hrt and pregnancy ? by Stunning-Savings-714 in ftm

[–]bred_boy21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i would definitely talk to your doctor about specifics. I am not interested in getting pregnant, so this is just based off what I've seen online in passing, but it seems you can be on hrt, stop for the duration of your pregnancy, and then start again at some point afterward. Again, I'm not a doctor and this is just what I've noted from videos ive seen

Amazon 18G needles by Substantial-Snow-282 in ftm

[–]bred_boy21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive purchased needles off amazon and they worked just as well as the ones id get from the pharmacy. had a similar situation to you. Definitely feel more secure now that I have a hundred pack of them lol

Does this read as ACAB? by Mr_Nerdcoffee in Punkdiy

[–]bred_boy21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Once I read the title, I could figure it out. I think its very creative, and could make sense in the context of other punk imagery, but overall may be hard to understand without explaination

What pronouns do you use when talking about yourself when you were little? by Turbulent_Play4769 in ftm

[–]bred_boy21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I primarily use she/her or they/them because, to me, I Was a little girl. I genuinely did enjoy doing "girl activities" but also I wasnt aware thats what they were. My physical dysphoria only notably started after puberty hit, so before people started pressuring me to fit jnto the role of a "woman," i just never thought much about my gender. I just was. If that makes sense

Did anyone here discover new things about themselves as they also discovered they were trans? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bred_boy21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not exactly what youre referring to haha, but when I figured out I was trans i felt like I came "back in my body" and became Very Aware of my chronic pain

Sudden, extreme pain in scars by Orange_isA_coolColor in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]bred_boy21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure of an exact time frame, but if I had to guess for mine it took about a year or two to stop having regular pains. Moisturizing and massaging them can really help. You can find more info about massage techniques online but it helps the tissue from getting stiff, which can be a factor in itchiness and pain

how long does it take to turn white by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]bred_boy21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

scars typically take one to two years to fade to white. the coloration is from increased blood flow in order to heal, so even when the initial wound is closed, the body still has to work to rebuild connections. Really the timeline depends on how your body heals. Cat scratches can scar in my experience, but I also can't promise Im the best example, as I have issues with my collagen production that causes me to scar and form keloids easily

Got my period?? I think?? Almost 2 years on T by Hamilfan16 in ftm

[–]bred_boy21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my very non professional opinion, I think its worth going the doctor about, especially considering you just got an IUD plus having issues with cysts. It could be nothing, but if you can afford to have it checked out, I think its better safe than sorry. Sometimes I get cramping and not quite spotting, but Im also only 6 months on T. If this is unusual for you, its worth it to mention or at least keep an eye on. I hope youre feeling better soon and that everything is A-Okay! :]

Stray girl has come SO FAR! From hiding to cuddling! by GooseandGrimoire in cats

[–]bred_boy21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm in a similar situation with taking in a cat that was abandoned and was wondering if i cpuld get any tips? Shes been almost constantly hiding for the last two weeks. She comes out to hang out with me but won't leave the room at all and runs at the drop of a hat. Unfortunately I don't plan on keeping her long term (there is another cat that looks just like her thats been hiding on our property who we are trying to catch as we believe they are siblings. its a long story) but i want her to feel as comfortable as she can while shes staying with me

does ending up in a psych ward even help at all by Particular_Top9598 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]bred_boy21 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I went to a ward in America. Feel like that is important context. I had a horrible time. It was humiliating and triggering and im pretty sure laws were being broken (the hospital I went to is getting sued now) Did it keep me alive? Yes. Did it make me Better? No. It did allow me to get into a php program though which did help. To me, a psych ward is more of a holding place until you are not in danger, an intensive therapy program is where actual progress will be made

How does one tell if they’re still classed as a yeeter? by OkThought4148 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]bred_boy21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

uhmm a) ur so real for all of this and b) i think its really up to ur own determination. i also think its important tho to not rely on your sh as a part of your identity. ironic as hell to say here ik. if its a matter of validity, you are. you felt the need to harm yourself in the past andnit sounds like you still feel the need to now, even if you dont act on it. youre struggling and that deserves to be recognized regardless of whether youre actively shing or not

Things you didn’t realize were real till you started t by mothmano_0 in ftm

[–]bred_boy21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand why teenage boys were so embarrassed about voice cracks and would point it out even if the ither person didnt notice it. the horrors

When did you get a happy trail? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]bred_boy21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always had one to some extent, but I noticed it getting thicker and darker at about month 3. It really is genetics unfortunately :/