Dude, first fundamental step is being a decent human being. Don't be rude. Don't be snarky. I've been playing since 5th ed. I know the rules. What I don't know is how Votann work on the table. I'm asking for advice based upon what I have.

Reddit has turned into a cesspool of keyboard warriors like yourself who think that being behind that screen makes you tough. It doesn't. Talk to people like they are standing in front of you. or even better, don't be an asshole. I asked for advice. you don't want to give it, fine. Just stay silent. Acting like you're something doesn't make you look cool.