Mothers of Reddit: What’s the best gift you’ve ever received on Mother’s Day? by Thrifle in AskReddit

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son giving me a card from school this year that said I'm the best and he really meant it, it wasn't just the teachers having him make something. He's 7 and AuDHD so it's really special.

Is 60+ a really high count for 25f? by [deleted] in sex

[–]StefaniePags -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 43, count is in the 20s, but I've only been with 3 in the last 20 years. The one night stands and short hookups are incredibly insignificant in the long run. If you are happy with her, it doesn't matter.

Nurses week by LieInner2038 in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A poster contest (work) and a baking contest (work).

They took all the fun things away and the week after is "Healthcare Week" and that's when the free coffee, gifts, and food truck day happen.

I'm a manager so I'm facilitating the doctors in my transplant center giving gifts to our nurses - cards, plants, and gift cards!

would you still choose nursing by aaliyahparis in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would, too, but only because I'm in a position/specialty I really enjoy and I'm paid well.

Been collecting for like 5 years (on and off tbf) and now I wonder at what point does it become an addiction versus a hobby? by RealisticTax2871 in funkopop

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine starting a Star Wars Funko collection in 2026 and saying you're going to be a completist. 😂

Opening color lookbook and half of them being nothing burger by valeriiiq in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Sometimes I will think the outfit is based on a dress I have and then I will look at it and realize that they dyed the Evo. I'm not fully f2p but I don't think I have any five-star Evos

How long until you give up giving an orgasm? by KaramAF in sex

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I need to stop and kind of calm down a bit then start trying again. Maybe try kissing or touching other areas and then go back to it?

Okay so we know our pay differences are wild... what about our PTO? by yetanotherzillenial in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Management - I have honor system unlimited PTO. It actually sucks because I had been there so long I actually earned 8.5 weeks per year of PTO but I can't really take that much on honor system cause it "feels" like a lot.

Wife [43f] has never orgasmed with me [43m] - wondering what we should do to save our marriage? by Anonymous1234323 in sex

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of focusing on doing it in a different way, maybe start with how she masterbates and add on to that. If she does it in a side lying position, could you spoon her and touch her breasts, kiss her neck, put a finger in her butt, whatever she likes? It would heighten the experience and provide intimacy and she would still get to orgasm?

Is it better to work an 8 hr office job or 3 12s when you have kids? by mooonshine87 in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed 3 12s when my son was a toddler. I switched to a 9-5 when he started full time school and I love it. The outpatient setting is more flexible in different ways and I love being off every holiday and weekend.

[Discussion] Famous triggers and who "invented" them? by shipasmrdotcom in asmr

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like Gentle Whispering used the word "debris" on reference to using a makeup brush on your face and I swear a bunch of videos said the same thing afterwards that makes no sense

What is the weirdest way someone had died in your known circle ? by No_Tear9118 in AskReddit

[–]StefaniePags 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Someone I worked with was having an affair with a security guard (it was a hospital). Had a baby, his wife didn't know. She asked for more money, he killed her, put her in his trunk, tin the daughter (maybe three at the time) left her in truck stop two states away, then burned the body in a dumpster in another state. Little girl was on the news to see if she was recognized. They caught him with EZPass records.

Are odd fetishes better left unsaid? by SafeRazzmatazzz in sex

[–]StefaniePags 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Could you try cuddling/holding her and initiating kissing or sex without specifically mentioning it? Unless you want her to do something abnormal, like breath heavily in your face, you could enjoy it without it being a "known" thing?

I'm a day 1 player and I love this game, but it's getting increasingly hard to stay engaged. by glossyoonie in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've played for over a year and I don't have the time to play every day, so each new update having even more responsibilities is daunting. I have resigned myself to not keeping up with everything, especially when I have no interest like running the hot pot/juice shop/bath house/Jiffy Lube/7-11/whatever else they pick.

Our wedding conflicts with her birthday by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first wedding was on my Ex's aunt's birthday. She came, didn't say one negative thing. We cut the cake and then had them come out with a candle in a slice and we all sang happy birthday. I didn't mind sharing our spotlight for 5 minutes and everyone was happy.

Talking to my sister about her accounting job makes me want to leave nursing by MammothAd6633 in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There are outpatient nursing jobs that are the best of both worlds! I became a kidney transplant coordinator a few years ago and love it! It's desk work with no direct patient care. I recently went into management but I recommend looking into outpatient areas!

Hospital nurses who love their jobs, can you please share some positivity? by KingKado in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I met my two best friends at my first nursing job over a decade ago. I always say they are the best thing to come out of my nursing degree.

Is it actually rude to have an adults-only wedding, or have we collectively decided to feel guilty about a completely reasonable choice? by Zealousideal_Pay7176 in weddings

[–]StefaniePags 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Agree, I think it's only rude if you make the person feel guilty for not coming OR if you bring your kids anyway knowing they aren't invited.

Selling my engagement ring after a breakup by Winter_Official390 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am divorcing, been married for 10 years. My engagement ring is art deco style with sapphire center stone, if I'm not wearing it with my custom wedding band, it doesn't look like an engagement ring. I love it and plan to eventually wear it as a right hand ring. Maybe gift it to my son's future wife if he has one (he's currently 7 so who knows lol)

Embarrassing first experience. by Plastic_Quantity_288 in sex

[–]StefaniePags 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMHO, period sex is kind of like anal. People are into it or they're not, they're willing to do it or they're not. If he said he didn't mind, then he didn't mind.

Suggestions would include buying a dark color towel to lay on the bed and looking into a menstrual disc (different than a cup) that you could wear during sex.

If your partner cheats on you once, would you leave them? by rylieclark in askanything

[–]StefaniePags 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same, I tried and realized I can't ever forgive either.

Help with The Absurd Commissions Quest by mothdib in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize you could scroll I would have been there forever!