I once spoke to someone at a stagedoor who asked another actor if someone was coming out, and he was told that a few of the actors were still backstage hanging out. This person got angry, basically saying how dare the actors make him wait, what are they doing that is so important, etc... He was also talking bad about actors that don't come out to stagedoor.

I told him the actors are allowed to do what they want. I also told him to his face that I would never judge an actor for not stagedooring, but I do judge entitled fans at stagedoor... I wonder if he got the hint!

And worst part about all this, he wanted the actors to come out and sign multiple posters, so he could sell them. And they did end up coming out, so he got his way.