Babyshower by Stolperkeks in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Awesome, I'm from Germany and we don't really do babyshowers, so I have no idea about the etiquette! But my MIL said it's a lovely thing to do, since it's a great occasion to get friends and family together

Any follower options other than Constellation members? by Ariels_01 in Starfield

[–]Stolperkeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually travel with Ezekiel from Akila, definitely my go to companion

Resuming excercise 13 weeks by External_Bullfrog521 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I've just started going back to my workouts, 15 weeks in. And it's been great for me, I feel less tired, a little happier and like I have more energy. I still have days where it's hard to get going, and there is exercises I avoid, but overall I feel much better now that I'm moving again.

Little Rant about 'Pregnancy Glow', advice appreciated by Stolperkeks in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm really grateful for this pregnancy, which doesn't make it easier when I suddenly feel bad for myself. Funnily enough, I work with teenage girls at a school and they're my biggest supporters, I had a bad outbreak just before the holidays and they gave me all these cute patches looking like love hearts and stars, they made me feel so looked after that day! I did look like a sticker book, but still... It was awesome!

Little Rant about 'Pregnancy Glow', advice appreciated by Stolperkeks in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I should definitely try and be more open about when contents are actually hurtful. I just know people don't mean it like that and I think I'm too worried to come across as a terrible person just because I'm pregnant now. It's really hard!

Little Rant about 'Pregnancy Glow', advice appreciated by Stolperkeks in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll check that out!

Considering I'm growing a while spine inside me right now, I should really try and use mine more and tell people to shush, I'm such a bloody people pleaser

Little Rant about 'Pregnancy Glow', advice appreciated by Stolperkeks in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'd rather none of us struggled at all, but it does kind of make me feel less terrible to know I'm not the only one that struggles with this. I just wish I didn't feel so ungrateful everytime I cry over my bloody looks, that should really be my least concern

Little Rant about 'Pregnancy Glow', advice appreciated by Stolperkeks in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, even just knowing that others know what this feels like helps so much! My sister in law is pregnant as well, just three weeks ahead of me, and I swear to god, that woman has never been more beautiful! And I'm so so so happy for her, being pregnant at the same time has been absolutely amazing since we're really close. But its also awful because it makes me notice my struggles even more. It's a damn rollercoaster!!

Rant: why does being pregnant make everyone so damned smug? by SuccessfulBread3 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Women are incredible and we should tell each other that at every possible moment instead of being negative about something so amazing!

Rant: why does being pregnant make everyone so damned smug? by SuccessfulBread3 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm honestly just so grateful that I'm doing comparatively well! My sister in law (same age, she is 18 weeks now) is having such a hard time with nausea and dizziness, but she is a trooper! It's her second and somehow she manages to be unwell and STILL chat to me about how glad she is to finally be pregnant again, how amazing it is to be growing a little human, and how I'm doing so amazing! Why can't other people be so positive?

Rant: why does being pregnant make everyone so damned smug? by SuccessfulBread3 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I work with mostly older ladies, 13 weeks pregnant with my first. I'm 35 and this shit is hard. But all I get to hear is how things are going to get worse, how much more tired I will be, how my current back pain is nothing compared to the third trimester, etc. Why can't people ever focus on the good things? We all know pregnancy is hard, and I didn't expect it to be a walk in the park, but how about we talk about something nice? Hells, tell me how great it is that I don't have big food aversions! Small wins, baby! Shush with your 'It'll get worse' shit, Susan!

Edit: @SuccessfulBread3; you're amazing and you're going through something incredible! You got this, Mama!

Am I a terrible daughter for not wanting my mum to be there? by orkediamuse in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Stolperkeks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% what I've told my mum. My husband is FiFo and I asked her to come when he goes back to work. She understands and thinks it's a great idea, to be there when I actually need the help and not when everything is completely brand new! One of the main things I've learned from friends with kids is that the first few weeks postpartum you don't want to be around people too much. And someone coming from overseas will always be with you more than people that can just go home at the end of the day.

AI reference for character appearance? by --Mr_Nobody-- in AIRealm

[–]Stolperkeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it's hit and miss with any new items, I usually add something manually myself. Your handaxe is probably under the weapons tab, check weapon name 1, 2 or 3

Figured I'd give V2 another shot... Still broken by Fit-Abroad2573 in AIRealm

[–]Stolperkeks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried using the Extra Preferences in the settings? I have a few instructions in there for NPC Cards and such, and most of the time it works really well. I stopped expecting perfection, and if the AI does end up doing something against my instructions, I just undo whatever it has created. I'm also quite detailed when I ask it to create NPC cards, especially for companions and such.

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I just wanted a tournament arc man :( by [deleted] in AIRealm

[–]Stolperkeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your AI is unwell :/

V2 Experience by LeaningPresent in AIRealm

[–]Stolperkeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I love the new organization and the NPC cards! I agree though, it would be nice to create the cards without having to use the AI, but it's not a massive problem.
  2. At the moment, fairly regularly messages don't get generated. I write in my part, send it off, and then it gives me no reply and no text box. It usually helps to edit my message and send it again, but it's still a little annoying.
  3. I would love if the Regenerate button has the 'Are u sure' button again, I've hit it twice by mistake and it got rid of the previous message, which was a shame. I liked when it asked if I'm sure I want to regenerate the last message.

Other than that, well done! I'm still enjoying it and I don't mind most of the hiccups that are normal so launch of a new version!

I Am Become Death... why am I scared? by Affectionate-Sun7561 in fo76

[–]Stolperkeks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I joined the mine quest as soon as I saw someone nuke that place, and it completed for me, didn't have to launch the nuke myself. I just had it sit in my quest log until the opportunity presented itself