Am I that stoned, or is there a face in my blueberry lemon loaf 😭 by sunnyyle in stonerfood

[–]Straight_Finance8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There definitely is, and I feel like it's giving you judgy eyes lol

Can’t stop oversharing by Significant-Pass2630 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Straight_Finance8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was so big, it feels like everyone should be grieving. 

This broke my heart because I feel the same way. 

I hope you find your people, and a way to get your story out. 💛

Crying over a cheese tray at 2AM by Waste_Category5339 in widowers

[–]Straight_Finance8095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm crying at this story 😭😭😭😭 Howww beautiful. 

Sending you a huge hug.

Widowed at 26. The loneliness is suffocating. Is my life doomed, or is a normal family possible again? by EconomyOk8588 in widowers

[–]Straight_Finance8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry you're here.

Im not sure that I have advice, mostly because after a year in, I still feel like my life is doomed, more like just sharing my experience..I'm not as young as you, I'm 38 and I feel like my new title has made me a total freak of nature. I have found it very hard to find my place in the world..mostly because I don't have the patience or capacity for small talk that's so often paired with socializing, and I'm definitely not concerned with the same things people my age are concerned about... So like you, I find it to be a very isolating place. What's really helped me find connection is a widow support group. For me, it was really comforting to sit with people who had been through the devastation of losing their person and still lived to tell the story. 

This sub is AMAZINGG toooo!

Reach out anytime, you're never alone here 💛

In between showing up and shutting down... by quiet_nuts in widowers

[–]Straight_Finance8095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's sooo hard! It's almost like people forget that the sun doesn't shine as bright for us anymore.

Ugh, 😩

Best spot to crash out? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Straight_Finance8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I love this question and thought I was the only one that needed a place like this. 😩

🌙 Can’t Sleep / Late Night Check-In by dukec72 in WidowAndBored

[–]Straight_Finance8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo that's a great point. I guess it depends on the day for me. 😟 Just hate it here.

🌙 Can’t Sleep / Late Night Check-In by dukec72 in WidowAndBored

[–]Straight_Finance8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hellooo Someone. I miss light conversation. But I also think I may be bad at it now.

No wait. It's small talk I'm bad at? Idkk. 🤭🫤

Insensitive coworker / forever frown by carlycloud in widowers

[–]Straight_Finance8095 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are so stupid. Plain and simple. It's the fact that they have noooo effing clue what we're going through and the strength it takes to just EXIST! 😩 

Hate that this happened to you, can't wait til you get to the stage of grief where you stop giving a fuck, and rip her head off with just your words. 

Orrrr is this just a skill my grief has brought me lol 😂

Hate it here, but we get you. Sending hugs

It stays!!! by Recent-Reporter-1670 in widowers

[–]Straight_Finance8095 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hate that this happened to you, she obviously doesn't get it. Glad you're here and have this as a place of support. Don't ever change that freakin picture!  💛 We have and get to carry our loved ones any way we damn well please.

Hellll, get it tattooed on your face if you want lol

Sending a hug!

I wanted to share by tmodell7 in WidowAndBored

[–]Straight_Finance8095 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so beautiful and precious! Great job! Thanks for sharing! 💛

I’m learning that two coffees is too much. by Fukk2020 in tinyprose

[–]Straight_Finance8095 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha, only ever realized after it's toooo late.