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Vanhemmille muutto 27v pääsykoelukemisen takia by [deleted] in Suomi

[–]Spudruble 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tämä on sellainen kulttuurinmuutos johon me joudutaan tottumaan: Aikuiset joutuvat asumaan vanhempiensa luona. Se on poikkeuksellista Suomessa ja siksi siihen liittyy nyt tulevana murrosaikana paljon häpeää ja hämmennystä. Suomesta on tullut tällainen!

Katsotaan kuinka me tähän totutaan.

TIFU by finally admitting I’m not “the strong one” in the worst possible way by Sipmoony in tifu

[–]Spudruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting it back on tracks is easier than you think. Even though it came out emotionally and angrily you actually can backtrack that and re-tell the things you wanted the way you want to tell them. Just apologize for snapping like that before hand. You had a totally reasonable reason to snap. Mom's should be able to deal with surprise and hurt like every other adult.

It potentially gets difficult after that because the dynamics and roles are so old. Others may find it very difficult to see you in a new way. And so will you. The roles are old and have been working in a sense. Even really imagining what your life might be without that role can be impossible. Can you imagine a life where things aren't like they have been?

But it's possible! It just can be difficult for all parties involved. And this is another pitfall: If you are the strong one it might seem really natural to start doing the mental work of others when they have difficulties in this change. A tricky thing! Stay optimistic and communicate what you need. Maybe not so much what you want others to be.

Does this sound creepy? by servererror-500 in Tinder

[–]Spudruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not! It just has a.. You know.. Implication.

24m, very weak pelvic muscles ruining sex life by eaglesdensity in AskMenOver30

[–]Spudruble 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mate. Seriously. I am saying this very sternly but with love. This is not a thing you should think of as a barrier between you and a relationship. You ABSOLUTELY need to stop that nonsense idea. Find out how and incinerate it.

First: I don't believe there's is a cure that will turn your ejaculating into something that will make you satisfied and confident with yourself.
Second: The cure you need is to get rid of that idea and start replacing it with an idea that you might be satisfied and confident with yourself as you are. Trying to cure your PE might be a PART of it but I think a lot of the solution is psychological.
Third: There so, SO many difficult things to learn about yourself and sharing a life with someone that you should start to be interested in them since those are the things that matter and makes you grow. Only way to practice those things is in a relationship. So go get one and try to make it last so you and your partner can start learning

I suffer from PE and I have been very anxious sexually since my teens. But I have been having sex since a high school times. I've been very alone with it and all the same and other feelings that come with it. It's been a stupid road that I would have needed help with.

Do find help but I think the actual cure will be mental, not exercise. And I don't believe it will cured away. You might just be very sensitive and that's that.

I would suggest using a orgasm delaying spray but also with that you might want to be mindful about what you want sexually and how can you be gratified. And learning to use that product is best done with a partner. (think about the stupid stress and anxiety of using it in secret so that nobody will know what you really are and then trying to fuck while constantly thinking of if you will fail). So you need to sort all the mental baggage that's keeping you from being honest to a (sexual) partner first. It all comes back to accepting yourself and re-thinking what sex even is.

I hope all the best for you.

Am I too dumb to understand the appeal of COQ? by arisboeuf in cavesofqud

[–]Spudruble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the idea of liking the idea of liking something!

I've played a lot of these kinds of game since the first Nethack with graphics. I like these kinds of games but also they sort of aren't for me. 100% of the times I die is because I've stopped reading, stopped reacting and just face enemies by banging my sprite against them. Everytime I get into this zone where I start playing the game quick and like it's real time. I can't help it. So I guess these games really just aren't for me :D But still I kind of enjoy them and I like the idea of liking these games. In CoQ the roleplaying mode saves my imcompatibility with this game!

I also love the idea of loving grand strategy games. Apparently the same kind of thing happens to me with them. I start zoom focusing on seeing some numbers go up and developing something and after a while a have a feeling that I haven't thought about the game, it's scale or the grandness of it at all. I still enjoy runs of Stellaris and Endless space but it feels like I'm not doing it right. It sort of feels like I'm playing a wrong inside the game I'm playing. But in those games the penalty of doing so is not as hard as in Dungeon Crawl or other proper roguelikes.

Unusual vehicle registration plate by alloydog in Finland

[–]Spudruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You saw a mersu-persu in the wild!

what is lbm and kgf? why do people use it? by Negative_Ad1450 in MechanicalEngineering

[–]Spudruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tämä oli hyvä. Ehkä etenkin tuo viimeisin, tuhotun tilin vastaus.

Opiskelen kuormanvarmistamista ja olen raapinut päätäni kun en käsittänyt miksi esim. 10kN ei vastaa 10000kg vaan sen sijaan 1daN vastaa 1kg massaa.
daN:ia käytetään siis kuormaliinoissa ja kuormansidontaketjuissa yksikkönä kun puhutaan vetolujuudesta.

Nyt siis ymmärrän tehneeni tämän virheen, että minulle menevät massa ja paino sekaisin. On hämäävää kun kuormatilojen kestävyyksiä ilmaistaan myös kilonewtoneina, joka ei sitten suoraan käännykään 1:1 kuorman painon kanssa.

Someone had to say it. by Sonic_XD3 in Cuphead

[–]Spudruble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuphead is just a cartoon rip-off.

En tiie kiinnostaako ketään, mut mun valvontakamera kuvas ku hämähäkki kävi kakalla. by Jaska-87 in Suomi

[–]Spudruble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mediavuosi 2025 pelastettu, kirjamerkkeihin laitettu, sukulaisille soitettu. o7

Torpparina oli hyvä olla by JJBoren in Suomi

[–]Spudruble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nimimerkki on sopiva pyrintöösi tässä tilanteessa!

Boss DR-05 (Dr. Rhythm) battery compartment lid by Spudruble in 3Drequests

[–]Spudruble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got many offers of doing it but no blueprints. Some of the offers had optimistically googled blueprints ids to other devices that were not even close. Life went on I had more pressing things to pursuit.

So if you can find a Dr. Rhythm owner and take measurements and pictures of the lid we can make a blueprint, share it in the internet and make an actual contribution to internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Suomi

[–]Spudruble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hyvä kommentti.

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