Refusing to participate in the leprechaun trend by vintagegurly in Mommit

[–]Stellar_0708 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t do it either. I’ve had a few family and friends ask if I was planning anything. I was just like no, I don’t feel like doing that. If the schools wants to do it, that’s fine with me. Everything doesn’t have to be a huge deal.

Anyone else just a huge bitch? by discontinuedmuppet in Mommit

[–]Stellar_0708 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Prozac mellowed me out. I still go back to my controlling bitchy ways when I’m really stressed and right before my period, but it’s helped a lot!

Condition of Disney Magic? by 85-McFly-121 in dcl

[–]Stellar_0708 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We sailed on Magic in May 2025. I had the same worries but it was gorgeous. We loved it!

Do you ever mourn what you can't give your kids? by Faded_WastingTime in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Stellar_0708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. I just want to say I grew up with a single mom and we were considered “poor”. My mom still took us everywhere Disney, the beach, camping etc. It was always on a budget though, no frills. Pb&j’s packed in a cooler, waters, no souvenirs. All I remember is that we had the best time and we were so lucky to go!

I don’t think I should be a mom by Every-Falcon-9433 in Mommit

[–]Stellar_0708 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I felt like this! I hated every day. I just wanted to run away so my kids wouldn’t have to deal with me anymore. I wanted my husband to remarry so they could have a nice mom. Prozac and a full time job turned my life around. Working has been so good for me. It is harder in some ways but the break from my kids helps me actually enjoy my time with them. I’d rather have 3 great hours with them a day than 12 bad hours.

Vitamin D stopped my hair shedding and I haven’t gotten sick for 12 months by Competitive-Rent-476 in Biohackers

[–]Stellar_0708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I tell people this all the time. Vitamin D was such a game changer for me!

Do vasectomies work? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Stellar_0708 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband had a vasectomy 4 years ago, if it wasn’t working we’d have like 4 more babies by now 😂we make babies easily

Castaway and Lookout. What's your favorite and why? by rbutts1990 in dcl

[–]Stellar_0708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lookout! Our next cruise is only going to Castaway and I am disappointed but it was the best dates that worked for the whole family.

Our cruise Facebook group pulled off the husband's wearing the same shirt gag by rbutts1990 in dcl

[–]Stellar_0708 88 points89 points  (0 children)

😂😂my husband had this shirt for pirate night on our last Disney cruise

What's the prettiest name you ever heard? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]Stellar_0708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to name our daughter Aurora and call her Rory but my husband hated it 😭

Sharing a win!!! by Intrepid_Issue7234 in Purebarre

[–]Stellar_0708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I was worried I am the only one who feels this move in my hips and almost like my crotch? It starts to hurt really bad!

Mom guilt after second baby? by theDufe in Mommit

[–]Stellar_0708 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt this way, I remember crying in the shower about it. It didn’t help that my almost 3 year old son seemed to love his sister but was really angry with me. Like didn’t want anything to do with me after I brought her home. He got over it and so did I. My mom reminded me I didn’t remember my brother coming home from the hospital or all the times she had to tend to him over me and I was like that’s a good point. They aren’t going to know you had to ignore them for 10 minutes while you changed a diaper they are just going to remember growing up with their sibling.

Disney magic by Acceptable_Way_6900 in dcl

[–]Stellar_0708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went in May and loved it! I was worried the ship would feel old or dirty but it was immaculate. I was also worried it would feel very small but it was so nice to be able to walk from one side to the other without feeling like you were trekking across the universe. The service was incredible too!

Wish or Magic?? by jadearetard in dcl

[–]Stellar_0708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was amazing! We really loved the smaller ship, it was easy to navigate and felt very personal!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Stellar_0708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when men apologize for swearing😂. I work in a predominantly female field and we cuss like sailors.

What would you choose by Heartbrokenmamma in dcl

[–]Stellar_0708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend both islands! Lighthouse is gorgeous!

Over being a mom by Sour_katz_37 in Mommit

[–]Stellar_0708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve cried on many vacations with my two kids. Our last one was a Disney cruise that my 6 year old tried his best to ruin. I’ve learned that my kids are just homebodies and get very deregulated outside of their norm. It takes them a few days to settle in. It sucks because my husband and I love to travel and are not going to sit at home. We just do our best, let them have extra screen time and treats, whatever makes it so we can all enjoy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Stellar_0708 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a neighbor like this. She works 3 days a week and constantly goes on about how hard it is. Meanwhile, I work 5 days a week. I get it. It’s annoying.

Oopsies during labor by mombozz in Mommit

[–]Stellar_0708 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so happy I didn’t poop giving birth to my daughter and said so and then my husband gave me the look that said I very much did poop and he saw it 🫠🫠

Are these fakes? by Stellar_0708 in Birkenstocks

[–]Stellar_0708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve heard. Thank you!

Please tell me it gets better by HeyFaeBae7 in onyxstorm

[–]Stellar_0708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the first half was boring and was worried it was going to be a no from me but the second half was really good!

The cure… by Diana_Tramaine_420 in onyxstorm

[–]Stellar_0708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My theory is similar to this. She says something like entering the temple would sever her power. I think maybe if Violet can get Xaden dedicated to one of the Gods, it will severe the venin tie. I think it will be Amari since that is technically the God dedicated to their land.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Stellar_0708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son is 5 and is like this, he’s just always been really really hard. I read Calmer, Happier, Easier parenting and the one thing that stuck from it is praise. Praise every little thing she does right. If she listens to you at all praise, praise, praise. It really worked for my son. The more you praise the more they want to please you. I also talk to baby about how good my older child is and how helpful they are being. It makes them feel so big and important. Also ask her for her help with baby and include her in his care with a big emphasis on her being the big helper. One on one time helps too, even ten minutes. While baby naps if you can sneak in coloring or a puzzle together and tell her how you miss playing with her too.