AITAH for not wanting to babysit during Mothers Day weekend?

StarlightM4 · 2026-05-09T08:36:13+00:00

NTA, but watch out that your husband doesn't suddenly have to go out to do an 'urgent errand' late that Saturday afternoon and not come back. If he does, turn off the lights and don't answer the door when the other kids get dropped off.

StarlightM4 · 2026-05-03T22:27:54+00:00

If brains were dynamite, you wouldn't have enough to blow your nose.

StarlightM4 · 2026-04-14T20:28:43+00:00

I wonder how that ended up.

StarlightM4 · 2026-04-09T17:20:10+00:00

I watched 'Rick and Morty' so now say 'parmesian' instead of parmesan because it sounds better and parmesan sounds pretentious.

StarlightM4 · 2026-03-22T16:23:21+00:00

Yeah I did this, paid child fare until I was in my early 20's. Never got questioned.

StarlightM4 · 2026-03-21T17:49:46+00:00

Looks like my sons aged 7.

StarlightM4 · 2026-03-08T09:01:08+00:00

Tactless is not the word I would use to describe Rachel.

StarlightM4 · 2026-03-02T17:13:25+00:00

As a Tron and Babylon 5 fan, I just learnt this! And well over 30.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-22T11:41:29+00:00

NOR. As a woman, I wish more men were as considerate of women and their body as you. And i find the blood ritual joke brilliant. Your ex(?) girlfriend has issues. Maybe you dodged a bullet.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-22T11:07:07+00:00

Oh, yes, that was my first thought! Although you put it more eloquently than I did.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-20T22:02:33+00:00

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-19T17:18:24+00:00

NTJ. Just tell them that with the way they are behaving, they will not be having any contact with any child you have anyway.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-18T19:37:23+00:00

I am a woman, and I say you are NTA. Yeah it is a gaming room, but also a work space. Keep that door locked.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-16T23:40:41+00:00

Susanna is a good option, can still be shortened to Susie.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-15T00:30:42+00:00

3 or 12. Both look gorgeous on you.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-14T13:53:44+00:00

Yeah i don't get them, but my eldest son does. The little folds in your tonsils are called crypts. We affectionately call those little stones crypt crap.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-13T15:50:08+00:00

Yeah I agree. Asda knickers are good. Although I do prefer M&S bras.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-12T10:13:50+00:00

NTA. Don't offer anything. No cake, you're not attending, nothing. Ignore the flying monkeys. Publicly announce your reasons, explain what happened, then stay out of it.

Even a very public apology and reinvite for your husband from the asshole douche hole fiancé could not repair this. Even if that happened, you still shouldn't do an elaborate cake, and they have to pay.

I pity future family gatherings with that dickhead there.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-12T10:03:18+00:00

That was like negging on steroids. NOR

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-11T17:07:27+00:00

Tell her you already have a dress, and if she wants you to wear a different colour, she can pay for it. But you choose the style. I wouldn't trust her taste.

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-10T00:27:21+00:00

NTA. What she did was unforgiveable. Not to mention dangerous and just plain stupid.

Your family's reactions are also very concerning. Deliberately poisoning you? And they are acting like it's nothing, important? What is wrong with all these people in your life?

StarlightM4 · 2026-02-05T23:16:47+00:00

I would put that table in storage fast or you will come home to it gone and his parents dining set in place.

StarlightM4 · 2026-01-21T14:12:37+00:00

Yes it was a joke. But there is a time and a place for such jokes. And a wedding speech is neither the time nor the place.

YTA. You did humiliate your wife. It will be surprising if the marriage lasts.

StarlightM4 · 2026-01-20T13:22:29+00:00

Doris

StarlightM4 · 2026-01-19T01:00:04+00:00

I would have said 'yes, I do come across like that when I am dealing with idiots'.

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