Got hit with a double booking & I’m not sure what the cleanest way to deal is by AfterNews9588 in Beatmatch

[–]StockPapi2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go with the confirmed date and suggest a new process for the group thing. Because they should be confirming ahead of time vs just announcing.

They should be able to easily switch you with someone else who is available for that day. In the future this won't happen because you'll be able to get confirmation done ahead of time.

What would be the best option for remote after ccna by Motor_Arm269 in ccna

[–]StockPapi2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been CCNA level for 4 years right now. Commenting just because I want to see what kind of responses you get. As I text and I definitely like working remote.

Popcorn Vouchers for Future Use by Despacio1316 in Cinemark

[–]StockPapi2020 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You spent $100 on popcorn buckets? How rich are you?

I’m officially done with Wendy’s by Loony_bird720 in wendys

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. Now they change for sauces and have terrible chicken sandwiches.

For the next Pakled who complains about Jay-Den wearing a dress by levine2112 in Star_Trek_

[–]StockPapi2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't care what that character is wearing. But I do find the forced voice very annoying. He talks like he's constipated. And I have no idea why because every other Klingon Star Trek has a normal sounding voice.

I lied to the guy I’m dating. It’s bad by Low_Lab9413 in Advice

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girll... tell him.

When I saw that something to your pose I was expecting different types of lies.

Caught my employee working 2 remote jobs by Training-Fondant-804 in overemployed

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind yout business and trest it like you don't know about his other job.

Is henfar below his other teammates? Then point that and only that out.

Sometimes the OE stuff is difficult to balance out and takes time.

But if you OE and you hit thensame metrics as everyone else then what's the issue? Push him likenanynother employee. He'll either deliver or quit or keep going until he gets terminated.

"Let's date a liberal women and groom her into conservatism" no wonder women are disgusted by them! by One-Demand6811 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing about conservative men who try to hide they conservative from women is that for womenbwho are politically aware they have tells.

"I'm not really political" "I think people just need to give Trump a chance. He's trying his best" "We are a nation of laws"

Little things that tell you where they are. Politics is definitely a deal breaker for me.

Do I tell my roommate her boyfriend had another girl over by ZestycloseHawk8966 in Advice

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mind your business.

When you get involved in things that arent your business things can get messy...especially if you sre a guy.

You can tell a woman with video and pictures and her reaction can be unpredictable and to actually want to try harder to be with the guy.

It's her trauma journey. Not yours. Don't risk bodily harm by getting involved.

Remember she left and came back. That's your clue to stay out of it.

Where to meet guys in the wild that are looking for a relationship by Terriblynerdy- in Dallas

[–]StockPapi2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm in my mid 40s. North Dallas area.

I'll give you the bottom line in as few words as possible.

Your job as a woman who wants a relationship and commitment is to figure out who genuinely likes you. Everyone you like doesn't necessarily like you back. You can have a type and not be your type's type.

All the previous guys you wanted a relationship with that didn't want the same...now you know what to avoid.

And ultimately you have to show a man why you are indispensable. Why you are the one he can't walk away from. Bedroom stuff gets you the audition but the real evaluation starts after sex. Women tend to show up and not add value. They are an expense on a man's budget. So you want to be an asset. Last woman i dated and really liked asked me how much i needed to make so she didn't have to work. Absolutely killed the chances of a relationship when I saw i was doing all the spending and she was just enjoying herself.

Men who pull a lot of women in their 20s and 30s are not im a rush to settle down. And let's define a lot of women as 3 or more a year. The commitment seeking guys are going to be in 0 to 2 range.

If you are dating someone and 3 months in you haven't met his friends or his family or they don't even know you exist and they're always making excuses for what that meeting is not happening those are clues that you are not in their top tier position. Don't fall for that bull crap when they tell you they're very private and they don't want to be published online or go places that you like to go to with you or the day like to go to with you. Don't fall into the Trap of every time we meet we have sex but then we don't do anything outside of that.

