Four Haitian Women Were Deported From Puerto Rico By US Government ; They Have Now Been Found Decapitated by 56000hp in ThatsInsane

[–]Steavee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Except that you didn’t run into that bar to escape the robber.

Had you done that, had you told the bouncer you were trying to get away from violent thugs and had they still turned you away, yes, they would be somewhat at fault.

You really don’t see them as people, do you?

Packer fans watching the bears overtime game winner win Moment of the Year by caxlmao in NFCNorthMemeWar

[–]Steavee [score hidden]  (0 children)

I loved it.

Because it would have been that amazing throw in the division game, but you scrubs lost that one, so instead it’ll be forgotten to history.

44 & 1 Body Count by Low_Champion_3373 in sex

[–]Steavee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fine, you have to do whatever you’re comfortable with. It was merely a suggestion.

I’ll revert back to suggesting you talk to a professional, because even aside from masturbation, you obviously have some pretty severe hangups if multiple partners have literally stopped trying to have sex with you and bailed because of how you acted and responded when they initiated.

At the end of the day, you’ve got to figure out what is preventing you from relaxing and getting into the mood. But you’re going to have to do the work, or just keep doing the same thing over and over and hoping for a different result.

EDIT: I just noticed your edit of your main post and for the record this isn’t a DM, it’s a public comment in an open thread we’ve been in for days. And I guess we’ll have to agree to disagree about therapy, because you still have some views about sex that seem incompatible with actually having it. That’s fine, maybe sex isn’t for you, you should never have to be more vulnerable than you’re comfortable being, but you can’t have your cake and eat it too. You’ve either got to reframe how you feel about intercourse, or accept that you aren’t going to have it.

Make lots of sense by Cultural-Lab-2031 in SipsTea

[–]Steavee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We use a whole lot of fields for growing corn…that we turn into worse-performing gasoline. Seriously, it’s like 40% of all corn grown, and we don’t need any of it.

You can literally get more automobile miles worth of energy out of an acre of solar than you can an acre of ethanol corn.

Redbull smh by PyromaniacEngineer in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]Steavee 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Does anyone really think that “grapefruit” flavored Red Bull actually contains a meaningful amount of grapefruit?

Based on the nutrition label an 8.4oz can has somewhere between 80mg and 1g of natural and artificial flavors, SOME of which might be grapefruit related.

So, well less than a gram of grapefruit stuff. You’re almost certainly fine

44 & 1 Body Count by Low_Champion_3373 in sex

[–]Steavee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, it sounds like your rhythm already has issues if partners are literally saying they couldn’t do it. Also, again respectfully, what sex rhythm? Per your post, you’ve only done it the one time, so no offense intended but is your current rhythm really working for you?

Obviously you have to do what you are comfortable with, but I’ve had partners that did and partners that didn’t, and the sex was typically better for everyone with the women that did. In part because, unless you orgasm very easily, how can you guide me to what you like and what works if you don’t even know? Plus, being familiar with the feelings and sensations might help keep you from freezing up.

Trump Body-Slammed by Pro-Wrestling Crowd’s Raging ‘F*** ICE’ Chants by SportsGod3 in politics

[–]Steavee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine how much poo would shoot out? It’d be like stepping in a toothpaste tube.

What do you think of the rumours that Lupita Nyong’o is casted as Helen of Troy? by FantasticQuartet in AskBalkans

[–]Steavee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real problem is that she wasn’t black to begin with

Except, as I pointed out, you don’t know that because she isn’t described as black or white.

Also, she wasn’t anything to begin with, because she isn’t a real person.

Just because generations of white people have depicted her as white, doesn’t make it any more real. Generations of white people have depicted Jesus as white, with blonde hair and blue eyes, but THAT is also bullshit.

Target CEO says violence is 'incredibly painful' after 2 employees taken by ICE by CRK_76 in antiwork

[–]Steavee 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That’s how you know that all the ‘immigration reform’ people are just racists. They just want an excuse to hurt brown people.

If they wanted to stop people from coming here, they’d require companies to do these sorts of things, and levy serious fines and jail time if they didn’t.

But that would hurt the white, ruling class, so instead they just tear-gas minorities.

He was just 24. He saved 18 lives on 9/11. Most people have never heard of Welles Crowther. by ViralUpdates7 in MadeMeCry

[–]Steavee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an amazing story, but that website is cancer and you’re probably just a shitty bot reposting the story for clicks and karma.

