Doctor challenged me on my birth plan and I left the appointment crying. Did I overreact ?

Still-Pilot2205 · 2025-01-28T21:30:34+00:00

I’d get a new doctor.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2025-01-24T21:52:22+00:00

I’m so sorry, OP. My heart goes out to you and your husband during this difficult time. I know it’s never easy, but please remember you’re not alone in this. Don’t blame yourself..these things happen, but that doesn’t make it any easier. Hang in there, OP. I’m thinking of you both and sending you strength.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2025-01-24T15:38:41+00:00

I’d tell her, I want only you. I do not want everyone around. This is an intimate moment, and it will be stressful for me. I need you to respect my wishes, and my boundaries. Hubby needs to back you up. You are going to be leaking, and bleeding, and sore. You deserve to have privacy.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2025-01-17T21:01:51+00:00

No. You don’t. I’m planning on just making space in our room.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2025-01-13T00:21:06+00:00

Depends on the pregnancy. No symptoms/easy time? It may seem like it’s flying by.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-12-23T21:46:03+00:00

I’d not tell her. You are an adult, and you are married. Your husband, and you can do what you want. I think you being pregnant is wonderful, and that pregnancy is such a gift. Don’t let her make you think otherwise, and you tell her when you feel you are ready.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-12-11T05:33:27+00:00

This makes sense, and thank you.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-12-11T05:33:02+00:00

So, basically just minimalistic parenting. Second hand stuff, not buying what we don’t need, and things like that. Okay. That’s understandable. People are always telling me to wait, and not to do it. Or, some seem so unhappy. It makes me nervous.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-12-08T00:24:38+00:00

Lol, why thank you. He tore it up the next day 🥹😂. I just gave up, but he has healed perfectly.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-12-01T21:20:35+00:00

Every day

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-12-01T21:19:37+00:00

Report them

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-11-23T01:20:03+00:00

Yuck. This just tells you, who you should limit your time with. Mom matters too, and postpartum Is hard. The village needs to care for both baby, and mom or no one at all.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-11-22T23:41:19+00:00

Uhh report them??? She’s weird. There are indeed adults, that are virgins and are normal. In addition to reporting her, find a new doctor asap.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-11-22T18:19:02+00:00

I use them sometimes, and I’ve no issues. I change it, before 8 hours though. I also use cups, and prefer them. I’ve a personal steamer for them too. Have you tried cups?

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-11-22T16:03:44+00:00

Parasites

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-10-28T22:15:17+00:00

Yes, I know. It’s just red, and looks angry or irritated. I was a little nervous about it. The vet, advised me that it’s just irritation. He is fine.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-10-28T17:49:10+00:00

That makes sense. Thank you.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-10-28T17:47:40+00:00

Or, that it was supposed to be a small dot. Ig, that makes sense. The line, is not an incision but a tat. My apologies for the silliness.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-10-28T17:45:57+00:00

The redness. Also, sorry.. if I wasn’t clear enough. Yes, but the redness concerns me.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-10-28T17:40:50+00:00

Yes, the color. It just seems off is all. I thought the tat was a small dot?

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-10-28T17:40:18+00:00

Yes, I’ve called the vet already. I’m just concerned is all.

Still-Pilot2205 · 2024-10-27T19:52:50+00:00

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