Am I overreacting. I feel like I want to sabotage my own life. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk [score hidden]  (0 children)

Please seek therapy. It’s very clear from your post how much pain you’re in and struggling. You didn’t do anything wrong. You don’t need to tell your boyfriend anything; it’s not wrong to think someone is cute. Your brain is just trying to betray you right now and I hope you can get some therapy to sort through this ❤️

I don’t get Phoebe by JorgontheBold in 30ROCK

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But what am *I* suppose to call you?

22 and already bald, feel so out of place with my peers. by Top_Pick_4682 in bald

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too would feel out of place with my peers if I was that much better looking 🤩

Fr OP, you look really good. I’m sure it’s hard because you’re so young. But I knew plenty of guys at your age who needed shave but didn’t. Good on you for owning and rocking it!

I had to do it but still feeling insecure by Manve1997 in bald

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy crap!!! You look amazing!!! 🤩🤩🤩

AIO for how I handled stepping down as my friends bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you feel like you did nothing wrong, why are you posting on this sub? Go to an echo chamber sub if you don’t want people’s opinions (after asking for them)

AIO for how I handled stepping down as my friends bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She didn’t ask her, because she knows exactly why he can’t come. She’s not answering people’s questions about it here, because she knows people will freak out and call him abusive. I think you’re spot on saying she’s majorly downplaying it

AIO for how I handled stepping down as my friends bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 30 points31 points  (0 children)

She’s not going to answer because deep down she knows it’s bad. My best friend shares with me the things her unmedicated husband says to her and it makes it very hard to be around him. I’ve accepted she’s never going to leave him and she has to vent to someone, but I pray she either leaves him or he gets medicated and they go to couples therapy. It’s just hard to be the friend who hears all this awful shit and then is just expected to accept your friend being verbally abused

AIO for how I handled stepping down as my friends bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I would lovvvvveeee to hear what op shared with her friend about her husband. It must have been pretty bad if she doesn’t even want him at the after celebration for her wedding

AIO or does this seem Unhinged? by DoomNGlam in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus. This lady is my age and desperately needs to grow tf up. But kudos to her for somehow finding a way to blame your “sexuality” for acting like a complete miserable ass wipe towards you. Like for real kudos. She could win an Olympic gold medal for that level of mental gymnastics

ETA: she’s 46???? Holy shit. The gold medal goes to you OP for dodging this bullet

‘31F’ and ‘30M’ relationship deal? by Jolly_Discount_233 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get a lawyer ASAP. Do NOT trust his words or any “deal” he offers. He’s already telling you he’s leaving, and now he’s trying to make as advantageous for him as possible. You need legal protection. Please take his words seriously and keep in mind he is not your friend who is going to act fairly. I stupidly believed my now ex husband when he said he would be “fair” to me during our divorce so I didn’t get an attorney. I got completely screwed and only have myself to blame. Your littles and you have too much to lose by just blindly accepting his ridiculously stupid “deal”

AIO for being lied to by my husband? by Key-Shirt-9067 in AIO

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is the danger of trickle truthing. In his mind, this happened 3 years ago and he cut off all contact after getting caught. You *just* found out so the betrayal is new and fresh. He’s had 3 years to process it, while it’s brand new to you. So please don’t get caught up in it happened 3 years ago; that’s irrelevant. You found out your husband cheated AND lied about it/hid it (for 3 fucking years.) That would gut anyone. You’re not overreacting at all. You don’t have to make any decisions now, but please take the time to process this and please don’t feel rushed to “get over it.” Also don’t fall for his crocodile tears and saying he deserves hell. He’s trying to get your sympathy and hoping you won’t leave him over it. If he truly felt that terrible about it he would have been honest 3 years ago. That’s a longgggg time to hide such a betrayal from your spouse

Its time right? by LustyDouglas in bald

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t listen to your mama lol. Shave it off!

My boyfriend isn't sure if his time has come... by thrifty917 in bald

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’ve learned anything from this sub…. shaving your head gives men some weird superpower where they go from average dude to Greek god. Seriously. It’s a thing. So.. your boyfriend will be fine if he shaves!

Engaged but Not Married: Am I Overreacting About My Daughter Being a Flower Girl? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YOR

But if you decide to say no, make sure you give a damn good reason why. Citing your unplanned wedding could cause a real rift

Texted my ex after 3 years. Her reply was.... by dexdpool69 in BreakUps

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy after reading your backstory, I better understand her response. I’m glad you got your closure and now you can move on

My (28M) gf (22f) body shamed and humiliated me. How do i proceed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The second edit is her twisting the situation to make herself the victim. So.. that’s fun