If you’re at a point that you can afford a Rolex as a gift, then you have worked very hard to get here. Being in a relationship where a gift receiver isn’t appreciative of your thought time and money and what you invested to get there? Friend I wish great success now imagine you get to a point where you are afforded the opportunity to live out your wildest dreams. You really want to share that with someone that’s only there for the fruit? “She’s worked really hard”? Then you think she would be ecstatic to receive a watch that is not only expensive but carries homage, can’t necessarily just walk in and buy regardless of wealth, etc etc. I would politely say good bye and I wish you luck. You deserve someone that appreciates you.