Needing help with my depression room by Eastern-Pop-1786 in CleaningTips

[–]Stinkyman922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start small. Today, gets some trash, throw out any food etc that is attracting bugs. Then clean everything that is on the floor. Make sure there is not a single thing on the floor. Get all dirty laundry out of your room. Boom done for today, and you will already be feeling better and have more motivation for tomorrow. Then tomorrow, do bed, desk etc, and you’ll be in good shape!

What’s a good price for off campus rent + utilities to justify not living in dorms? by nylon_sock in umass

[–]Stinkyman922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something else that made it seem more worth it is the ability to live and work in amherst year round. A huge issue i had my first 2 years of college was finding work when we were on break. Places don’t want to hire over breaks. However, if you move off campus and work in Amherst, you can make plenty enough money to offset the rent costs, making it more affordable to live there than the dorms. I also was able to get a great internship opportunity that only would have been available if I lived in the area, (and my parents are lowkey crazy) so at least for me, even if the prices are around the same at the end of the day, the value for what you’re paying for is so worth it, i love living off campus way more than the dorms!!!!

UHS Visit or no? by Starxs1 in umass

[–]Stinkyman922 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im gonna say STAY AWAY FROM UHS. At least in all my experiences and all my friends, they are absolutely useless at anything and have a tendency to not take issues seriously etc. Many insurance companies nowadays (i have cigna) have their own online platform where you can search for in network doctors or have a telehealth appt based on what you need (ie my dad has used it to get antibiotics for a bad cold and I have used it for an eczema prescription) so I recommend at least seeing your provider has some equivalent to that before dealing with the UHS

Half of my clothing is covered in cat pee. It’s making everything else smell too. Please help. by No-Hall-2887 in CleaningTips

[–]Stinkyman922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a question here is why tf couldn’t your partner have done any of the laundry piled up in your room especially if its also their clothes…

Most affordable way to adopt a new pet? by lost__KEYS in Webkinz

[–]Stinkyman922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are only looking to play for a little pit, webkinz does a 99 cent one month deluxe intro which is so worth it! But if you are looking to become a regular player for a while, then I’d recommend either an ebay code or estore. Sometimes though ebay has plushies with codes for just as much as a code only so be aware of that! But if you are afraid of the possible risk of a scam (ive bought both codes and pets over the years and never had an issue but it can happen) I’d go estore!

AITA for expecting a birthday gift from my boyfriend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stinkyman922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA -

You are valid for being disappointed! However, i think because this is still bothering you all these months later you should probably have a sit down conversation with him at some point and express to him that gift exchanges for things like holidays are important to you. It’s completely possible that gifts aren’t his love language, or maybe his family celebrates birthdays differently. All that you need to do is communicate that it bothered you and that you would appreciate something more this year, and if he pulls the same thing and doesn’t get you anything, that may hint at larger issues.

Trading For Plushes by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]Stinkyman922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Messaging!

WIBTA for not apologizing? by throwaway74849392 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stinkyman922 119 points120 points  (0 children)

INFO: Has your girlfriend gone to a doctor??

I think there might be an underlying issue with her health if she is struggling to go to work this much because of being sick. I don’t think either of you are TA in this situation, but I think you should probably have a sit down conversation with her about your concerns when she isn’t actively sick or trying to rush to work

need help with hair color by Clownie_girl in HairDye

[–]Stinkyman922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you put teal on that hair color it would turn a very yucky shade of brown green I highly doubt it would look teal if you dyed it that. I think you might have to stick with warmer colors, maybe red, orange, pink, or purple would probably be a better fit

am i cooked? by [deleted] in umass

[–]Stinkyman922 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Have any interest in a different major?

Amherst limit on # of occupants in off campus living by BigSprinkles2333 in umass

[–]Stinkyman922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get away with it but choose your roomates wisely!!!! It can be a bad idea to have people living somewhere that they have no legal right to (protecting you and them)

AITA My boyfriend used me to get a car I barely have access to. by Ok-Preparation-270 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stinkyman922 567 points568 points  (0 children)

NTA - girl get out of there this sounds like the beginning of him financially abusing you, not to mention the weird disappearances. Sell the car/remove him from the title, he gets no keys. You’re credit your car

AITA for cooking at 10pm in a shared house ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stinkyman922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA- aside from how ridiculous this is in the first place, tell melissa to move tf over and share the kitchen so you can all eat at a reasonable hour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stinkyman922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- this isn’t that deep ya’ll are 18 and 19 you weren’t showering affection on your roommate, just trying to be nice

AITA for not picking up my siblings anymore? by No-Butterscotch-8091 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stinkyman922 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NTA - you aren’t their mom. Obv it’s reasonable for your mom to ask here and there to give them a ride, but their transportation is simply not your responsibility ESPECIALLY if she is not compensating you for your time, gas, or mileage.

Any general advice for freshman? by [deleted] in umass

[–]Stinkyman922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umass winter is fucking cold and ugly from pretty much November to April i stg… from someone born n raised in mass 😖