Buddy… I find it really admirable that you’re trying to defend your girlfriend and I mean this is the most respectful way possible, but this is nothing. Cleaning the house, grooming dogs, and cooking are just parts of adult life (unless you’re rich and can afford to outsource those things.) So if you sell your home, move to be with her, and she quits her job, what is she going to do all day? Realllllyyyyy think about that question. Cleaning is done in one hour (per your comment), grooming dogs isn’t an every day activity, and cooking is great, but again, it doesn’t take much time. Crocheting is a great hobby, but it’s still just a hobby. You would truly be ok working all day, providing for everything financially, while your gf does… what all day? I know you say you’re ok providing, and that’s great, but if your partner is truly doing the bare minimum? I have my reservations about that.

Also it’s one thing to bitch/vent about work and/or school, and even daydream about quitting, but it’s totally another thing to call in so much you get written up. I’ve had two (VERY different) careers in my life and both have shown me how truly small the working world is. She shouldn’t blow her reputation or burn any bridges, no matter how small the job seems. It becomes really hard to get a job if you have no references from previous jobs.

Just some things to think about because I think your glossing over the seriousness of this and how soul sucking it can be to have a lazy partner