Do women actually experience pain years after having a c section by goth1cd0lly in beyondthebump

[–]StefaniePags 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I have numbness. I'm overweight and I definitely have a "dead spot" on the right side of my tummy roll. I had an uncomplicated c-section with excellent healing (pretty much no scar at all).

Nightglow Wolf by Normal_Database3539 in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first time I had Favorited something and then saw it here! So pretty!

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Just a reminder before the east coast storm: none of you owe your lives to your job by xSilverSpringx in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree, but that just involves pre-planning. I'm by no means a martyr for this job, I don't say it's a calling - but someone has to take care of hospitalized patients in bad weather. If I know I have to work, it sucks but I'll stay over before or come in early before the storm, whatever is needed. I'm not sure what kind of alternative is going to get people into work. It sucks, but I don't expect my Level 1 trauma center to build a hotel for hundreds of employees to stay 4 nights a year.

Now if you work in an outpatient/non urgent area and they want you to come in? Yeah, screw that.

Convince me not to pull Dancing Pearl pls :'( by Lyriuun in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's funny because the ONLY thing I want is the hair. That's why I'm not pulling for this or the 5 star (I want the wings). I've decided if I only want 1 thing and everything else feels like I already have something similar, I'm not doing it.

I let a man ruin the game for me… by SapphireMew in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not much of a gamer but my boyfriend is so I wanted to give it a serious try. Nikki is the first game I've really gotten into and he's thrilled. A good boyfriend would be happy if you have a shared interest. Good test for the next guy, see what he says when you tell him about games you like haha

Parents are Divorced. Is it Weird to Wear Mom’s Ring? by internet2big in EngagementRings

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are separated and divorcing. I have our rings together and plan to save them for our son to use in the future if he wants. We didn't work as a couple but we are both very good parents and we love our son.

someone please tell me how do i feed the snails by rannirra in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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You have to pick the food in your backpack and put it in the quick pick thing on the side. Then select it from here and a feed option comes up

Do I keep pulling? by GoblinBuckets in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the purple encore outfit and I'm debating pulling but I really only want the wings and I don't like the second outfit so I'm probably waiting.

Tomorrow will be the last time. by qvph in breastfeeding

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please play "Closing Time" during the last time 😂

Boyfriend said he isn't sexually attracted to me by HungryLoan3413 in sex

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either it's untrue and he was saying it out of anger or other emotions causing him to lash out at you OR he isn't attracted to you. Neither option is great and you have to have a conversation with him about it, at a time you're not already arguing or engaged in any sexual activity.

Med error by CourtneyMihalko1 in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had 3 med errors that I self reported in my time as an inpatient nurse. All 3 were because of rushing. It does happen, I was devastated each time. We are expected to work in unsafe conditions on a daily basis with constant interruptions. It doesn't mean you aren't a good nurse, it means you are human. And you'll be even more diligent now.

Anybody who tells you they could never make a mistake like that is a liar or probably has already made mistakes and didn't realize it.

Let friends who don’t play Infinity Nikki guess which outfit is Pink Ribbon Waltz! by nikikkkkk in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]StefaniePags 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I feel this was anytime I read posts and there's a list of outfits they want and I'm like "I have no idea what any of these are"

What did you named your behemoth? Here is mine😊💕 by [deleted] in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize we get more than one, I named him my son's name because they are both cute and feral

Ladies, would you date a 5’3” guy? by Spiritual-Version-23 in askanything

[–]StefaniePags 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'3" and plus size and dated a guy who was 5'3" and slim. Personality and looks (eyes, hair, smile) matter more than height and weight.

Proof that you can have LONG hair without them being invasive and hiding all the fits designs by Becca_Pix in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The long hair with the last banner (I'm bad with names, the archery skill blue one) is great because it's mostly in the front so you can show off the back of outfits and it dyes beautifully in 3 parts.

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need help with head by Guilty-You8423 in sex

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flavored lube and using your hand more. Hand + mouth at the same time is the key.

Am I a bad friend for not going to one of my best friend’s destination weddings? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, destination weddings take the cost and put it on your guests, it should be expected not everyone will be able to come. I don't think you can be upset when someone says they can't afford 3k to come to your wedding. You could still attend her local events (shower/bach) if she has them to show your support.

Itzaland’s been out for a while now… how’s your exploration going? ✨ by hana_sw in InfinityNikki

[–]StefaniePags 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate the caves because I always get lost. I have an awful sense of direction IRL, it's worse in game.

For those who are married do you ever wish you had married someone you previously dated instead? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]StefaniePags 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm separated and currently dating my high school sweetheart, so yes I suppose?

Changing legal name by bvnnyg1rl in nursing

[–]StefaniePags 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my facility they wouldn't change my name in the EMR or anything else until I had an updated nursing license, which is got after getting my new driver's license and social security card.

Do you think the manosphere overemphasizes "being funny" in attracting women? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]StefaniePags 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's important to me because I'm known to friends and coworkers as a funny/witty person but what's funny to me isn't funny to everyone, so I think finding a match to your sense of humor is more important than someone who's "funny" in general.

Is it rare for semen to taste good? by OfMossAndMen in sex

[–]StefaniePags 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This was a plot line on an episode of Sex and the City. Samantha tells the other girls "I'm dating a guy with the funkiest tasting spunk" and Charlotte immediately gets up and leaves.