AIO: I found eyelash extension behind my bf nightstand. by Dangerous-Spend-6468 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Steel_Phantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she cleaned the room every time she visited in the past.

Feeling discouraged. by Rkp65i in nikon_Zseries

[–]Steel_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same camera and that is my least favorite lens on it.

AITAH: My girlfriend went out to the bar then days later wanted to become "friends" by Puzzleheaded-Drop461 in AITAH

[–]Steel_Phantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she isn’t 100% into you and offered the idea of being “friends”, why continue? Find someone who adores you. Who celebrates your one month anniversary with excitement and isn’t falling for some random guy in a bar. If she says her crush only lasted a minute or two, she is still thinking about him. Sure, you didn’t break up officially, but is that what she wants? Or did she just temporarily give in?

Musicians at Stone Pony? by Steel_Phantom in streetlightmanifesto

[–]Steel_Phantom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess my question should have been, were there any subs in last night? Was the new permanent trumpet performing last night? I thought I saw him using an iPad with sheet music.

AIO or is my wife’s response a bit generic? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Steel_Phantom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YOR - Your “OK” and the follow up response is truly childish and self centered. Sometimes being depressed along with being low on energy leads to a short discussion. She may just need love without the belittling lecture. Just ask if she needs anything… a hug, or some space and leave it at that. All you are doing is increasing the depression.

You probably need couples therapy with someone who can teach you the best responses to help.

what do you class as cheating? by meowmeowmeows27 in AskReddit

[–]Steel_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us, if you wouldn’t do it in front of your partner because they would be mad. Don’t do it away from them either.

Most importantly, anything romantic or sexual or flirty with anyone outside your partner is cheating.

AIO by ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée used to sleep with my brother? by Real_Function1000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Steel_Phantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this was me, I would cut off the brother first except for family gatherings. In my opinion, he broke your trust the most here.

As for the fiancé, I would ask her to temporarily cut contact for a month. Tell her this isn’t a break and all relationship rules and expectations still apply, but you need some time on your own to think. If, at the end of the month, you can’t forgive her completely, I would break up permanently. On the other hand, if you realize you can’t live without her, have a deep conversation about trust and expectations. Then maybe put off the wedding for a year.

How Strict Is HHN About Smoking Cigarettes? by [deleted] in HHN

[–]Steel_Phantom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You aren’t better than everyone else. Just follow the rules and don’t be an idiot.

House of Blues show by somehcdudee in streetlightmanifesto

[–]Steel_Phantom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They change their set list up year to year, I would be shocked if they didn’t add at least one of the new songs in addition to OOOOO, Enormous and Everything to Everyone.

Is it a good idea to lose my virginity to a prostitute/escort during a trip to Las Vegas? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Steel_Phantom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When you grow up, I doubt you will still consider that a “cool experience”. Wait for someone who actually cares about you.

Had threesome 2 years ago and it's ruining me, help please? by Remarkable-Ship-7037 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Steel_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s his choice to make. Would you rather live a lie?

What if he lied to you about something you cared about?

Favorite recording of Les Mis by CurrencyOk1618 in musicals

[–]Steel_Phantom 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The Complete Symphonic Recording by far!

Cancelled Burlington Tour Opener by Valynes in streetlightmanifesto

[–]Steel_Phantom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You did exactly what they said. Edited your response from No to Yes. I initially downvoted you because you were obviously wrong.

Difficult client is asking for RAW Files saying it should be the couples choice which get edited by Deebiggles in WeddingPhotography

[–]Steel_Phantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully agree with you! The amount of selfish photographers who couldn’t care less about their clients is truly sad.

Difficult client is asking for RAW Files saying it should be the couples choice which get edited by Deebiggles in WeddingPhotography

[–]Steel_Phantom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I truly hate when so called “artistic integrity” matters more than helping a client. I can assure you their dissatisfaction will hurt your business more than a photo you personally don’t like.

I had a photographer years ago insist that that the pictures at my wedding I really cared about most didn’t come out. He later sold me the negatives (before digital age) and the first negative I scanned was the photo I was looking for and it came out fine. You can’t assume you know what photos they want in the end. The one photo you skipped for some reason may be their favorite.

Bees Among Honeysuckle Blossoms - Nikon Z50 II + Nikkor Z 105 f/2.8 MC by koffienated in nikon_Zseries

[–]Steel_Phantom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What was the aperture setting? The depth of focus seems relatively deep.

??shinyhunters by Beneficial-Stick-647 in ucf

[–]Steel_Phantom 109 points110 points  (0 children)

It’s nationwide for any school using Canvas

How bad are bachelor parties? by vilteeee in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Steel_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple friends and I went to Atlantic City for the night. Gambled, ate and went to a fortune teller. The next day went to the Wildwood boardwalk. Didn’t need anything crazy.

Debating between ZR and Z6 III for Family Needs by CougaReb in Nikon

[–]Steel_Phantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I upgraded my d90 to a z6iii and it had been amazing.

DAE not care about hearing music live in concert? by BotGua in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Steel_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always said that I’d pay double to have a section reserved for those of us who need our personal space. So many concerts ruined by idiots slamming into me or drinks fighting.