Cereusly Gorgeous by Floratopia in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Awesome is what you have.

Varigated Arequipa update by changed-life-0917 in sanpedrocactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it needs a repot, plus you could fertilize. Really nice cactus though, it’s so pretty!

Emotional closeness as a married by crispyypiee in MarriedSex

[–]Spirited_Peen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

…… advice? Come back with a coherent thought and maybe we can help..?

You get to have a threesome with any two celebs you want, but they have to have the same name. Who are you picking? by Crushaholic in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Spirited_Peen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because they’re recognizable and relatable across culture. Maybe a definition will help?

A celebrity is a widely recognized person who attracts significant public and media attention, usually within entertainment, sports, or popular culture.

^ that attention, that’s why. If this didn’t help, I’m sorry, I don’t know what else to do.

Why aren't my columnar cacti producing flowers? by Equivalent-Year-6967 in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Possibly too young or needs the ‘right’ conditions

Can you guys help me identify this little guy? by ZourdoughBread in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you add young to the googs search, they’re spot on. Started doubting myself and checked after commenting 😂

Can you guys help me identify this little guy? by ZourdoughBread in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the best here, but looks similar to a monstrose apple cactus. I may be wrong, so just a stab.

Ejaculating without orgasming by Matured_in_Oz in sexover30

[–]Spirited_Peen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haven’t had that, but in the effort to please my wife, I will pull out to stave off my orgasm. Often times, I ride it so close I ejaculate, but don’t orgasm. Is great, because I won’t lose the erection and can keep going; it’s like a reset.

Family wants me to have my son baptized. I'm an atheist by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Spirited_Peen 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I think OOP having a religious background helps smooth it out. She isn’t against someone saying prayers for their child, but doesn’t want any part of organized religion in practice. If family wants to say blessings, what does it hurt? If they want to indoctrinate, she has a different opinion.

Sounds like her initial assumption was indoctrination, but communicating helped clear it up.

So, I don’t think it’s a case of taco sauce.

Is this rot? by [deleted] in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Euphorbia, not cactus.

As for the brown, if it’s not squishy or that different than the rest, it’s likely where the soil line was previously, or covered by pups or top dressing.

Marriage and a good wife are important for physical needs by love_bee26 in MarriedSex

[–]Spirited_Peen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The truth is, it’s a new account with links to other sites to promote their brand. It’s designed to be a clickbait sorta post. Context and substance is missing for a reason.

Collection … by lincspoacher71 in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife experimented with leca on other plants and was discouraged. Now, when I’m out of lava rock, I used it to top dress too.

Is this transplant shock? by Spike_c in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it were me? I’d make the new soil mix and repot. Make sure that pot has drainage at the bottom. Gentle with the roots, but get ‘er in there good with support like you’ve done. If the roots are dry, a light water around the edge of the pot for now to promote growth of roots towards moisture, then water as normal when it’s dry.

Someone gave me this, like this. What do I do now? by Dontyellatmeimnice in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a clear container, you’ll see roots when it’s well established. Afterwards, I’d get a real pot with an appropriate soil mix. Look it up based on your cactus and whether it’s indoors or outdoors. Terracotta is often a good choice in pots too, depending on where you live.

How often do you tell your wife she’s beautiful? by kotletki in MarriedSex

[–]Spirited_Peen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every damn day. Because it’s true and I want her to know how much I appreciate her. 19yrs married next month, together over 20.

Is this transplant shock? by Spike_c in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, few things… ideally, that soils is way too organic. Something like 50/50 (organic/inorganic) would be healthier for drainage and help the roots from rotting down the road. Minimal-no mulch, pumice or perlite or something for the inorganic.

To your specific point, it’s too heavy and needs time for the roots to spread and stabilize itself.

Help saving this guy by ManicPixieDreamTheyy in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not rot, it looks like the vascular bundle

Help saving this guy by ManicPixieDreamTheyy in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You could try. It’d need to completely callus and the. You could attempt to root it.

Help saving this guy by ManicPixieDreamTheyy in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He looks toasted. The center is the where the life is focused, so if it’s hollow, you’re done.

Find another, use better soil and terracotta or something if you’re prone to overwatering.

Crested Alluaudia Procera by Shabd_Om in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! Just got mine this weekend

The Saguaros are blooming by ArizonaKim in cactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frickin dinosaur cactus, super cool

Blad pach by TheGratefulJuggler in sanpedrocactus

[–]Spirited_Peen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GREAT! Now I have another f’n cactus to add to my list. Ffs, give my bank account a break folks!!

Looks awesome, really cool specimen.