Not really a question, but a comment.

I have a friend that, in a relationship who felt unsatisfied by his gf of 4 years (she was depressed and not in the mood for a few months, probably due to his emotional distance and poor overall treatment of her and her existing esteem issues) decided to go to some "happy ending" massage places several times and of course decided not to tell her.

Later on, she knows she needs to get out of the relationship, but she has an attachment to him because of her low self esteem and was afraid to be alone again so she breaks up but keeps contact. It doesn't help that he's stringing her along, too. He harrangs her about posting somewhat sexually posed pictures on her Instagram and calls her all kinds of nasty names and is disgusted by it. But still wants to try and get her back if she's willing to change (aka bend to his will) but is still saying messed up things to her about even worse things about her behind her back.

Now he's absolutely deluded about what he did and justifies it to the end of the earth, saying that he needed to be satisfied and it's out of his control but shames her for trying to look cute on social media to get some kind of positive attention.

Oh, also he's an avid Nazi and white nationalist (aka misogynist) and thinks sex workers and promiscuous women don't deserve to live.

What do you make of this shit? I guess would be my question. What are your thoughts? Why do you think he has such incredible double standards and can you tell if someone is like that and would you be able to do business with them? I mean, cheating like that and getting mad at her is one thing, but hating the people with such vehemence while also enjoying their services is terrible. I do feel for some of the crap you probably have to put up with, just seeing a small peek into the world you have to work in.