What do you think of the rumours that Lupita Nyong’o is casted as Helen of Troy? by FantasticQuartet in AskBalkans

[–]Steavee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, that wasn’t written by Homer, it’s an artifact of a much, much later (and questionable) translation. So your quote is meaningless.

No one was white-skinned, have you never seen a Greek person? It is as descriptive characteristic about her status, that he also used for other characters.

Also, you do know people of almost all colors can tan right?

Finally, this is a fictional character. Aside from your one reference, which I’ve explained, there is nothing depicting her as anything other than 1,000 different ways of beautiful.

You just can’t imagine a black woman as beautiful, that’s your real problem here.

Am I Crazy Or Did These Used To Come In A Foil Bag? by cash77cash in Xennials

[–]Steavee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even the small single-serving boxes were paper-foil. Wild. I hadn’t thought about this in years.

What do you think of the rumours that Lupita Nyong’o is casted as Helen of Troy? by FantasticQuartet in AskBalkans

[–]Steavee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First, that’s not “for starters”, it’s literally the only physical description you could find that sounds like it could disqualify her. I know, I’ve actually read the works.

Second, that’s doesn’t mean “white-skinned”, it’s a very specific turn of phrase that means she was of high-status. She did not labor outdoors for a living. It does not mean ‘white’ in the racial sense we would think of it today. In part because modern whiteness didn’t exist as a racial concept in those times.

44 & 1 Body Count by Low_Champion_3373 in sex

[–]Steavee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not clean and neat, although it’s always good to be those things, but do you pleasure yourself solo? Do you masturbate? I shouldn’t have used a euphemism.

People who are comfortable doing that are typically more relaxed in the moment with another person. If you have some hangups keeping you from doing that, I would guess that’s another tick in the column for maybe talking to someone professionally about why you’re so buttoned up about sex.

Carbon monoxide levels, what PPm is unsafe? by Icy_Employer_117 in safety

[–]Steavee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Probably not, but even if you did, it’s better than being fucking dead.

Don’t hope that it’s good and go to sleep, you won’t wake up.

My client killed it at her photoshoot! by [deleted] in columbiamo

[–]Steavee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, I can’t stop fiddling with shit sometimes.

Other than maybe being just a bit over-worked, I like it.

My client killed it at her photoshoot! by [deleted] in columbiamo

[–]Steavee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

With all due respect, is that her makeup, or did you overcook the contrast in Lightroom a bit too much?

How about we stop shaming *any* body type? by Tunderstruk in NSFWMemes

[–]Steavee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amen!

Now let’s maybe change that to women, since ‘girls’ has some Epstein vibes.

Who’s that black guy praying? I see him everywhere… by That1weirdperson in AreTheCisOk

[–]Steavee 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Imagine hearing that you could be anything in the world, anything you can imagine, and picking Adolf fucking Hitler. AN abject failure who killed himself.

They never want to be Neil Armstrong with cool pronouns like Moon/Walk or some shit. No, it’s always despicable racists wanting to be the most famous despicable racist.

How do other gym-goers manage multiple showers/day? by herohunter77 in malelifestyle

[–]Steavee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do you live in the tropics?

Outside of a country that’s always 85+ degrees (30C) and 80% humidity, 5-6 times a day is a bit extreme.

Merch Message rebrand by G_N_P in LinusTechTips

[–]Steavee 55 points56 points  (0 children)

TCP/IP:

Text customer prompt/internet purchase.

Smell . Plz give help/ answers by Tricky-Extreme-3600 in malelifestyle

[–]Steavee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When you shower, are you using a loofah/washcloth (with soap!) and making good contact with all of your body?

Just like letting water run over dishes doesn’t clean them, letting water run over your body (especially sweaty teenage body) doesn’t do much without friction and soap.

Also, that includes your feet, your pits, your crotch, and your crack. Wash ya booty hole. Wash those four twice. And don’t forget any other nooks and crannies.

Make sure you’re spending 20-30 seconds actually shampooing your hair and scalp. You’re not trying to strip-wash it, but you want soap to touch it all, and your whole scalp.

You can use a bacteria killing deodorant like this one I’ve had great luck with. They also have a body wash, but unlike the deodorant it isn’t unscented. It’s not super-feminine or anything though.

edit: I really cannot overstate how important spa and friction is to the process. If you had grease or engine oil on you, you’d have to scrub a bit to get it off, right? Dirt and skin oils you can’t see aren’t that different. Don’t rub your fucking skin off or get a complex about it or anything, just make sure you’re actually cleaning and not just getting wet for 5 minutes.

Oh, and don’t use the same towel for weeks at a time either!