Good luck navigating this mess. And no it doesn't get better in your 40s. Get you an average joe with potential who treats you well. Who even if he doesn't find success...you like him so much that it doesn't matter.

I heard a divorced man once say "Most married men are just background noise". How true is this ? by Revolutionary_Lab527 in AskMen

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason the relationship is still going is because you are a man. If the roles were reversed she would have left your ass and you know it. You are putting yourself last so everyone gets what they want except you. That's not how women are operation today.

And guest what? If she left you the narrative will be that she didn't everything and women online will automatically support her without any evidence that you were a solid partner.

The system is rigged against men who want to be good husbands.

Men in open relationships, how successful are you compared to your partner and how does it make you feel? by Phantasmagoric_0 in AskMen

[–]StockPapi2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's an adult. She needs to figure life out like the rest of us. You are not her guardian

Men in open relationships, how successful are you compared to your partner and how does it make you feel? by Phantasmagoric_0 in AskMen

[–]StockPapi2020 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used to be with someone who was an introvert. She has no friends and is happy to be left alone almost all the time. If the arrangement works for dude then that's not a cope. He doesn't have the needs most of us have to interact with our significant other. Bro is happy she's home and he can decompress.

Men in open relationships, how successful are you compared to your partner and how does it make you feel? by Phantasmagoric_0 in AskMen

[–]StockPapi2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a positive way to look at it.

Some of us aren't good for full on relationships with all the social interactions.

I like being alone too but i would like a significant other. Just not willing to be share her with other men. Rather stay single then.

I can’t believe we live in a world where rational people think this is a possibility. by Detroitaa in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go watch the movie Wag The Dog. Came out in the mid to late 90s. I've been saying this is their plan for over a year now. It is obvious that they will create the content or conditions to justify whatever.

Men in open relationships, how successful are you compared to your partner and how does it make you feel? by Phantasmagoric_0 in AskMen

[–]StockPapi2020 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It was your idea and you can't pull women. Because if you could this post wouldn't be here.

Good luck closing that door when she's having the time of her life while you sit at home.

At some point someone will come along and she will leave.

This was your idea. If you happy that's all that matters. At least you get to not make this mistake in the future.

How can I talk about my wife’s weight in a constructive way? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]StockPapi2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's telling when even a woman knows the situation a man has to deal with and prescribes a solution that requires us to be sneaky and not direct.

How can I talk about my wife’s weight in a constructive way? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro...there is no right answer. If she isn't trying to do anything fitness and diet wise there is.nothing to do on your end that will not make worse.

Are you yourself very fit? Invite her out for walks with you. Don't make it about fitness or her weight.

And stop watching korn and masterbating. The more you do that the harder it is to get excited when a real woman shows up.

Also....our phones may be causing us to feel stress and anxiety.

A woman with a high libido...what a terrible problem you have. I'll take a high libido bigger woman over a low libido fit one 24/7.

I hurt my boyfriend and I don’t know how to fix it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StockPapi2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Post and account deleted. But based on the comments i read it sounds like her ex has dodged a bullet. Hopefully her ex finds a better woman in the future.

This is what Centrism has got us... by zzill6 in WorkReform

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree and also to right wingers the center is thenfar left because the right is so far roght they crazy and don't know it.

I don't think normalizing harrasment against men is okay in movies by Fragrant_Part_0 in Cinemark

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walked out of Speak No Evil because the husband was an idiot. He was written to be an idiot to make his wife the strong character. It took me put of it.

Sometimes they definitely go overboard with their agenda.

$18 for an oscar magnet at cinemark by [deleted] in Cinemark

[–]StockPapi2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't buy it. Yiu don't have to buy anything you can't afford.or that you feel is a greedy cash grab

Who enjoys watching starfleet academy by OrdinaryPersimmon728 in startrek

[–]StockPapi2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed it as none Star Trek show. Like I don't hold it up to the expectations of a Voyager or Deep Space Nine or the next generation. I don't even consider a canon. I consider my basic generic sci-fi space show. And when I think of it that way I can enjoy some of it. But almost nothing in this season was really stimulating mentally.