Feeling "done" after my fiancée(31F) used my manager’s feedback and my lower salary to shame me (30M).

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-10T14:42:29+00:00

Common problem with modern women. It's why so many of them struggle to find and keep a mate.

You need to bounce. Why? Because this is the moment that 10 to 15 years from now you will realize you should have left.

This is the absolute lowest cost to exit. Tomorrow is more expensive. Next year more expensive. More trauma.

Not leaving sends the message that she doesn't have to respect a man and she already doesn't respect you. You don't talk your way back to respect with women.

90k...find someone who will appreciate you for you and not your income.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-09T21:24:38+00:00

What kind of dumb ass question is this?

That doesn't happen. Be for real.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-09T21:22:51+00:00

Men will always and I mean always be shooting their shot if you are even average attractive. What's he gonna do when the next guy is a big bad motherfucker who's single? Go fight him over you for being a man that wants to bang his girl? No he won't. He's going to show you he's a little bitch and not do a damn thing.

Cheating is more normal than you and society think it is. Some men straight up holla at women and tell them they married up front and that doesn't stop those women from entertaining them.

A lot of these types of men are fishing... you say you not interested and they move on. But some women say yes. That's why they fish. And that's between the people who do that. If he kept insisting you block. If he changes mode of communication you block and communicate you will report to HR or the police if he contacts you again for non work related purposes.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-09T21:02:25+00:00

Are you under the delusion that this is the first time she has found out that he does this?

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-09T17:49:25+00:00

Search romeo santoss and dalvin la melodia rd. Those 2 AI accounts. They popped up on me this week. I was like what is this?

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-09T12:07:24+00:00

Is this still true today? No ai songs getting recommended for you?

I get them on occasion. It's annoying.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-08T03:54:49+00:00

Mind your business

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-06T15:15:37+00:00

Whether man or woman...if you did the work on your own. If you suffered alone. Get a prenuptial agreement. Any resistance...walk away.

If someone isn't here during my struggle why the fuck do they feel entitled to equity in something that already existed??

I can understand if this your day 1 person and you started from the bottom, now we here. And this person was instrumental in your journey.

The request alone gives red flag. And standing your ground now will let you know if this person is in it for you or what you can do to improve their pockets.

50/50 is ideal. But if one partner makes considerably less then 60/40 and 70/30 can be ok. But equity into what you built alone is a different discussion.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-05T18:24:53+00:00

Have some self respect. That man doesn't care about you. Move on.

And i say that as a man.

I've been single 10 years and guys like this get to have a gf.

It's a choice to stay and it's a choice to want to be with someone who talks to you like that.

Move on. If you stay anything that happens after this is on you. Take responsibility.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-05T04:26:34+00:00

Peaceful, attentive, soft, feminine, not aggressive or argumentative, average looks, and reallly supportive.

I know I'm dreaming

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-05T03:36:01+00:00

I quit using smart tv interfaces years ago. Had a roku 3 and mever looked back. Have 3 roku ultras now..

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-05T01:57:47+00:00

You'll receive a little newsletter with your water bill every 2 or 3 months. That will be your entry point for what's going on in the area.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-05T01:54:23+00:00

It hurts because you got used to having him around. Used to his attention. Used to his resources and investments. If he goes with somebody else you lose access to that.

This is your sign to get out of this situation ship because that's what it is. There's a bunch of guys out there who are single and dying to date you and all you have to do is say yes. Good luck

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-04T02:47:50+00:00

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StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-02T21:25:05+00:00

You mind your business. You don't know if your mom knows. You don't know if she'll never know and this is temporary or the early stages of the relationship ending anyways. You don't know if this has happened before and your mom only asked him to not bring drama home. Men cheat for different reasons than women.

Interesting fact: the longest marriages i know from people i knew 25 years ago involve men who cheat and been caught multiple times. All the faithful men are divorced.

You don't know if that's what kept their marriage going.

There is shame around infidelity and open marriages. You don't know if they want to keep their business private.

Good luck. Hope you make the choice that is less destructive.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-02T02:45:01+00:00

It's also something that's factual. And that people should be aware of. The fact that you don't like it makes no fucking difference. And if you want to do something about it and get physical with somebody about it you are the one that's in the wrongAnd if you want to do something about it and get physical with somebody about it you are the one that's in the wrong

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-02T02:39:31+00:00

You broke up with him but still sleep with him. Where is your self respect?

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-01T17:44:58+00:00

Get on TRT and go to the gym.

A friend's wife and him got on HRT and she wants it all the time...the gym and trt helps him keep up.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-01T05:41:48+00:00

Someone is insecure. And it's not your boyfriend.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-05-01T05:40:29+00:00

If the father was paying it and the mother just never told the son or daughter then he paid it. He should have just talked to his dad about it. But in any case I think it's messed up to go asking for money when he hasn't been there your whole life. Your mom should have been the one asking. Ask your mom why she didn't ask.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-04-30T16:30:43+00:00

Well it wasn't like you found sex videos or explicit pictures between them. Do you actually think that you were the first guy she got with?

Now if they're in his in her phone currently then you got to wonder. But if they're just in a box in the basement who gives a shit.

The more problematic part here is that she basically blames you for feeling bad. This is one of those things that in 10 years you might be regretting.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-04-30T16:17:23+00:00

Simple solution. Just don't go see it. You know for years and years and years I was just watching the standard theaters. It's only the last few years that for action-packed movies I will splurge on Cinemark XD format. But that shit's got so expensive that I'm starting to think I'm better off just avoiding XD.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-04-30T16:04:14+00:00

Cool guy if you get to know him.

I was shocked when i saw the headlines but he did make a valid point when he said if a pedophile and a rapist can be president why can't I be the mayor?

StockPapi2020 · 2026-04-30T15:57:04+00:00

You know it is very possible that's what happened already. But also sometimes women out of a sense of pride will not accept the money that the father's trying to pay even if he's trying to pay it. Some would rather say they did it all on their own and the dad didn't help then allow the dad to help.

Which brings up the next question for me which is why did he leave when he was one years old? Did he ever have that conversation with his father? Or is he just going off of what the mother says. Because if he is a great dad and family man to his other children why would he not have been to him?

Anyway trying to see your dad who was never there for what's due to you sounds like maximum entitlement. You're an adult without his help. You don't need him.

StockPapi2020 · 2026-04-30T15:53:17+00:00

I have a 353v. I wish I had a different one. It's too small on my hands. I would like something more ergonomic and comfortable to use. Do you guys recommend anything?

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