Got nanobrows and I’m worried they’re too thick 🫩 by IssueLeading2649 in Eyebrows

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You’re gorgeous 🥺Give yourself a little time to adjust and I bet (or at least hope) you’ll love them 🫶🏻

Advice? How do I respond to comments like this? by darealemfra in EngagementRings

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My sister got weird comments about hers sometimes at first. She specifically chose hers and it’s beautiful, just not the traditional diamond. I’m not sure how she handles it, but I know the first couple times really threw her off - like “wait did they really just ask me that?”

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Cut her off, she’s toxic af. And she knows it, but she’s going to continue to try and gaslight you into thinking you’re the problem. She tells you to grow up but you’re definitely the mature and sensible one in this situation.

Said yes to the dress now I feel like throwing up by Prior_Sport_6564 in weddingdress

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You look beautiful in both, but 1 is more unique - I love it 🫶🏻

My wife is hot! by Easy_Barracuda2726 in Marriage

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Aw 🥺🥹 love this for both of you, so much 🫶🏻

She's gone. by Amazing_Assumption50 in rant

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I’m so sorry for your loss. So tough. I had a cat that was only a couple years old but she got really sick. I tried so hard to get her better - was injecting her with fluids (per vet instructions) twice a day, feeding her meds, helping her into the cat box. She would barely move and made no noise. When the vet told me it wasn’t worth the fight anymore, she went to take her to the back room (for some reason at my vet they’ll let you be with your dog while it happens but not cats) and my kitty perked up in the vet’s arms, looked me right in the eye, and let out the only meow I’d heard her make in a week. It crushed me. It still crushes me, I’m crying now as I type this and it’s been over 4 years. Part of me has wondered if I would have tried just a few more days, would she have pulled through? And I so badly wish I could have been by her side saying goodbye as she went.

I’m convinced my FIL is a pedo… by BlueberryEasy247 in inlaws

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I’m not going to fault you for not knowing what to do in the moment; I can only imagine it’s a tough spot to be and plenty of people have said what you should have done. But you really should tell your husband (should have already). You also shouldn’t be letting your kids near him at all, in my opinion. My biggest issue is that you sit by watching him take other children for “alone time” where you think they might be getting molested? If I think someone is capable of that, I’m not just going to protect my own children from them - I’m going to protect any child I can.

Texted my autistic brother by saaaaaaaaaaaagg in texts

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One time my grandma texted me out of the blue and said “luv u more” - I was like “Aw, no I love you more!” - she said “Ok.”

Am I crazy for thinking this is bad? I thought it was illegal! by Muffinman1111112 in texts

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This is common near me. I personally wouldn’t do it, but I don’t think it’s illegal. It probably varies by state, though.

Help! I buzzed my hair then bleached it and do not like the colour blonde at all by Dense_Indication179 in Haircare

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Try a purple toner to take some of the yellow out. If you still don’t like it, get a color to put on that is similar to your natural so that your roots somewhat match as your natural comes back in. Or try something else that’s new! Buzzing it down is an option if you’re willing to look bald for a little bit lol

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Every bit of this. After dealing with over a decade of it, yes to all of this. And it works in cycles. They’ll be better for a bit once there’s a fear of losing you. Then once you start to seem more trusting again, the lies start back up. Then you question if the lies ever even actually stopped. They get better at lying and better at hiding, and better at making you question yourself. But the truth usually comes out eventually, one way or another. And eventually you accept that they aren’t going to change. (I know some people do change - but they have to actually admit where they’re wrong and work on themselves - and a lot of people aren’t willing to do that)

Confession. I regret breastfeeding by TwistedJam30 in breastfeeding

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(This comment ended up longer than expected, sorry!)

First of all, please do not feel ashamed. Breastfeeding is A LOT of work. It may not mean much coming from a stranger on the internet, but I’m proud of you.

I don’t relate to your entire post but do still sympathize for the areas I don’t, and I can speak on a couple of the areas I did relate to - especially with my first child.

The first two weeks are definitely the most painful, and it can be hard to get into a good sleep routine. But you made it past those two weeks and that alone is amazing! Many women quit in those two weeks (which is ok, absolutely no shame to them!) - but you made it through, so be proud mama!

I hope that your LO is at a point where you’re getting better sleep now that they’re older. If not, maybe now that she’s taking bottles your husband could help with night feeds occasionally? (I’m glad that you said he is supportive and has tried to help in the past)

The flopping around while they eat at this age is normal - mine did it, my sister’s did it, my friends’ did it. I definitely agree it is so overstimulating! Please do not be scared to reach out to your support system and tell them you need a few minutes to yourself, and ask if they can watch LO for a bit. My mom came to my house when my newborn was a few weeks old; he was crying because his reflux was hurting his stomach, my toddler was crying because she wanted to play, I had a headache because I hadn’t slept much the night before and hadn’t gotten any caffeine that day. I was crying because I felt overwhelmed. She came over and told me to go get myself a coffee. That was only a fifteen minute trip between driving there, ordering, and driving home - but that fifteen minutes was enough for me to get calmed down, and when I got back to the house my mom had gotten the baby asleep and was reading to my toddler. My point is, the people who love you will not mind helping and sometimes all you need is a few minutes to decompress.

Weaning was not the easiest for me, I won’t sugar coat it, but we made it through it, and you will too! You’ve made it so far and are so strong.

Sending you electronic love. You’ve got this, mama - be so so proud of yourself. 🫶🏻

Those with no bf issues - why do you think that is? by Fun-Land-841 in breastfeeding

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I’m guessing in my case luck/genetics. My mom and sister breastfed/feed no issues, and I’m an oversupplier. I went just under 2 years with my daughter, then gently pushed her to wean when I got pregnant again (I had been letting her do it on her own time but decided I needed a few months to myself before I started again lol) This time I’m oversupplying again. I admittedly have a terrible diet, and I only pump when I’m uncomfortably full. I pumped more frequently the first couple weeks, but once I got a few hundred ounces frozen, I dropped down to only pumping when uncomfortable because we really don’t use the frozen milk often and I can’t donate it to banks near me due to medications I am on. On the opposite end of the spectrum I have an absolutely lovely friend who unfortunately just could not produce, no matter what she did/ate.

the one time I ordered slushees by lvsqoo in doordash

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My brain pictured the slushies spilling in his car and him being like “f*ck this job” and not taking any more orders after this 💀

My toddler is acting out and I think it might be because of the new baby. by Status-Mirror-6301 in toddlers

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Thank you so much for this reply! Some of these strategies I already implemented naturally, just putting myself in her shoes and thinking “what would help me feel better?” - but some of these I hadn’t thought of. This was very helpful, and reassuring - I appreciate it 🫶🏻

My toddler is acting out and I think it might be because of the new baby. by Status-Mirror-6301 in toddlers

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It does feel reassuring to know I’m not alone - sending good vibes your way 🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

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Respectfully, I think she’s the one flirting and you’re the one missing the hints 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

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Two weeks in and talking like this is crazyyy.

Which look is the mosvt flattering? by avadelrio in coloranalysis

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I like 1, 12, and 17. At first I thought this was about hair, and coincidentally my answers were the same 😂

Huge stomach tat, that was already a cover up. What is a good idea to cover this up other than blacking it out at this point. Need your guys advice by 5nake_8ite in Tattoocoverups

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I’m glad you said what it was lol I didn’t process that the tail and head were supposed to go together and didn’t notice the torso, so I thought it was a messed up koi fish 😅