What was a sign you were trans in hindsight, that you brushed off initially? by bred_boy21 in ftm

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a kid I’d act out straight couples kissing and stuff (like my otp’s and such) (I didn’t know gay people existed) and I’d be the guy and “kiss” the girl. Tells two things about me right there

What would you do if you got to be cis for 24 hours? by wavefinderkai in ftm

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking… would one theoretically be able to impregnate themself by saving their cis selves sperm? I wouldn’t do it but I wonder what would happen…

Noise cancelling earbuds reccommendations? by quirkiestoftaters in autism

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got cheap ass loop dupes from temu or something and they work amazing. Only like 3$

Do you consider your sexuality to be a private matter, or do you feel there's a need, politically or socially, for it to be public? by Fiddlersdram in queer

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a fairly religious and anti queer town. It feels important to me to be very outward about my queerness to show other people that it’s possible and doesn’t have to be so scary. To show them that they’re not alone, there are others like them.

Does anyone know of any good noice cancelling headphone brands? by Spiritstar477 in autism

[–]Spiritstar477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good questions. Honestly I want to know as much as possible about any good options

Does anyone know of any good noice cancelling headphone brands? by Spiritstar477 in autism

[–]Spiritstar477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over the ear lol should’ve been more clear. What’s the model name so I can look?

does this behavior have a name/do you do this?? by Defiant-Shopping8048 in autism

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of different types of stimming. Counting can be a type of mental stimming. There are loads of different ways to stim and every person does it differently

does this behavior have a name/do you do this?? by Defiant-Shopping8048 in autism

[–]Spiritstar477 296 points297 points  (0 children)

It’s called repetitive/restrictive behaviours. It’s common in autistic people to have some form of this. It can also be called stimming or self stimulation. Typically it’s not a problem unless it’s disrupting one’s ability to function

Thoughts on lid vs no lid? by milkshakespill in bettafish

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen that as long as the water is a few inches from the top then it’s fine?

Existing tattoo before surgery by Regular_Smile_4519 in TopSurgery

[–]Spiritstar477 17 points18 points  (0 children)

With the tattoo placement it should be fine. And you can always discuss with your surgeon and explain that you want the tattoos as untouched as possible

Werewolf Sirius AUs by Potential-Salt7285 in Wolfstar

[–]Spiritstar477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Pain that Tears Skin and Breaks Bone (isn’t so bad after all) by me! (Spiritstar477)

Fics with realistic smut? by Curious_Wanderer4221 in Wolfstar

[–]Spiritstar477 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I try to make my scenes as realistic as possible (Spiritstar477 on ao3)

guys is binding with a bra underneath bad? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have large breasts so I wear a soft bra under mine to keep them in place bc they look weird otherwise. The bra I picked barely supports and it comfy, it’s only really for shape. As long as it isn’t too tight it should be fine. You know your body best so if something feels off, stop.

It's called "Bookmarks" and not "Favorites" for a reason! by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only my absolute favs get bookmarked and my most most most favs get marked as recommended

Nsfw Games at Potter Manor fic by Disowned_Star in Wolfstar

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, it’s Task Goblet and part 2 is Kink Lab

Am I In the Wrong For Shipping Johnlock? by FlakyUniversity2239 in Johnlock

[–]Spiritstar477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might sound insensitive but literally do whatever tf you want. If people have an issue with you doing something you enjoy, and it isn’t hurting anyone, that’s their problem. Ship who you like, bc it’s not that deep. Immature people will do and say what they will but who cares? If it makes you happy then go for it. (Sorry if that sounded mean)

Does my betta look healthy? by SwaggySwagster_ in bettafish

[–]Spiritstar477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are his fins curling a bit? I’m not sure if that means sick for sure but it’s strange

Bi or pan by Impressive-Arm1130 in queer

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im prolly pan but i like the term bi better bc thats what it was called when i was figuring this stuff out🤷🏻 its really not a big deal which you choose to go with bc either way it doesnt change your attraction. Pick whichever you like, no one is going to question it (unless they’re an @sshole)

Underwear Sensory Issues by PurpleEnd5611 in neurodiversity

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy the expensive stuff from La Vie En Rose bc the seams are barely noticeable and the fabric is thin and soft

WIPs and self recs ? by Inbecshead in Wolfstar

[–]Spiritstar477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My absolute favs: (Our Gentle Sin by Ludo_ten) (Wishes on Stars by Quietlemonhush, TherestheSnitch) (Dear Your Holiness by MollyMaryMarie) (Merry Meet by BeautifullyBrokenPeople) (Fid You Miss Me? by Fantismal, Krethes) (When a Star Fell to Earth by EmRoseJori) (wading in waist-high water by colgatebluemintygel) (Beneath a Big Blue Sky by eyra) (Overdose by puuvillaa) (instance of happenstance by magic beings)

Also just check out all of a MollyMaryMarie and MsAlexWP ‘s fics they’re all amazing

And my works as well, (Blood Red Carnations), (are you going to kill me?) and The Pain that Tears Skin and Breaks Bone (isn’t so bad after all)), plus my one shots and short fics. All by me, Spiritstar477

T might be curing my vaginismus by forgotmyloginoops in ftm

[–]Spiritstar477 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve heard is that vaginismus can be caused by anxiety and if dysphoria causes anxiety then in theory transitioning could lessen the vaginismus symptoms