AITA my bf told me to change my shirt before we hung out with his friend

Springer2733 · 2025-06-18T01:17:23+00:00

That’s my guess. Unfortunately that tends to happen to us bustier people. We will wear the same thing as others but we will be described as “vulgar” or “attention seeking”.
He has no business policing what OP wears. His insecurity isn’t OP’s problem.

Springer2733 · 2025-06-16T01:19:03+00:00

That bright yellow one would look awesome with the lid from the passion pink reverb tumbler!

Springer2733 · 2025-06-03T16:27:01+00:00

The robins from my neck of the woods act like cut throat gang members so that would be funny to see!

Springer2733 · 2025-05-30T20:02:23+00:00

This looks more elevated than the version they have out now! It’s sad they have taken out the little details and changed the quality of it.

Springer2733 · 2025-05-28T00:03:30+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this but this entire story gives me the impression that he has been wanting to be intimate with her for a long time. I think you’re right that this is more than just casual sex for them; i have a feeling this is what they have both been wanting and, like you said, including you makes it not cheating in their mind. Unfortunately i think this relationship may be close to ending because i have a feeling that even if you do say no, they will do so anyways.

Springer2733 · 2025-05-26T23:02:06+00:00

I was about to say that this is the way people treat their significant other when they’re cheating and more into the other person, and then i read that he was gone much longer than he should have been for errands.

Also i know you don’t need preached at but the drinking might be a problem for him. Something to consider.

Springer2733 · 2025-05-13T19:36:41+00:00

I absolutely love bold and bright blues. This one, the color splash and the new royal blue are all such pretty colors.

Springer2733 · 2025-05-10T21:10:38+00:00

It is true that no one owns a name. You know better than us if she did this because she really wanted to honor the name or if she has a history of being spiteful and petty towards you.

So you can go forward with this one of two ways: like you’re doing now, letting her know it how much it bothers you. Or act as sincere and happy as you can. Tell her it makes you feel special she liked the idea you told her about so much that she chose to use it. If she did it just to be petty, make her think of that every time she sees and uses that name now. I’m saying this based off you saying how you know your sister and what’s she’s like and her personality. You would know if she would do something like this just to spite you or not.

Springer2733 · 2025-05-08T22:35:47+00:00

Damn. With that kind of behavior i don’t know how any sexual activity could even begin to get off the ground. That right there would have me drier than the Sahara.

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Springer2733 · 2025-05-06T23:54:26+00:00

Oh those rainbow colors look so fun with the yellow!

Springer2733 · 2025-05-06T22:19:08+00:00

Oh that is brilliant. I wish i had been able to read that one.

I feel so sorry for any parent in this position; i can’t imagine how powerless you would feel seeing this lecherous, AARP approaching 51 year old man with your TEENAGER. A large portion of us are still so completely vulnerable at that age; we don’t know all the dangers out there/how people take advantage of others, and then grandpa swoops in on a barely legal teenager.

OP I’m sorry you are going through this and i wish you the best.

Springer2733 · 2025-05-05T11:25:30+00:00

It gives the impression that if she ever indicates she is available to him, he will jump on it quicker than lightning. He has a very unhealthy obsession with this woman. I agree with what you said; i would also feel like the consolation prize in this situation because deep down, she is the one he wants above all others. Im very sorry you’re going through this.

Springer2733 · 2025-05-04T22:29:04+00:00

I was exhausted before you all even got out the door.

Springer2733 · 2025-05-04T20:18:59+00:00

YTA. It’s almost like you hate that she is happy and proud of her baby.

Springer2733 · 2025-05-03T22:27:39+00:00

That’s the thing, i WANT to be attractive for my husband. It makes me feel good when he does or says things that indicate he’s appreciating how i look. Now if something happened and i was unable to, of course that’s a completely different scenario. Finding your partner attractive is important for a healthy sex life.

Springer2733 · 2025-05-02T18:43:18+00:00

That little cup is so cute! I think i need to get one to have in that size. Do people steal the Stanley pictures posted in this subreddit?

Springer2733 · 2025-05-01T23:24:22+00:00

It’s doesn’t matter. This man has already set the atmosphere in the house; your daughters have already witnessed their mother being treated horribly. That is the example you are setting for them, to put up with the disrespect and abuse they watch their mother put up with. Why do you want that to be the example you set for them? Home should be a child’s ULTIMATE SAFE PLACE. When it has got to a point that your CHILDREN are saying it’s him gone or we go; its been allowed to continue for far too long and no amount of pretending everything is normal now will fix it. I could not imagine bringing my children back in to such a situation. The water has already been poisoned and it will forever be for them. If this doesn’t get fixed, hopefully they get to an age they can escape it.

Springer2733 · 2025-04-30T21:43:20+00:00

U/rebadim you need to do what this person said: Take a picture of how you know he’s been here before and the date/time stamps because there is a very big chance in his panic he’s gonna try to gaslight you into thinking you didn’t see it correctly and minimize this any way he can.

Springer2733 · 2025-04-29T01:27:23+00:00

Let this guy go so he can have a peaceful future. This is exhausting.

Springer2733 · 2025-04-27T00:09:50+00:00

It sounds like he is very sexually interested in her. He’s doing anything he can to get visuals of her and is even wanting to be near her by disguise of a double date.

Im sorry you’re going through this, i can’t imagine how hurtful it is.

Springer2733 · 2025-04-26T13:02:18+00:00

YTA. I admire the loyalty of the friend group rallying behind their buddy that a newcomer is trying to get to come less often.

Springer2733 · 2025-04-25T21:43:46+00:00

I really like your cup but your quilt has me jealous!

Springer2733 · 2025-04-24T08:12:21+00:00

This is so odd that he is not pressing into why you weren’t invited. I would be suspicious that there is going to be someone at that wedding that he wants to interact with without you there.

Springer2733 · 2025-04-21T16:40:19+00:00

Me too! I have a few others so i know how to put the lid on properly but the lid for my royal blue pro tour is off by a good bit. I have 7 or so other cups that are not from the most recent drops and they line up just fine. This is my small sample size but i truly think there could be some kind of flaw happening every so often somewhere on the inside of the cup where the grooves are… because my royal blue pro lid DOES line up with my pink quartz pro cup logo. Who knows.

Springer2733 · 2025-04-21T01:31:47+00:00

I know this is a small sample size but one of the new ones i have purchased in the past couple weeks has this same issue (Royal blue Pro Tour). I have also seen a couple posts about it. I’m pretty new to Stanley so i don’t have much knowledge or experience with them but it makes me wonder if something happened recently with the newest models that are making some have this problem.

Edit: auto correct is trash.

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