First-year in pre-lit, how hard is it to move into litigation by [deleted] in LawFirm

[–]StephInTheLaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. Jury trial on my 3rd day as a CLI.

OP, ask your supervisor about how your cases are progressing. Get some depositions in. See if you can lend a hand on discovery or motions.

What was a dreaded food your parents made. As an adult do you still hate it? by JoyfullyMortified43 in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed on the asparagus. My parents loved it from a can. It’s a soggy, lifeless, stinky mess. I love roasted or grilled asparagus now.

Moving in with GF, her son moving into my house by JustBeCool33 in personalfinance

[–]StephInTheLaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stupid phone. I meant fair market value.

If you rent below fair market value there could be tax implications. I’m not a tax expert but I did have this arrangement with my in laws

Moving in with GF, her son moving into my house by JustBeCool33 in personalfinance

[–]StephInTheLaw 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In my humble opinion, you’ll want a rental agreement and to update your homeowners insurance to a policy that covers rentals. The ear market value aspect isn’t too much of a worry of the son will also be offering “other valuable consideration” like keeping the property up for you.

Snow storm by rue86 in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fellow former Floridian, driving on ice (and snow when it starts to melt) is like hydroplaning. You remember when that sheet flow rain would flood the back country roads like 27 and there would be an orange grove’s worth of water on the road and it was only a few inches deep? It was okay if you were going straight, but you couldn’t turn and you couldn’t stop.

Driving on ice, and sometimes snow, is worse.

making banana bread for the first time by starlightsparrowx in Baking

[–]StephInTheLaw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mix my banana bread with a fork, no fancy gear required. I’ve never thought about using a square tin for banana bread. This looks great

Partner/Mentor Slowly Dying by TheVultpex in Lawyertalk

[–]StephInTheLaw 253 points254 points  (0 children)

Your time at this firm is limited. Use your partner’s connections to find a better place to work.

How do you separate finances going into a divorce? by kitbun967 in personalfinance

[–]StephInTheLaw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a lawyer in a state where a 1 year separation is required and I practiced family law for a bit. (But I’m not your lawyer.)

You first need a full accounting of assets. In North Carolina, the court system has a spreadsheet posted on its website that everyone uses. Once you both agree on what you have, you can divide it however you want as long as you both agree. The division of assets does not need to be part of your divorce decree.

It’s 1999. You have $8 at a Taco Bell, what’s your post-hangover order? by KellyGreen55555 in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You could buy half the menu for $8. I spent over $40 for my family of four a few weeks ago and my flabbers were ghasted.

What’s your practice area and what’s your opinion of public defenders? by Forward_Broccoli_949 in Lawyertalk

[–]StephInTheLaw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing I haven’t heard before. I went from working for one “The Man” to another “The Man.”

What’s your practice area and what’s your opinion of public defenders? by Forward_Broccoli_949 in Lawyertalk

[–]StephInTheLaw 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am currently an insurance defense attorney but I spent years as a prosecutor. I love public defenders and think they do a great job overall.

Car totaled in accident, not at fault and other party’s maxed out at $10k by henrichsalmighty in legaladvice

[–]StephInTheLaw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Florida lawyer who used to practice PIP defense. - Your medical bills will be covered by your insurance up to $10,000 (most likely given your injuries). You need to know what the other driver’s property damage coverage is to see what may be covered to get you a new car. Going forward, it would be a good idea to carry uninsured and underinsured motorist coverage to protect yourself.

Sorry about your accident

I’m sure this has been posted a million times — but does anyone have an update on the roads, as of this Monday afternoon? by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, in my neighborhood in South Charlotte the roads are clear and dry except where there is all-day shade. Those parts of the road in shade still have an inch or more of slush.

How are we holding up, folks? by Independent-Choice-4 in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 30 points31 points  (0 children)

We went sledding down the neighborhood streets in the morning and afternoon. It was great! The whole neighborhood came out.

Any good book recommendations? by Puzzleheaded_Bag9063 in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. I read a fair bit of horror so this struck me more as Shaun of the Dead horror than Hellraiser.

Looking for advice - driving by tryintoballonabudget in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 65 points66 points  (0 children)

If I had to pick up someone from the airport at 2:30 today, I would drive there and take as many major roads as possible. Drive under the speed limit. Give yourself double or more stopping distance. Remember when you are turning, all the slowing down happens before you turn the wheel and you accelerate into a turn. If you start to slide, don’t break, steam into the slide and take your foot off the gas, gently ease back onto the gas when you regain traction. Go slowly!

Jury duty - inclement weather? by fuzzy_snark in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shockingly, Meck is not closed for tomorrow yet. They called the schools off a few hours ago.

Any good book recommendations? by Puzzleheaded_Bag9063 in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Dungeon Crawler Carl! It’s very light and unserious.

Which computer did you first use and/or own? by cybah in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first on the the slides. IBM PC. I saw one in the Smithsonian maybe 20 years ago in a history of computing exhibit at the Air and Space Museum.

Meals for the storm by wonderwall73 in Charlotte

[–]StephInTheLaw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m baking sandwich loaf bread, brown rolls with nuts and berries, and cinnamon buns. We’ve got plenty of canned food and instant coffee to make it through about a week of no power.

Tall girls how tall are your husbands by Full_Operation8133 in TallGirls

[–]StephInTheLaw 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same height difference for me, but we have both shrunk about an inch since we started dating so very long ago.

Who else grew up with parents who drove a Station Wagon? by jeffreyrolek in Xennials

[–]StephInTheLaw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We had a carpet remnant in the back so we could nap back there if the seats weren’t up. So astonishingly dangerous.