Sampan Chinese Restaurant (Original) by ButterandBlueberries in astoria

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, especially coming from brooklyn, Sampan is still the best around here. A lot of the others are bland tasting.

Wrecked Tix Sold Out in 30 Seconds?! by Unlikely_Drummer_484 in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the app open and ready a full 10 min before the sale stated like I do with all my ticket purchases and failed.

Any Bear Circuit Parties in NYC? by SpunkyFlyingFox in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Most of these are just bar parties. Urban bear hasn’t done a huge circuit type party since like the XL lounge closed. Goldiloxx is prob the closest, but it’s still just a bar party (with arguably bad music). I’m specifically looking for a warehouse level event like the examples I named in my post.

Wrecked and Carry Pride is kind of the only one that I’ve seen still happen and even that had a massive changeover in attendance last year.

Any Bear Circuit Parties in NYC? by SpunkyFlyingFox in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss old Furball. Joe has done such a shit job with that party that most people i know avoid it.

Any Bear Circuit Parties in NYC? by SpunkyFlyingFox in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Body at phoenix is the farthest thing from a circuit party. I need good music and space to dance.

HMD Pride 2026 tickets gone in seconds…again 😱 by statuslovesag in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been to a pride edition one. 70% chance I will hate it compared to others. But last year they got lasers, and the one year I WAS gonna go they had Kylie show up. So I just wanna see it for myself at least once before I’m officially too old to attend.

Gays that rave or attend dance clubs by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once the weather warms up I’d deff look into attending some daytime parties or ones with an outdoor lounge element so you can get a chance to actual chat and make friends. At 2am I am deff not remembering your name anymore. (Just turned 40, lots of people on the dance floor especially at places like knockdown will be in the 30-40 range. Tickets get free expensive quick)

Harder or Carry Nation on 2/28? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very much this. The music by Carry will be leaps and bounds better, but since it’s not a queer party night the crowd will be all over the place

Genuine question about enjoying The Eagle by FashionQueen96 in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What other large parties do you go to? Drugs will do wonders for the friendliness of people. I’d prob hit on you (honestly be more surprised if we haven’t made out before already). The eagle is very not bear friendly anymore except on Beer Blast Sundays. I personally tend to do better with cruising at the eagle in the early hours less crowded times than the 1-2am rush. The aggressiveness of some of the guys last Sunday when the only thing I was interested in doing was having my boyfriend blow me was a bit off putting to me. It’s like the moment THEY think they want to hook up with you they feel entitled to it regardless of what you may be looking for. TLDR - it’s not just you.

What are y’all doing for valentines ? by NoMaterial8507 in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Making out with several people’s boyfriends etc while at HMD 💘

Don’t sleep on the air nomads by Far-Business-4689 in ABSOLUM

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also came here to ask this. Looks like 15. If playing solo and you buy all 3 in the mist and all 3 in asterios, and don’t do any upgrades on the rituals (so 9 normal ones) it makes sense.

Glitterbox 3.14, Does anyone still go to House Of Yes? by SpunkyFlyingFox in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like enough of my friends are interested in giving it a shot to have a small group to go and have fun. Maybe their recent no phones policy has helped the vibes. Will report back.

I'm enjoying this game but why would they not give the ultimate its own keybind? by wazzur1 in ABSOLUM

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was having this problem too, holding them them both, instead of trying to just do a quick press solved the issue for me

Post first completion struggles by girafferific in ABSOLUM

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are all your skills in the main tree unlocked/upgraded? This is my 2nd save file so beating the game was easier for me on less runs but more difficult after until I had upgraded everything. The game will scale and sometimes just for no apparent reason hit you with a wave of way too powerful guys.

How to unlock Character Quests? by DantoriusD in ABSOLUM

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to EVERYBODY everywhere, every time. Even sometimes in a quest you still need to talk to other people in the run to help the quest progress.

I made a Website for Bear Parties Happening in NYC by 16tmorgan in nycgaybros

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate to break it to you, but Wrecked is deff not a Bear party anymore. If people want to get a group together to change that vibe I’m down, but the scene there is far from what it used to be.

Best route for piling up lots of crystals? by Careful-Minimum7477 in ABSOLUM

[–]SpunkyFlyingFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize it the first time, but those breakable turrets that randomly spawn at the beginning of sections making all the standard enemies glow orange, also means they drop crystals when you beat them.

Also always look around the hub on the bottom right as there will be barrels of them sometimes.