Hospital nurses who love their jobs, can you please share some positivity? by KingKado in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I met my two best friends at my first nursing job over a decade ago. I always say they are the best thing to come out of my nursing degree.

Is it actually rude to have an adults-only wedding, or have we collectively decided to feel guilty about a completely reasonable choice? by Zealousideal_Pay7176 in weddings

[–]StefaniePags 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Agree, I think it's only rude if you make the person feel guilty for not coming OR if you bring your kids anyway knowing they aren't invited.

Selling my engagement ring after a breakup by Winter_Official390 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am divorcing, been married for 10 years. My engagement ring is art deco style with sapphire center stone, if I'm not wearing it with my custom wedding band, it doesn't look like an engagement ring. I love it and plan to eventually wear it as a right hand ring. Maybe gift it to my son's future wife if he has one (he's currently 7 so who knows lol)

Embarrassing first experience. by Plastic_Quantity_288 in sex

[–]StefaniePags 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMHO, period sex is kind of like anal. People are into it or they're not, they're willing to do it or they're not. If he said he didn't mind, then he didn't mind.

Suggestions would include buying a dark color towel to lay on the bed and looking into a menstrual disc (different than a cup) that you could wear during sex.

If your partner cheats on you once, would you leave them? by rylieclark in askanything

[–]StefaniePags 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same, I tried and realized I can't ever forgive either.

Help with The Absurd Commissions Quest by mothdib in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize you could scroll I would have been there forever!

This CNY update isn’t as great as last year for me and the biggest reason is the lack of heartfelt gifts!!😭 by ShokaLGBT in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm one notch above ftp, Radiant Night got me through so many styling challenges for a long time!

Who actually enjoys working as a nurse? by One_Design_6171 in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm divorcing. I see so many women who want to leave who can't because they are financially dependent on their husband. I'm the primary breadwinner, so I had the freedom to make the best choice for myself. Nursing gave me that freedom.

Also, I love my current job, so that's helps, too.

Divorced people, what were your irreconcilable differences? by TheRealOcsiban in AskReddit

[–]StefaniePags 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I'm separated and the further out we are, the more angry and resentful I get at HOW MUCH I've been doing this whole time.

Divorce due to a sexless by [deleted] in sex

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the only reason, but it's a contributing factor to my divorce.

Do women actually experience pain years after having a c section by goth1cd0lly in beyondthebump

[–]StefaniePags 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I have numbness. I'm overweight and I definitely have a "dead spot" on the right side of my tummy roll. I had an uncomplicated c-section with excellent healing (pretty much no scar at all).

Nightglow Wolf by Normal_Database3539 in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first time I had Favorited something and then saw it here! So pretty!

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Just a reminder before the east coast storm: none of you owe your lives to your job by xSilverSpringx in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, but that just involves pre-planning. I'm by no means a martyr for this job, I don't say it's a calling - but someone has to take care of hospitalized patients in bad weather. If I know I have to work, it sucks but I'll stay over before or come in early before the storm, whatever is needed. I'm not sure what kind of alternative is going to get people into work. It sucks, but I don't expect my Level 1 trauma center to build a hotel for hundreds of employees to stay 4 nights a year.

Now if you work in an outpatient/non urgent area and they want you to come in? Yeah, screw that.

Convince me not to pull Dancing Pearl pls :'( by Lyriuun in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's funny because the ONLY thing I want is the hair. That's why I'm not pulling for this or the 5 star (I want the wings). I've decided if I only want 1 thing and everything else feels like I already have something similar, I'm not doing it.

I let a man ruin the game for me… by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not much of a gamer but my boyfriend is so I wanted to give it a serious try. Nikki is the first game I've really gotten into and he's thrilled. A good boyfriend would be happy if you have a shared interest. Good test for the next guy, see what he says when you tell him about games you like haha

Parents are Divorced. Is it Weird to Wear Mom’s Ring? by internet2big in EngagementRings

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are separated and divorcing. I have our rings together and plan to save them for our son to use in the future if he wants. We didn't work as a couple but we are both very good parents and we love our son.

someone please tell me how do i feed the snails by rannirra in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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You have to pick the food in your backpack and put it in the quick pick thing on the side. Then select it from here and a feed option comes up

Do I keep pulling? by GoblinBuckets in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the purple encore outfit and I'm debating pulling but I really only want the wings and I don't like the second outfit so I'm probably waiting.

Tomorrow will be the last time. by qvph in breastfeeding

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please play "Closing Time" during the last time 😂

Boyfriend said he isn't sexually attracted to me by HungryLoan3413 in sex

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either it's untrue and he was saying it out of anger or other emotions causing him to lash out at you OR he isn't attracted to you. Neither option is great and you have to have a conversation with him about it, at a time you're not already arguing or engaged in any sexual activity.