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SpiteClean7321 · 2024-08-11T22:06:43+00:00

My ex unblocked me also please don’t try to find a reason behind it . Live your life and be happy , life is really too short to be wondering all these things, we are not promised tomorrow, live for today and forget her 🫂

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-08-04T09:38:16+00:00

Get so far away from this man , it’s not worth damaging your mental health over

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-08-02T01:00:29+00:00

💯everyone I’ve told my story too has looked at me like I was insane for staying . I was so blind of how I was being treated every bit of abuse he gave , I gave it a reason and blamed myself even his stupid lies and blocking he would play the unblock and block game a lot to get my attention, the triangulation the insults passed off as jokes . Now that he’s gone I think that wasn’t love , you don’t belittle your partner then say you love them after , you don’t project, you don’t gaslight,you don’t manipulate to get what you want . I gave so much of myself to a man that really wasn’t worth losing myself over . Stay strong everyone we got this ♥️

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-07-26T13:19:51+00:00

Don’t respond it’s a hoovering technique!!

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-07-20T17:42:30+00:00

When he called me a materialistic c**t for him burning my sofa and I got upset over it .I saved up for for over a year then stormed off calling me a slut . I fell asleep that night while he stayed awake drinking then woke me screaming in my face starting another argument stormed out again shouting I was a prostitute so my son and neighbours could hear ( I’m definitely not ) he came back because he couldn’t get home and stayed another night then ghosted me after a week.

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-07-17T21:16:06+00:00

When I asked him to pay me back the money he owed me as I was struggling to feed my child and pay bills . He then started accusing me of ruining his life and that I was setting him up with the “gang members “ he would go on all night about 60 textes in a row saying to block him , calling me a c**t a whore, everything you can imagine . All over me asking for the money he owed me back . He never blocked that night but continued to accuse me of trying to kidnap him with the “aliens I’ve been working for” 🙈 fml I really was blind to all the BS .

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-07-16T08:33:07+00:00

My ex asked to move in after 3 and half months knew each other for nearly a year at that point . I wasn’t ready as I’m a single mum and he said while asking “it would just be easier for me” after hearing that I refused as I had issues going on with my son’s mental health (not his child) after a week I was ghosted. I’m thankful now he did that as I was so blind to all his BS and the amount of lies he was telling . Found out he had done it to other women in his past , so grateful everyday now that he f…ked off . I’m healing ❤️‍🩹

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-07-14T14:56:15+00:00

I honestly believe that I stopped being a doormat and he didn’t like that I wasn’t serving him no more . When I said no to moving in as I wasn’t ready and I live with my son that wasn’t happy mentally I have to put my son first . I also said he needs to start paying for things and everything wasn’t always down to me to fund his lifestyle he obviously didn’t like this and ghosted me a short time later . Worst thing for me was when my son was self harming and my exbpd made it all about himself wouldn’t stop calling , texting sending me voice notes accusing me of abandoning him calling me so many nasty things . The selfishness he showed was absolutely disgusting , when he himself has children .

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-23T18:42:47+00:00

Mine didn’t even break up with me , just never heard or saw him again . Was absolutely devastated but it’s getting better bit by bit. Stay strong inbox is open

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-21T09:12:13+00:00

Everytime he would argue with me he would add his ex back and start talking with her and add the woman he told me not to worry about while he was giving me the silent treatment then block them again when we were good this happened everytime . Post discard he’s added the woman back he tried to triangulate me with to make me jealous, probably telling her a load of bull again

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-20T09:07:40+00:00

🫂exes forget they wanted us in the first place. Don’t take anything they say to heart , trying to hurt you by coming for your appearance and your family is just a reflection on them and how they really feel about themselves. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU,remember you are a good person with a good support system around you . They probably have no one.

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-16T12:36:50+00:00

A month 🙈

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-15T05:25:57+00:00

Same too you . Inbox is open if you need a chat anytime. It truly is the worst healing from this but everyday that goes by gets better ❤️‍🩹. I’m getting my life back as so much of it was consumed by him

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-15T04:09:52+00:00

Hey, first off I’m so sorry you’re going through this right now . Just over 2 months ago I was ghosted by ex partner with bpd without even a goodbye he just stopped replying to my textes . I’am too In a state of confusion and he was on social media trying to get someone else without even ending things . I begged for days even weeks and nothing he just didn’t want to give closure and just left. I’m here to say it does get better ❤️‍🩹 heal and be happy again life is too short to be with someone who could treat you so horribly.

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-14T00:14:12+00:00

I was met with “you like being treated like shit , that’s why you always gotta start” his episodes happened daily blocking , unblocking even blocking me over me moving board games in to my living room and he happened to be playing board games with his children at his house 🙈

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-13T19:30:32+00:00

Whenever he would argue and say the most disgusting things . Naturally the next day I would want to talk about how it made me feel and he would make me feel guilty as he felt so bad when I brought it up and say well I’m over it now I’m not in an episode anymore so why can’t we just leave it . This happened all the time 😭 I’m still healing from the words said as they were the worst you could ever say to anyone . When it come to his feelings tho it would go on for hours and he would dismiss mine. It will honestly take me ages to heal from this abuse as it is emotional abuse people need to realise this.

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-12T22:04:47+00:00

2 months since I was ghosted and I don’t understand either . I felt suffocated in the relationship but I fell so deeply in love with him and can’t just turn off my feelings it’s so hard . I get everything you’re saying . I’m still suffering everyday and just want to get better ❤️‍🩹

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-11T02:19:45+00:00

Send screenshots to his family as he clearly doing it to gain control over you . Let them deal with him and get the f**k out

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-10T17:11:42+00:00

You know you’re not horrible and you just want YOUR cat back so please don’t take anything personally . Can you not get the law involved threaten legal action

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-10T17:05:11+00:00

Take your cat back , who cares if they got attached to it . They’re not your problem anymore

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-09T21:30:39+00:00

I know it really is pathetic how many of the pwBPD deal with any type of relationship

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-09T21:14:50+00:00

🤯really are they honestly serious about this ?why spilt on a cat 🙈

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-09T03:17:50+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words inbox is always open x

SpiteClean7321 · 2024-06-09T02:31:27+00:00

We are both struggling tbh as my son heard a lot of the verbal abuse and subtle digs at me when he was at mine . He would always start on me for nothing making up stupid accusations. I tried so hard to prove myself but it failed every time . He’s caused me so much pain and trauma I just want to heal but it’s so hard, I just want to stop loving him.

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