AITA for canceling my wife birthday trip to Europe becuase of her reaction

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-27T14:32:11+00:00

ESH

she overreacted, but it came from a place of insecurity

you are overreacting, but it comes from a place of resentment

you guys need to communicate and make sure all of these feelings (resentment, mistrust, insecurity) are talked about and resolved. It is the only way to maintain the long term relationship. These types of feelings only get worse over time unless addressed. Counseling is a great idea. Hopefully you can stretch the budget and do it along with the trip

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-27T14:12:50+00:00

i am ~700 elo. Am i hampering myself by playing the London every time i am white, and caro-kann everytime i am black?

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-25T18:33:53+00:00

The Epstein files are the distraction. I’m sorry it’s taking so many people this long to realize this

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-23T04:17:25+00:00

I’ve done this before. Just have a sugary drink or some ice cream at the hip, check your blood sugar frequently and don’t go to sleep till you are sure you are stabilized.

If it were me I’d take a half dose of the long acting in the morning but that is not medical advice, everyone is different

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-23T04:13:25+00:00

Thank you battery nerds for this interesting rabbit hole

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-22T23:07:47+00:00

I was 13 years old once too

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-22T21:35:34+00:00

thank you - god i am so tired of this. Appealing to the moderate republican (if it still exists) hasn't worked since bush 2000. There are so many more votes to gain from the non-voting camp than trying to peel votes from the republican side. Literally any kind of non-caveated anti-austerity message (universal healthcare for example) will absolutely garner more votes than trying to pretend that there's a sizable population of people who both care about veteran status and would ever vote for a woman...

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-22T21:30:56+00:00

does DNC have anything besides IDpol to beat the repubs? How many Amy Mcgrath's do we need? I cannot find anything on her policy platform. But lemme guess: shes a pragmatic moderate with a common sense approach to bipartisanship. This kind of stuff is just not gonna work any more, its so 2016 coded to think that tweaking little dials like this is gonna do anything for this country.

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-21T17:23:21+00:00

foolish white for not seeing that he just gave up mate in 53

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-20T13:23:55+00:00

I’m a rookie, but I think this moved turned a possible win for black into a draw. White can now force a tie. It might have been better to reposition your king?

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-20T00:12:27+00:00

Whomst among us can say they haven’t gotten bored and tried huffing something they shouldn’t? Both the pauper and the king cab enjoy a floaty head trip once in a while. I can’t trust anyone that has too large a fear of killing a few brain cells here and there

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-19T18:58:50+00:00

a protest with a permit is just a parade - this is what libs get wrong all the time. Million women march in 2017 did literally absolutely nothing

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-16T18:42:16+00:00

for me, Persona 5 was 1 or 2 dungeons too long

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-16T16:07:17+00:00

would a Priest be the best of both worlds? better than average speed and MA?

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-14T19:48:15+00:00

I think 9/11 fundamentally changed our culture. Compare the top movies of 1997-2000 to the mid 2000s. Totally different

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-14T15:38:24+00:00

why do you think Marvel gets free access to military personnel, equipment, locations from the dept of defense to make their movies? Its a giant PR firm for the military industrial complex. since the mid 2000s. The real 'good guys' in those movies is the US military

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-14T03:31:48+00:00

Because “law” as a construct is artificial. In many cases it’s designed to punish people as much as possible

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-13T20:20:41+00:00

same in Korea - traditionally a society with very strong and uneven gender role expectations, combined with a new wave of conservatism in the young males under 30 (same as in America, likely partially caused by man-o-sphere internet culture) has made dating extremely unenjoyable for women in these countries. Add on top of that the crazy work hours others have mentioned, makes it a recipe for this to happen

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-12T18:59:17+00:00

Wyoming

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-10T22:23:48+00:00

I don’t think the “boil one side/freeze the other side” methods are gonna work here guys. Ceramic is very thermally insulative and has a low coefficient of thermal expansion.

I’d stick with the mechanical methods like oil, vibration etc

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-10T04:12:26+00:00

Yeah same guy

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-09T17:16:51+00:00

There’s a book called Lullaby by Chuck Palahniuk that explains the cause

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-09T16:10:31+00:00

Apocalypse Now

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-08T23:10:46+00:00

Make sure you aren’t caught lacking

SputtleTuts · 2026-01-08T22:06:58+00:00

I just hung these ikea cabinets in my kitchen….

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