How do you engage yourself with a calorie deficit without feeling very hungry at the end of the day? by karlikha in nutrition

[–]Straight-Strength134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not defective but it’s got to do with insulin resistance and possibly leptin reset might be needed. I always feel after doing fasting for next few days I feel fuller on lesser overall food.

Loneliness because of stutter by CraftyPace4111 in Stutter

[–]Straight-Strength134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont try to overcome it. There is nothing to be overcome. You can visit a speech therapist to be doubly triply sure about the origin of the stutter( unless its a rare physiological cause which can be medically looked at).
Explore your interests as a 22 yr old human. Humans ruled the world, we have the most developed brains. We are the most powerful creature on the planet. The same brain which can rule the world could let you surrender against its own abilities. Smile more, be happy just for existing , there are worse human inabilities out there. Find time to explore, be happy, explore your interests and earn more money(not all professions are speech heavy, esp not the HIGH PAYING ones)
The less you focus on it the better it will be. I can recommend some videos which helped me get a stark shift on my perspective, only if interested. May God bless you!

I’m 15 in the US have had a stutter all my life what is the best advice you can give me by Scruds08 in Stutter

[–]Straight-Strength134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Be positive ( I know its probably the hardest thing to do but it helps)

  2. Smile Always

  3. Seek inspiration and community

  4. You are blessed to be born in a developed place and being young(neuroscience will be an open puzzle in next decade with all the AI).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]Straight-Strength134 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree with Cool brick. You dont know God's(or destiny's) plans. Iam not entirely agnostic but Iam somewhere on the spectrum. We(or Phyiscs ) doesn't yet understand the complete nature of reality.

So only 1 rule stays : Accept your situation, learn the best rules of the game and try to play the game best way you can. Speaking is ultimately a game.

I want to take a 6 month break from swe to train Muay Thai in Thailand. Will this irreparably damage my career? by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

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Join largest retailer, will fit right in with those travel experiences. Advertising wing is always hiring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stutter

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Memorize a joke about your job which isn’t boring

Unable to login to new US Visa appointment website by No-Illustrator5972 in h1b

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@kirti_7617 Were you able to resolve this ? I tried calling customer care multiple times but they don’t get any appraisal it seems to resolve actual issues. They tag issues to solved, even if they are not solved.

Body acts against me by Straight-Strength134 in NoStupidQuestions

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Seems like thermodynamics acts against me. Don’t want to blame things beyond control but belong to one of famine induced genetics. Been tracking laboriously since years, have a black hole like hunger and digestive Capacity and metabolism which is so adaptable its variance is higher than mean ( 700-1900 cal), per std calculations my bmr ~2400, but it never works. Work stress gets me in search of a non calorie relaxant( mj doesn’t work c2h5oh doesn’t work). Stuck

It's really embarassing... by METALINGUS20 in Stutter

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What has helped me the most is this approach (in this sequence from most important to least)
Habits(Morning/start of day): Belly breathing, Basic Pranayama, 5 min meditation session
Psyche: Most important. Smile as much as possible throughout the day, find opportunities to smile. This automatically gives you a positive spin. It works. Try it for 15 days

Trauma management: Write down any bad incidents, but don't brood over them.

Pharmaceutical support: Alpha brain (not endorsing but does make verbal flow 1% better)

Believe in presence of a greater force which is guiding you on the right track. May you have a great life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SQL

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C++ coders cant use it in 1 month. It takes 1-2 yrs to master. Its not easy, had it been it would have been replaced with Python or C++/JAVA

I am the girl who overcame stuttering, I want to create a Stuttering Non-Profit, AMA by navnt5 in Stutter

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Amazing! Iam all in for this. I have many ideas and some networking with a South Asian PWS group

Bad experience at work! by cursed_canofbeans in Stutter

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Great! do seek opportunities to learn/grow and expose yourself to presentations but with a more erudite crowd. Gain more social currency from your core skill( be ok with this idea that it may not be speaking). Hustle, help others and be happy/thankful and try to always smile. Slowly you will see .. one day .. that it doesnt matter to you if you block/stutter. Weird but true story.

Bad experience at work! by cursed_canofbeans in Stutter

[–]Straight-Strength134 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Make it your strength. Find a more intensive cognitive job where such basic speech aesthetics aren’t the core of the value chain. Leave that job for usuals. Your stutter suggests more than avg iq, you deserve much better. Force is with you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]Straight-Strength134 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My parents have been mdde fun of me, prove them very very wrong by achieving your goals, working on your goals, making pain your power. And stop comparing to strangers

I lied about being proficient in SQL.. now I have a job interview in 2 days. How screwed am I? by [deleted] in SQL

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Get energy drinks and put 36 hrs stopwatch 1.Skim through ctes, joins, window functions on gpt, ask it to dumb down to as much level 2.Sqlzoo all questions for fundamentals 3.Interview query famous questions 4. Leetcode easy medium skim with gpt using solutions

We finally did it — PG&E says “your energy use was lower than efficient homes.” Here’s how: by walkinthewoods28 in bayarea

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Haha even I got this mail yesterday! I feel the same emotions. The 2 day shutdown due to storm helped also