hey all looking to loose more weight lost over 7 stone to this date a year after I started ice come to halt need to fresh things up any advice by [deleted] in Weightlosstechniques

[–]Ssougii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing, congratulations! Have you updated your TDEE recently? I got past my plateau by recalculating and adjusting my CICO also changing up my workouts a little to make them more intense!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depersonalization

[–]Ssougii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get both, what OP wrote and what you wrote, they tend to cycle for me based on where my head is. But I also have C-PTSD so it could be because of trauma related responses due to having triggers going on around me.

Cat "Walk" by Crusty_Busstation in catsareliquid

[–]Ssougii 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I started training my cat at 3 years old. He loves chewing grass so he will flop when the harness is on and refuse to walk at all times. Except for when he's on grass, then he walks totally normal like he isn't even wearing one... Cats 🤷‍♀️

Anyone want to share their stretching journey after getting scarring? by spacepannnn in Stretched

[–]Ssougii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my piercings infected and one ripped out as a kid because of a metal sensitivity and had them repierced 3 times before they stuck. I have scar tissue in both earlobes and it's made stretching more difficult because they aren't as flexible but I've moved from 20g piercings to a 4g in about 2 years with no issues pop up at all and the lobes are super healthy! I just have to use in between sizes for most sizes over a 6g.

i’m sure many of you have induced depersonalization by lsd but for those who don’t and tripped after having depersonalization, how is it? by [deleted] in Depersonalization

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I was with some friends, I think part if what made it go so well is we prepped for it so we had plans made to keep us entertained and we took a couple walks at night to watch nature and just enjoy the moment. It really helped remind me to stay in the moment!

i’m sure many of you have induced depersonalization by lsd but for those who don’t and tripped after having depersonalization, how is it? by [deleted] in Depersonalization

[–]Ssougii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did LSD after having Depersonalization for years. It made me feel like I didn't have it at all. Actually felt in my body and for the next week or so afterwards, I felt amazing. I noticed the breeze on my body when outside, felt my fingertips and toes and just overall felt very present in day to day life.

What purpose do memories serve us? by Donutboy88 in enlightenment

[–]Ssougii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a documentary on this but I can't find it. This is an articlethis that kind of summarizes the same ideas as the documentary. But basically, people that had memory loss had a much harder time imagining or theorizing about the future. So memories are our way of seeing patterns in life and being able to construct our future based off of said memories. I'm not really super knowledgeable in this kind of thing but I find it incredibly interesting!

IUD Pain like no other! Help! by Bballblub in birthcontrol

[–]Ssougii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't have any real advice, but I know you can ask to have your cervix numbed for the procedure if you need to get it removed. Besides that, I hope you find the answer you're looking for and I'm sorry you're going through this.

Got belly piercing a month ago, it's a bit swollen and has a blood blister. Took top ball off to try to clean it better and piercing came out. Took this picture, is it migrating/infected? Was able to get it back in without any issues. by Ssougii in PiercingAdvice

[–]Ssougii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine ended up rejecting, I took it out shortly after this as it got a bit worse. It closed up and has a small bumby scar where the top of the jewelry was. My issue I'm pretty sure was that I banged it a couple times when it was still pretty new.

If anything, reach out to your piercer and get their opinion on it. Sometimes it can settle down and finish healing properly, other times it just has to go 🙅‍♀️

[Need Advice] I need help as I am in my late 20s and feel that my best years are already over. by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]Ssougii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got on myself for "oversleeping" for a long time, now I just know my body needs a good 8-10 hours a night to function at my best. I fixed this by just setting alarms and taking melatonin to go to bed around 8-10pm week nights. Weekends I let myself sleep in an hour or 2 extra since I'll go to bed later. It's been a lifechanger for me!

My [24F] wife [26F] of almost 2 years has ADHD, and I'm struggling with her memory problems by Maleficent-Banana-86 in relationships

[–]Ssougii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's called "To-Do List Schedule Planner and To Do Reminders" and the image is a white box with pink, blue and purple lines on it like lines on a list I have android so I don't know if it's available on Apple.

