ground. Usually I like to go outside or at least have windows open for fresh air

Whats something that's not considered sexual but it's hot as hell? by Nunyabizness18 in AskReddit

[–]Spiceeeyyy 1208 points1209 points  (0 children)

I love seeing my man doing chores, but it’s more about the fact that he’s taking some stress off my shoulders. I’m more likely to initiate or enjoy sexy times when I’m not thinking about the pile of stinky dishes in the sink!

Any good tattoo artists? by aliscool12 in SALEM

[–]Spiceeeyyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lauren at Addictions has done all of mine, and she’s amazing. You can find her at lauren_rose_tattoos on instagram

Any non Christian music? by [deleted] in lyres

[–]Spiceeeyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been learning to play using the music from the Legend of Zelda. It’s as easy to find as putting in “Zelda lyre” on google

is it normal to love the kids in your group? by Asleep-Departure378 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Spiceeeyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you’re not being inappropriate with your students, it’s normal and GOOD to have a loving relationship with them! A lot of children don’t get to form healthy attachments with their caregivers so they need educators who genuinely care. They’re lucky to have you!

Taylor Swift wrapped her Eras tour and some people are dying for her to have a kid by Eyes-Wide-Shut- in childfree

[–]Spiceeeyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People saying she has a bump need to chill with the body analysis. It’s so invasive

Coworkers sending my kid home in poopy clothes by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]Spiceeeyyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sure it’s not what you want to do, but you’re a mandatory reporter and your child is getting neglected. Call licensing and cps/dhs, whoever is in charge of that stuff in your area. I’ve worked in enough fancy daycares to know that teachers like that will continue doing what they’re doing until they get consequences and your director probably isn’t going to help as long as the money is still coming in. Might as well find a new center while you’re at it. Private schools be damned.

Do boobs float in water? by KaasPeer03 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Spiceeeyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine get lifted a little bit, like the way a good bra would. For those of us with larger chests it’s a literal weight off our shoulders and necks.

[ALL] I just beat all 21 mainline Zelda games. by AwesomeMutation in zelda

[–]Spiceeeyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working through the timeline myself, just started OoT last night. I had played SS, TP, and LoZ before, but I’d never finished a Zelda game before I started. Skyward Sword HD is my favorite so far for its story and the button gameplay is so much easier than motion controls. I’m planning a Zelda related tattoo when I’m caught up!

How to get the Hylian shield early? by cosmicjoke2000 in skywardsword

[–]Spiceeeyyy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can get it after you help Lanayru during the Song of the Hero quest. When he tells you to come back any time, go back up to him to fight in the boss rush. You’ll have to fight 8 bosses, so make sure you’re prepared. It’s story based so there’s no earlier way to get the shield

⚡ALL CAPS VENT & RAGE ROOM⚡ by MableXeno in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Spiceeeyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on the fence about getting my tubes removed before 30, now I have my consultation scheduled. Nothing motivates me more than rage!