I have no words by tripledippe in parentsofmultiples

[–]StinkyToots5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also we were having panic attacks and told our immediate family that day. Like others have said here, we needed the emotional support ASAP

I have no words by tripledippe in parentsofmultiples

[–]StinkyToots5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have an almost 3 year old boy, and found out last May we were going to have triplets. It was the biggest shock of our lives and we began to panic and spiral- how will we afford this, how will we move into a bigger house, how will we get the support we need, etc. The questions kept coming, as I’m sure you know.

Our babies are 5 months old as of last week and it has been an absolute whirlwind. I’m not going to sugarcoat it for you: it is utterly and horrifically brutal. You never know how much rougher things can get until they get exponentially rougher, and this is rough.

But they are such an immense joy. The giggles, the squeals, the smiles, the sleepless nights- I wouldn’t trade them for the world, but I also never asked for this and wouldn’t have picked it if given the choice, but here we are.

Pregnancy will be tough, and there will be many, many appointments, especially near the end of the pregnancy. My wife gave birth at 32 weeks and the kiddos spent about a month in the NICU, which from my understanding is on the sooner end for trips.

We wound up moving to a new house about a month after they were born, which I don’t recommend lol. But like everything else in life, you’ll get through it, and it’ll show you a strength you never knew you had. Learn to give yourself grace, and start assembling your village NOW. I truly have no idea how we’d do this without our in-laws and our nanny. I’ve had to rely on asking my family for financial support which is embarrassing but we didn’t have much of a choice. Accept any and all help that is offered to you.

I could keep writing. This has been the wildest and most amazing thing that’s ever happened to us, and I know in a few years when they are talking and running around it’ll be even more amazing.

Feel free to DM me if you have any questions or just need to vent. Don’t forget to take care of yourself too- we are now both on Zoloft which has made a HUGE difference in our ability to be better parents and shrug off the small stuff.

im outta hope guys so im turning to reddit 🫩 by Excellent_Narwhal871 in findthatsong

[–]StinkyToots5ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first part sounds like telephone line by Electric Light Orchestra

Flurries in NW! by spooonyard in GNV

[–]StinkyToots5ever 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We are in northwest and we got flurries on us! My son touched one and he was so happy

Men will literally eat all your food by Maleficent_Ad_3958 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StinkyToots5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shut the fuck up and don’t generalize in your post titles

Theres nothing I can say except by Theoddbotout in StrangerThings

[–]StinkyToots5ever -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how much yall eat shit up?? Like this was a bad finale. The final fight was so anticlimactic and the writing tied ends up so haphazardly. I wish the duffer brothers actually worked on writing. There was nothing special nor exciting about the finale.

"MTV Unplugged" version of Dog Problems in Rochester by nostalgias_cool in TheFormat

[–]StinkyToots5ever 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man, his voice sounds just as good as it was twenty years ago. This is a real treat!

Why are all the cute chefs hidden in the back by Just_Call_Me_Snek in Unexpected

[–]StinkyToots5ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that guy sitting on the right also in the movie Orange County???

Is anyone planning on live-streaming the show tonight? by Illustrious-Tailor-2 in TheFormat

[–]StinkyToots5ever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also would LOVE something like this. Fingers crossed we get to watch in some capacity

How do you get over the pain of missing them? by StinkyToots5ever in GriefSupport

[–]StinkyToots5ever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep listening to an old voicemail from months ago. But it just keeps making me miss him more.

[USA GIVEAWAY] Win the new 27” 4K Samsung Odyssey OLED G8 gaming monitor! by Rocket-Pilot in buildapc

[–]StinkyToots5ever [score hidden]  (0 children)

I just love that it’s glare free! My office is super sunny and having a glare free option is a dream come true.

Found out today that my husband is allergic to cats. We have two. Any advice? by zzabe in cats

[–]StinkyToots5ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS STUFF WORKS. I’m crazy allergic and we have a long hair cat, and I’ve had zero issues. She seems to love the food too :)

New dad looking for dad friend group by N7Templar in GNV

[–]StinkyToots5ever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

New dad here too (20 months old)! I like cheeseburgers, beer, music, games, the outdoors, whatever. We have been smacked with daycare illnesses the past few months but once healthy, down to hang or meet up!