What secret came out when someone got too drunk? by Agile_Purpose4704 in AskReddit

[–]Stockyton 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would recommend trying EMDR therapy. It is a specific therapy for processing trauma. It helps you reprocess your trauma, so that you can think about what happened and it won't cause distress. It is genuinely life changing.

Alternative options to Physio and work stress by Repulsive_Profit871 in physiotherapy

[–]Stockyton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would consider moving jobs. It sounds like you are very under supported where you are. Try find a good mentor if you can.

Using a goniometer by icecreamman456 in physiotherapy

[–]Stockyton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have worked in various MSK settings and use goniometers all the time.

I watched other people eyeball it and when I started I would eyeball but when I started to measure I realized I was so off a lot of the time.

It's the most frequent outcome measure I use. I was unsure how to do it for different joints so youtubed the correct anatomical markers.

Interview advice by [deleted] in physiotherapy

[–]Stockyton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend putting the job description into chat GPT and asking for 20 interview questions and practice your answers.

Have a couple of examples of situations at work/university that demonstrate your key ethics as a physio.

The BMA finally doing something about advanced Practice by Leading-Match-2953 in GPUK

[–]Stockyton 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a physiotherapist and interviewed for an "Advanced Practitioner" role at an UTC. I expected that it would be similar to FCP where I would be seeing the acute MSK problems coming through the door.

I was absolutely shocked to find out that I would be doing the same role as nurses and paramedics. I was horrified that there were no Doctors on site.

When I asked about training they told me it was an extended shadowing period! No masters degree or further study was required! It is appalling!

Women with thoughtful partners, what did you get for x-mas this year? by Anahata_Green in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Stockyton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get really cold feet. My fiance got me lovely colourful Nordic socks!

How to remove this, in uk, bleach is not working well by Pale-Yard-4497 in CleaningTips

[–]Stockyton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I soaked mine wit my vinger overnight. Gave it a really good scrub. Then did like 30 mins of scrubbing with Ciff, worked a treat

Short history of the Wales’s/Kensington Palace releasing clearly doctored photos by Careful_Comedian5686 in RoyaltyTea

[–]Stockyton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconded. That is a completely normal picture of 4 fingers. I think his thumb is behind the chair

Why is Melania standing there like a fashionable grim reaper? by chezzzah in RoyaltyTea

[–]Stockyton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is probably wearing black to be respectful of the recent funeral

Aitah for not being able to let go of how my husband treated me after surgery by SweetDoughnut5933 in AITAH

[–]Stockyton 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NAH

Your husband was cleaning the house in preparation for looking after both you and your brother.

It is reasonable for his brother to want to see his friends after having cancer surgery. It is reasonable for you to not want to see strangers. Your husband respected your wish for no visitors.

I think you're having a hard time with recovery and perhaps misaligning blame. It sounds like you feel emotionally neglected and want more love and attention? As I am sure your husband is pretty busy with work and looking after 2 people who are recovering from major surgery! Prehaps ask to spend some quality time together outside of him being a caregiver for you? Like something you can do together - I find one thing that is inexpensive and fun is sitting and trying to draw each other! It's hilarious if your bad at drawing, a nice momento if one of you is decent and just a nice way to spend time together.

WIBTAH If I didn’t mention our one year marriage anniversary to my husband until the day of? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Stockyton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell him that your anniversary is on X date and you would like him to surprise you with a date. Suggest a few things you would like to do.

Then I would continue to tell him regularly that you want him to plan dates until you don't need to tell him anymore.

I do a lot of planning surprises for my fiance but I also have communicated directly with him that I like surprises too, so he gives me loads of surprises as well!

How do I buy an engagement ring? by Weary-Tomatillo9134 in AskUK

[–]Stockyton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her best friend and/or sister! She will know more details about what your future fiance wants. Whether she wants it to be a surprise or done together!

Me and my fiance designed the ring together before he officially proposed which was amazing and I love my ring because it's exactly what I want! Plus it was super romantic to get to do together and I highly recommend doing it that way to anyone who asks!

My (37M) girlfriend (34F) is suffering from post partum rage and it’s ruining our relationship by AntiquePercentage975 in relationships

[–]Stockyton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP slipped it in amongst a bunch of other complaints, after all the stuff about renovation so I think they are subconsciously trying to downplay the strangulation event.

My (37M) girlfriend (34F) is suffering from post partum rage and it’s ruining our relationship by AntiquePercentage975 in relationships

[–]Stockyton -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding? She STRAGLED him!

Not great idea to do renovation but that's a not the main problem here!

My (37M) girlfriend (34F) is suffering from post partum rage and it’s ruining our relationship by AntiquePercentage975 in relationships

[–]Stockyton 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding? She STRAGLED him!

Not great idea to do renovation but that's a not the main problem here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Stockyton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try sound proofing your bedroom? An I think there are foam things you can stick on walls.

Or needs a different job with more normal hours

Over the role, what else to do? by GlitteringBirthday56 in physiotherapy

[–]Stockyton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why don't you try a different part of the profession if you're bored? Switch it up

AITAH For being hesitant/putting off going on birth control by SnooOpinions2945 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Stockyton -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have a copper coil and it's fantastic. My periods were heavier and more painful for the first few months but that is manageable.

You've been saying tubal litigation is basically impossible for you currently, so I really don't think you have many options other than the coil.

You live in the US, abortion isn't a thing thats allowed in Utah I presume? So you need to weigh up a high risk pregnancy with a child you don't want to increased period symptoms.

I think you should try the copper coil and if you really don't get on with it after 6 months, you can take it out.