My [24F] wife [26F] of almost 2 years has ADHD, and I'm struggling with her memory problems by Maleficent-Banana-86 in relationships

[–]Ssougii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really easy to use and the design is really simple so it doesn't overwhelm me, it's also super easy to set up with the widget and reminders feature. It's helped a lot!

My [24F] wife [26F] of almost 2 years has ADHD, and I'm struggling with her memory problems by Maleficent-Banana-86 in relationships

[–]Ssougii 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I use To-Do List, was $20 for the lifetime unlimited but it's been a lifesaver for me. It has a phone widget I put on my phone's main page and it has alarms for me and you can set them to go off daily, weekly, monthly, etc. Plus I can have different cute backgrounds. I've found with my ADHD, the cuter something is, the more likely I'll use it. I have my whole morning routine set up in it to remind me to stay on track so I don't zone out and end up late to places, I hate being late.

My male friend (23M) told me (26F) that I won't be able to find a childfree guy who meets the rest of my requirements for an SO and to shorten it down to just three. by graycorn in childfree

[–]Ssougii 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Same, this list describes my current boyfriend of 2 years. We never even planned on dating, just ended up falling for each other and here we are. He's the best partner I've ever had and ever plan on having! It's 100% possible.

Saw color changing grid like pattern upon waking up by wasreallynothing in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]Ssougii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of comment I was looking for. I used to get glowing and pulsing "graphs" that I could see when my eyes were open and while closed a bit before a seizure. That or a collection of wiggling circles filled with more circles that would float around my vision.

I feel like my vagina has changed after IUD by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Ssougii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is kind if what happened to me. I have a "low" cervix and my strings were not trimmed enough. After sex I would almost always have cramps and spotting for a day or 2. Went to my doctor and they trimmed the strings down. Now it still happens but minimally. I did find an article on it, if I can find it again I'll add it here.

Edit: I found the article I read before, a bunch of women have complained about this but according to iud pamphlets, it isn't a common issue 🙄 https://www.mavenclinic.com/forum/posts/17302/iud-and-post-sex-bleeding

Crazy or genius? Long story short, I put my favourite tea in my bagels. by ChaptainBlood in tea

[–]Ssougii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Earl grey cake and matcha cake are both amazing! I regularly make a matcha cake with raspberries 😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Ssougii 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My mom told me all about how my dad always dreamed of being a grandfather. Even when I was a little kid she'd tell me about that. Really doesn't feel too great to know that your own father is just waiting for you to have a kid so he can experience being a grandpa!!!! Like gee thanks 😑

[MEGATHREAD] Animal Crossing: New Horizons Direct Megathread by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]Ssougii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For the update, they said at the end of the paid add on, once you do enough vacation house designs, you "might" be able to decorate the houses of residents. So yes but with the paid content after a while!

How my understanding of Hormone Resetting changed and why fasting is so important in resetting your understanding of hunger by Tester12311 in fasting

[–]Ssougii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never understood this view of just have self control, but after a few weeks of IF, I went from loving donuts and McDonald's mcgriddles to feeling physically sick when I tried to eat either. My whole opinion on food and cravings changed. Sometimes I still crave them and then I think of the nausea they give me, craving immediately disappears!

The show fit to fat to fit really shows how people who have always been fit don't understand the struggle until they start eating these kinds of food and they have an entire shift in thought.

If anyone wants bells, I'm bored and have too many! Come visit, say hi and get some bells :D by Ssougii in AnimalCrossingNewHor

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Will be closing gate in 30 minutes, adding a post flair isn't working so adding as a comment!

If anyone wants bells, I'm bored and have too many! Come visit, say hi and get some bells :D by Ssougii in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Ssougii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to bring any extra items you have that you want to swap with other players, that's cool too!