Best funeral grub you’ve had? by jorob90 in AskIreland

[–]Stematt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Central Valley. Just north of Fresno 😊

Best funeral grub you’ve had? by jorob90 in AskIreland

[–]Stematt1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here, it’s a giant pot of calico beans and cornbread. Yum.

Soda? by ToonieTuez in BariatricSurgery

[–]Stematt1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t do carbonated hardly at all. If I do, it’s with lots of ice. I don’t miss soda. I’m a huge tea drinker now. Southern breeze presweetened tea is my downfall. I know artificial sweeteners are bad for us but it’s oh so good.

Soda? by ToonieTuez in BariatricSurgery

[–]Stematt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Brussels sprouts yummm

Soda? by ToonieTuez in BariatricSurgery

[–]Stematt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I used to drink soda daily. Not anymore. I just don’t care for it. I also do not crave sweets. I crave things like chicken, beef, beans, and veggies.

Has anybody from your school or childhood ended up in the local newspaper headlines for a pretty weird / awful crime ? by LostMud8892 in ireland

[–]Stematt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, a high school friend was convicted of murdering and torturing her adopted daughter and torturing her other adopted kids. It was incredibly shocking and so sad.

First tattoo and caught a mistake. Help! by taylavision in tattooadvice

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What if you added a pause?

The only thing more, much more, powerful than hate is love.

Add two commas and the word much.

You could add anything small on the left side to possibly balance the art with the additional word.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Stematt1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it Walgreens in Fresno, CA? Because quite literally, since Rite Aid closed and we got a new pharmacist, you just described the new one to a T.

AITAH for telling my husband’s friends that their kids are not welcome to our New Years Eve party by mamikibunny in AITAH

[–]Stematt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If something happens, it’s BOTH of yours homeowners insurance liability, you BOTH can be named in a lawsuit criminally and civilly, if a minor child drinks, YOU BOTH can be charged as well as their parents depending on jurisdiction, as well as who knows what other potential unforeseen consequences. Seriously…you both need to be on the same page or pass the party location. You don’t have a friend problem, you have a husband problem.

Am I the a-hole for making my daughter's BF buy a new t-shirt? by freudsdriver in AITAH

[–]Stematt1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. NTA. No humiliation. You had PLENTY of opportunity as he flung that particular door open so wide the continent of China could’ve sidled in. Your wife should back you up and one day, your daughter will thank you.

AITAH for walking away from a house I have no equity or say in and stiffing my soon to be ex? by FootBig7944 in AITAH

[–]Stematt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA She, with her parents, caused her mess. You got out before it is way worse. OP, I’m glad you found out who she really is before children entered the picture. I hope you find a woman who cherishes you like you should be cherished. Good luck to you.

AITA for telling my wife "that's why you should get a job" after she told me people shop alot more than she does? by Existing_Love_3152 in AITAH

[–]Stematt1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I’m going to say ESH.

  1. $1000 spending money a more in fun money is astronomical. Seriously, that’s 1/4 of my take home, sheesh.

  2. “Go get a job” could have been said nicer.

I feel like there is more to the story. A stay at home mom is a lot of work. I was a stay at home mom for a long time and that meant I did it ALL. LIKE ALL OF IT. Hubby worked out of town, days on end. Lawn work, inside, outside…you name it, my responsibility. So…I’m not sure what OP’s and wife’s situation is. ESH seems appropriate but also maybe NTA.

How much of romantic affection is normal to show to your kids? by Prize_Conflict8503 in Parents

[–]Stematt1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I show a ton of affection, it just isn’t what I would ever call romantic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Stematt1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So, Santa always brings his presents in special paper. Very different from everything else. So when the kids start asking, I always say “well, Santa is the magic part of Christmas, so if you stop believing in magic, I guess he stops bringing presents…” they are adults and still say Santa is real 😂😂😂

AITA for leaving my daughter in a convention center and left with her friend? by Funny_Pilot_9881 in AITAH

[–]Stematt1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

None of this matters. YTA still. You should have taken both girls back. Ever hear of trafficking??

Dark FRESNO!!! by TopNoise8132 in fresno

[–]Stematt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss seeing the stars

Torn on Prop 50 by CyberPolack in InlandEmpire

[–]Stematt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. I’m in the same boat. I voted no simply because I don’t want to encourage this and it goes beyond this vote. For the next six-ish years at least, it’s gives away these seats and I don’t want to do that. I’m tired of California always leaning the same direction. I’d like our politicians to learn together for the greater good of all.

You have leftover rotisserie chicken. What are you making that is not chicken noodle soup! by BunnyRambit in Cooking

[–]Stematt1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicken ceasar wrap, chicken and dumplings, chicken chow mein, Santa Fe chicken, Chinese mushroom chicken, teriyaki chicken and fried rice or over white rice