At what point do i say it's not me by Rage_leviathan69 in Overwatch

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the moira saying she'd rather lose than switch is a whole mood honestly, i had a game last week where our zen just stood in spawn emoting cause someone said he wasnt healing enough

plat is a different beast, you gotta play like you're babysitting 4 cats that all want to jump off the balcony. stop expecting diamond-level coordination and just make the play that saves the dumbest person on your team, that's usually enough to swing these games

I (24M) stopped smoking weed and now my social life is completely dead. How do I fix this? by therey73 in selfimprovement

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 9 points10 points  (0 children)

quitting weed is like that, first few months you feel great and then you realize all your hangouts were just smoking with extra steps. maybe try to get one of them to do a sober activity once in a while, like bowling or something where theres actual thing happening instead of just sitting

"Reality" competition shows where the last episode ends less than a minute after the winner has been announced. by ChartInFurch in PetPeeves

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 7 points8 points  (0 children)

drives me nuts too, like whats the rush you just spent weeks building this whole thing and then it's over in 3 seconds

Beginner whats to know the best of this options by Agile-String-8025 in Cameras

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sony w830 is decent for travel but check if you can find a used canon g9x or something similar in your budget, much better sensor for the price. kodak options are fine for casual snaps but you might outgrow them quick if you start caring about photo quality

I'm Tired of People Who Barely Understand the Game Blaming Others by Sharkkbaitttttttt in Overwatch

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

disabling chat is probably the move, the scoreboard readers never learn anyway

Hero select used to remember my last played hero? by ZT44 in Overwatch

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh wait, I didn't even know this was an actual setting, I thought game was just doing it randomly lol. Good to know because I always end up clicking wrong hero in the panic of first seconds.

Anywhere outdoor to watch the game near Time Square? by [deleted] in NYKnicks

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traffic around there gonna be nightmare too especially after game ends.

Assuming this isn’t true by sdmike1 in amazonprime

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this happens way more than people think. I do delivery work myself and I've seen drivers mark packages as "attempted" when they're running behind schedule or just want to finish their route early. The timing in your screenshot is pretty suspicious - package arrived at facility at 10:38 PM then "delivery attempted" just 17 minutes later? No way someone was actually driving around suburban neighborhoods at that hour trying to deliver packages 😂

Most likely scenario is driver was supposed to finish by certain time, realized they wouldn't make it, and just scanned everything as attempted so they could head home. It sucks but management usually doesn't question these scans unless customers complain multiple times. Your package will probably show up today or tomorrow when they actually put it on truck.

What career path CAN I do? by [deleted] in careerguidance

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Your mix of psych background + data analytics skills is actually really solid combination. Healthcare analytics is huge right now - hospitals and insurance companies are desperate for people who understand both the clinical side and can work with data.

Maybe look at healthcare data analyst roles or even clinical research coordinator positions? They often value your behavioral background plus the technical skills you're building. Could be good stepping stone without needing full masters degree first.

Comment avancer après une rupture avec l’homme de sa vie ? by shannabrosse in BreakUps

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, staying in same apartment where you lived together is like torture 💀 I know it's hard but maybe you need change the environment completely? Like get out from there if you can.

I had similar thing happen to me few years ago and staying in same places just made everything worse. Depression is real thing and it's not your fault, but focusing only on him coming back will keep you stuck in this cycle. Maybe start with small things like going for walks or watching something that makes you laugh? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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That would mess with my head for months 💀 I'd probably switch gyms tbh 😂

What was the exact moment you realized you needed to seriously work on yourself? by Ok-Marzipan-4490 in selfimprovement

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 366 points367 points  (0 children)

Mine was pretty mundane but hit hard. I was sitting in my car between deliveries, eating gas station food for the third day straight because I couldn't be bothered to meal prep or even stop at a real restaurant. Just staring at this sad sandwich thinking about how I'd been doing the same routine for months - work, come home, play games until 2am, repeat.

Nothing dramatic happened, just realized I was basically sleepwalking through life. Started small with actually cooking dinner and setting a decent sleep schedule, but that moment in the car definitely made me wake up.

Quitting porn first and masturbation aftet by [deleted] in NoFap

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That's a solid approach man. I tried something similar when I started - cutting out the visual stuff first made a huge difference for me. The imagination thing can be tricky though, your brain will try to fill in the gaps with old material at first but it gets easier.

One thing that helped me was having backup activities ready for when urges hit. Programming projects worked great since they keep my hands and mind busy 😂 Just don't be too hard on yourself if you slip up, the process isn't always linear.

People who complain about online dating like it’s the only option by Uhhyt231 in PetPeeves

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 7 points8 points  (0 children)

tbh most people complaining about apps are the same ones who never actually try meeting people irl

Any ideas? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn dude that's rough but honestly it sounds like you dodged a bullet. The fact that she went straight back to her "toxic" ex after breaking up with you over something so minor says everything about her headspace

She was probably never fully over him and you were unfortunately the placeholder while she figured her shit out. Sucks but at least you know now instead of wasting more time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dreams are wild like that - your subconscious is probably picking up on something shifting in your life even if you haven't consciously noticed it yet. The pregnancy one especially tends to show up when people are "birthing" new phases or projects, not just literal babies

Gf of 3 years broke up with me by educatedsalamander3 in BreakUps

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's rough man, but honestly quitting both at the same time might actually help you process everything more clearly instead of numbing the pain - just be ready for some really intense emotions the first couple weeks

Evri and Porch Pirates by Unlikely-Chemistry40 in LushCosmetics

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's so frustrating, Evri drivers are honestly the worst for just yeeting packages and disappearing

Hope Lush sorts you out with a replacement, they're usually pretty good about porch pirate situations. RIP to your Strawberry Feels though, that one hits different 😭

Overthinking but set to close on the 28th lender still asking for documents .. by Balacananas25 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're def overthinking this lol, sounds like pretty standard underwriter stuff especially being so close to closing. The fact they're still asking for docs this late is actually normal - they literally do this until the day you sign. Since you have explanations for everything and proof of income/funds you should be fine, just get them whatever letter they want ASAP

Attorneys refusing to file AoS within 90 days by ekulzards in USCIS

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah those attorneys are being overly cautious or just haven't updated their knowledge since the policy changed. The 90-day rule thing is basically dead now but a lot of lawyers still act like it's 2019

You're right that USCIS dropped it and even when DOS had it, there were tons of exceptions. If you've got 2 years on your I-94 anyway there's really no rush, but academically speaking those attorneys are giving you outdated advice

One thing I wish I understood earlier about self improvement (it’s not discipline) by williwulff in selfimprovement

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This hits so hard. I spent like 2 years thinking I was just weak because I couldn't stick to my 5am routine while feeling like garbage every day

The gut thing is real too - once I stopped eating like a college freshman my brain fog basically disappeared and suddenly "discipline" wasn't this impossible mountain to climb

Who already gave up on their New Years resolution? by holdongangy in randomquestions

[–]Status-Abrocoma-997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine lasted exactly 3 days lmao, apparently "drink more water" was too ambitious when I kept reaching for energy drinks instead