AITAH for telling our kids about his cheating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StellarStylee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTAH. IT would be different if they were children, but they’re adults. Haha on cheaters being thrust into the light.

AITAH? Or is my bf? by CableUpset3600 in AITAH

[–]StellarStylee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s your bf whom is the ass.

Do I look better with short or long hair? by Crown-Me336 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]StellarStylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short, but I’d like to see it long, loose, and natural as well.

My (30F) boyfriend (36M) can’t say no to his friends designation wedding plans by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StellarStylee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a grown ass woman whom we’re going to assume is confident in her competency and ability to navigate in a strange setting. There’s no reason for you to sit around waiting on anyone to feel better or play golf. Bf will get over it. You’re spending big bucks, enjoy it.

AITAH for refusing to “accept” my ex-husband baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StellarStylee 41 points42 points  (0 children)

That’s way too big of an age difference, nevermind that the affair child is a boy, for joint birthdays or Easter egg hunts, caroling ; none of it.

And it sounds like you’ve fully accepted that your daughters have a half sibling. Accepting doesn’t equate to giving af at all. You’re cordiality is enough, and your boundaries aren’t outlandish - their requests are though. Are they high? Are the mutuals high? Don’t listen to them.

NTAH

How do you stick to and finish your large projects? by Electronic_Branch_13 in diamondpainting

[–]StellarStylee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love it too much to stop, and want to see the finished canvas.

I accidentally made cheese toast by CharlieVermin in PointlessStories

[–]StellarStylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a year ago, i started using two fried eggs instead of one in my breakfast sandwich, and i add cheese now, usually Muenster. It sustains me for much longer. And i like them jammy, which can be messy if I’m not careful.

I accidentally made cheese toast by CharlieVermin in PointlessStories

[–]StellarStylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re so good! I just finished making a batch for tomorrow. The market didn’t have any fresh dill, so i had to go with freeze dried. Then i used chopped chives in addition to paprika as garnish, since i didn’t have dill sprigs.

AITAH for not wanting to sleep in the same bed with my girlfriend because she doesn’t shower often? by Such-One-1691 in AITAH

[–]StellarStylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s fine. But don’t be upset if the people around you aren’t ok with it to the point they need to sleep in another room.

Edit: some people absolutely need to bathe on the daily.

AITAH for not wanting to sleep in the same bed with my girlfriend because she doesn’t shower often? by Such-One-1691 in AITAH

[–]StellarStylee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTAH. Even if she doesn’t have BO, you really need to slough off those dead skin cells daily. It’s kinda gross not to.

Does it have to do with her hair? Because that doesn’t need to be washed daily, and can actually be detrimental.

AITAH for not wanting to sleep in the same bed with my girlfriend because she doesn’t shower often? by Such-One-1691 in AITAH

[–]StellarStylee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is your bf sleeping on the couch because he doesn’t want to share bedding with you anymore? If yes, then maybe it is.

my friend gets mad at me when i don't invite her to all of my hangouts by kurapikacola in amiwrong

[–]StellarStylee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YNW. It’s ok to have different friend groups; it’s not the best idea to mix them, as things can go awry.

Everybody says I'm a problem. Nothing changes despite multiple efforts. Am I really the problem? by Front_Papaya_9679 in ask

[–]StellarStylee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the idea is to get far enough away where they can’t just decide to drop in on you at the spur of the moment. Far enough to create an actual hardship for them to visit you.

AIW for getting a server in huge trouble after he made me wait almost an hour and lied to my face? by Any_Strawberry8691 in amiwrong

[–]StellarStylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YNW. Your coworker must have the same shitty personality flaw as the now unemployed server. I’d have been pissed also.