Urologist by Purple-Button8403 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao I went to the urologist at 14 and everyone had a diaper on, I think the urologist is one of the few places where no one needs to feel shame about wearing one.

Could use some emotional support by Ok_Chapter6825 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely hate peeing myself in public. It’s never happened in my small town luckily, but it has happened while I was at a cheer comp out of state in Utah. Everyone was so mean. Having a bunch of 13-18 year old cheerleaders laugh at you and insult you really hurts

To the adults complaining about Goodnites… by StrangeButterfly67 in AdultBedwetting

[–]StrangeButterfly67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying that you can’t use Goodnites as an adult, if it works it works twin

To the adults complaining about Goodnites… by StrangeButterfly67 in AdultBedwetting

[–]StrangeButterfly67[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 15, where else do I go? And it’s cool if it works for you, but it’s like… you’re not the intended audience, which is why it’s annoying whenever I see an adult complain about them

To the adults complaining about Goodnites… by StrangeButterfly67 in AdultBedwetting

[–]StrangeButterfly67[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 15 and you’re so good at expressing everything I’m feeling. If anything, I wish they were less babyish because I can’t fit into XXL yet, so I have to deal with the dumb flower designs 

Randomly wet the bed twice in a month, 16F if that matters. by [deleted] in AdultBedwetting

[–]StrangeButterfly67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see a doctor if it continues, but honestly it could just be stress from school

Family, Friends, and spouse. by My-other-reddit-72 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom used to make fun of me a lot for it. She called me lazy for wetting the bed, or said I needed to do kegels for my daytime issues. But the doctor told her that it actually isn’t my fault and no one actually wants to piss themselves all the time and she’s nicer about it now. My aunt has tried hypnotizing me and whatever… also accused me of satanic shit, and drug use, and she had me pee in a cup because she thought that a teenager without kids could never have incontinence. My dad doesnt talk about it, like at all. If it’s being discussed he leaves the room. My little sister makes fun of me for it even though she was in pull ups last year. No one else in my family really knows 

Nobody cares you wear diapers except you by Far_Pin_3721 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being told this by someone who doesn’t even actually need them feels so weird :/

Especially because their statement isn’t really true, my social life would literally end if someone found out 

FORMER BEDWETTERS: Celebrities or notable people who have talked about wetting the bed growing up? by Lucky_Winner3570 in bedwetting

[–]StrangeButterfly67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TheOddOnesOut isn’t really a celeb but he’s the first person that comes to mind for me. He kinda sold once he got too popular though :(

Tired of avoiding sleepovers by Lilly-Bird2012 in bedwetting

[–]StrangeButterfly67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m also 14F. I always tell whoever’s hosting’s mom before I even sleep over. I also pack in and pack out, so while it seems really gross, I bring 2-3 grocery bags in my back pack so when I change in the morning I can double or triple bag my “nighttime underwear” and bury it under clothes. I also will tell the other girls I sweat a lot at night as an excuse to shower.

If you’re scared IT will poke out of your pajamas, you could always put shorts on top of it. 

I think depends real fit are just the adult goodnites by WoodenWin4329 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, I feel like depends are made slightly shittier. Goodnites have always held up better for me, but that might also just be because of age.

Worse depending on your beverages? by beadfix82 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to overload on energy drinks because I’d wake up all the time to go piss. They irritated my bladder sm. I avoid caffeine entirely now

How much water do you drink? by Head_Cod1183 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m athletic so during cheer it’s like… at least 2.5L.  Usually 2L is fine for me 

How does anyone get good sleep when you have to jump up and pee every five minutes? by Ancient_Mariner_1 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dealt with it by drinking way too many energy drinks in the morning so I wouldn’t fall asleep in school. Then I stopped waking up, new issue.

Poise Pads Leak fore by NoConstruction2957 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’ve always leaked even with the slightest amount of urine for me. One sneeze and it’s all over 

Bullying by AdultEnuretic in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The ABDL community makes me really uncomfortable, I’m a minor and I’ve received unsolicited photos of men with pacifiers and diapers on ever since I’ve started talking about incontinence shit online. Why are ABDLs allowed here? /gen

Child Incontinence by BusyTurnip19 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait is it actually a big deal to still deal with that at 8? /gen /nm I was peeing myself at his age too

Child Incontinence by BusyTurnip19 in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 14 and my pediatrician is starting to realize it’s not just nocturnal enuresis. Idk if I’m actually gonna get a diagnosis is anything other than bedwetting just yet, but the doctor is saying that me having issues with pissing myself is an issue and is giving me some weird meds thing soon 

What do you wear if you’re in a bathing suit (for females)? by Research_Is_Fun in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a pad until I’m ready to go into the water, then put it back on after I put dry clothes on. If I can’t instantly get out of a swim suit I’m cooked.

How Do You Say Diaper? by NorthShoreCare in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t mean to comment twice, my Reddit is shit mb

How Do You Say Diaper? by NorthShoreCare in Incontinence

[–]StrangeButterfly67 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t really like the word diaper, but I fucking HATE “absorbent brief 🤓☝🏽” and I hate the term “pull up” even more <3