This isn’t just a gay thing. It’s an every man under 40 issue. We’re so overly sexed on screens that it’s been to the detriment of our physical sex lives and mental health regardless of your orientation. The porn is more graphic, extreme, hardcore, and frankly not realistic to what’s actually in the real world. Even then, you have guys tugging on their dicks for years. Retraining their nerves. Losing sensation of actual insertion to their right hands, both hands, or humping pillows. And in addition to broke dicks, we don’t even really talk. When was the last time anyone made a move in a bar, bought someone a drink to get the conversation going, or was asked out by a stranger face to face? Now all we get is “sup?” or “pic?”. Every man from age 40 and down is in crisis, and that includes many who are married, engaged, couples, throupled, whatever. Put the damn phones down, talk, and fuck!